ever had a girl give you her number, but....

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Wait you were talking about politics and philosophy??

nah, but talking about different things... it was never straight politics or straight philosophy.... but we were talking about life, ya know...we talked about men, talked about women, stuff like that

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

If she was hesitant give her your number..she calls or she don't take call

wait, hol up... there was never any hesitation of any kind. That's my point. If there was hesitation, I could be like, "okay, well she ain't really wanna give me her number anyway"

But in each of the cases I'm talking about, she was eager to give me her number.... like, I asked for it... and she was like, "here take it"

and then don't wanna talk when I call

Had me like

And I always asked them if they had a bf already, all of them told me no...

The last time it happened, I was doing a favor for ole girl at my place of employment, and she was all hugging on a brotha, talkin extra sweet, "thank you, thank you" blah blah

So at the end of it when she's about to go, I'm like, "you married or involved? you got a man?"

she tells me "no" and then tells me to call her

but when I call, she wouldn't wanna talk



She was a straight 10 too, brehs.... I admit, I wanted that...

 

[Still Benefited]

Yea thats w hy you should ask them out on spot if you have the time. Or at least allude to do doing something together. BE like "ima call u and we can go get lunch, gimme your number" that way when u call she wont expect a long talk, she'll expect to set up a date.

This is how nikkas end up paying for dates with uninterested bytches...OP aint out of any of his time or money

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

wait, hol up... there was never any hesitation of any kind. That's my point. If there was hesitation, I could be like, "okay, well she ain't really wanna give me her number anyway"

But in each of the cases I'm talking about, she was eager to give me her number.... like, I asked for it... and she was like, "here take it"

and then don't wanna talk when I call

Had me like

And I always asked them if they had a bf already, all of them told me no...

The last time it happened, I was doing a favor for ole girl at my place of employment, and she was all hugging on a brotha, talkin extra sweet, "thank you, thank you" blah blah

So at the end of it when she's about to go, I'm like, "you married or involved? you got a man?"

she tells me "no" and then tells me to call her

but when I call, she wouldn't wanna talk



She was a straight 10 too, brehs.... I admit, I wanted that...

Be honest yourself you were just happy getting the number and looking forward to calling after 48hrs


Could of went and took her to a coffee or back home If you were bold

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

nah, but talking about different things... it was never straight politics or straight philosophy.... but we were talking about life, ya know...we talked about men, talked about women, stuff like that

Deep talk...suppose to make that hoe laugh and fukk

Not talk about Alexander the great

 

[HiphopRelated]

I thought this would be about getting the number then not calling, that probably happens to me more often than it should

 

[Heretic]

It happens breh. I have yet to fully understand women. I met a girl last month and we talked and set up a date went out twice and we had fun and shyt and then we just stopped talking all of a sudden. I just left it alone thinking she was uninterested, she hit me up with that "hey stranger" text asking where I've been. I replied like "I hit u up twice with no response so I figured u found something better to do or didn't wanna talk.". She says something along the lines of "you didn't really pursue outside of texting me so I figured some other girls had your attention". All I could say is, if I text and u don't respond what do u expect. She wanted me to chase her so we texted a little bit more and all she did whenever the opportunity arose was ask about other girls and stuff like that so I eventually returned the favor and stopped responding. Last week I get a text from her saying, "if you wonder why I had reservations about you, this is exactly why, I hope you have fun with whoever has your attention". I never responded back.

I have had instances where girls act brand new after I get the number but mostly they just question me to the point where I get frustrated and say aiight I'll hit u up later and never talk to them again.

 

[WaveGang]

I got this chicks number saturday 8/10 fine fine foooooine.. she said whatsapp me sunday, was feeling on her ass in the club and all sorts

I called sunday and no pick up, no msg bk or nothing

left it til monday night and text, and now we're having a good convo

this thread made me msg her, too much negative vibes. think positive

 

[DarlingNikki]

It happens breh. I have yet to fully understand women. I met a girl last month and we talked and set up a date went out twice and we had fun and shyt and then we just stopped talking all of a sudden. I just left it alone thinking she was uninterested, she hit me up with that "hey stranger" text asking where I've been. I replied like "I hit u up twice with no response so I figured u found something better to do or didn't wanna talk.". She says something along the lines of "you didn't really pursue outside of texting me so I figured some other girls had your attention". All I could say is, if I text and u don't respond what do u expect. She wanted me to chase her so we texted a little bit more and all she did whenever the opportunity arose was ask about other girls and stuff like that so I eventually returned the favor and stopped responding. Last week I get a text from her saying, "if you wonder why I had reservations about you, this is exactly why, I hope you have fun with whoever has your attention". I never responded back.

I have had instances where girls act brand new after I get the number but mostly they just question me to the point where I get frustrated and say aiight I'll hit u up later and never talk to them again.

It's because I message them and say I'm pregnant with your baby, duh.

 

[Heretic]

It's because I message them and say I'm pregnant with your baby, duh.

in that case then fukk 'em

 

[CinnaSlim]

Sometimes we change our minds, or we meet somebody else. Or we're just busy. A lot of times I'll look at a text and be like 'let me hit him back later' and forget.

Point is, if you were a priority then you would be on her mind. If youre just an option, then you are not that important to her.

Personally, sometimes I don't answer because I just had one conversation with dude, it's not like we're friends. I don't owe him an explanation and either way he's gonna get the message.
Another reason I started to ignore dudes is because if you start that conversation of telling someone your not interested anymore then they want to know why, or try to change your mind. They come out with that you ain't even give me a chance, or you missing out.

If I'm not interested, I'm not trying to waste time going back and forth.

I just think it comes down to a a numbers game. The more options a girl has the less valuable you are to her because she always has another one in the pocket.

 

[Heretic]

Sometimes we change our minds, or we meet somebody else. Or we're just busy. A lot of times I'll look at a text and be like 'let me hit him back later' and forget.

Point is, if you were a priority then you would be on her mind. If youre just an option, then you are not that important to her.

Personally, sometimes I don't answer because I just had one conversation with dude, it's not like we're friends. I don't owe him an explanation and either way he's gonna get the message.
Another reason I started to ignore dudes is because if you start that conversation of telling someone your not interested anymore then they want to know why, or try to change your mind. They come out with that you ain't even give me a chance, or you missing out.

If I'm not interested, I'm not trying to waste time going back and forth.

I just think it comes down to a a numbers game. The more options a girl has the less valuable you are to her because she always has another one in the pocket.

I'd cry if u did that to me

 

[CinnaSlim]

I'd cry if u did that to me

I wouldn't do that to you because ur sexy.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

If we hit it off and the conversation was memorable, I just give them my number and try to be cute when I name the contact




If she calls........

 

[Heretic]

I wouldn't do that to you because ur sexy.

self esteem on swole