ever had a girl give you her number, but....

[mcdivit85]

Solution: give her your number and tell her to call you

The issue in the OP is common because women hand out their numbers like churches hand out Bible tracts. Women love attention, so they like having random men texting/calling them. They'll act like they hate it, but they love hearing that phone go off....it's like a constant reminder that she's "got it."

Giving her your number and telling her a time to call you eliminates ALL of that. If she calls you, then you know that she's interested and you know that setting up a date will be easy.

Sure, she may not call. But if she doesn't call, then you would be getting the results without the frustration.

Peace

 

[blackzeus]

bytch had that post-thot clarity OP is fukked nohomo

Spoiler

The only clarity in a thot's head is in the form of a mental image of a diamond she think's she's gonna get from you for performing her thot activities

 

[blackzeus]

that's what tariq elite says

who the f*ck is tariq elite?

Spoiler

that's a cold azz name though

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

who the f*ck is tariq elite?

Spoiler

that's a cold azz name though

Tariq Nasheed http://www.tariqradio.com/ nikka spits game and speaks on the struggle

 

[mcdivit85]

wait, hol up... there was never any hesitation of any kind. That's my point. If there was hesitation, I could be like, "okay, well she ain't really wanna give me her number anyway"

But in each of the cases I'm talking about, she was eager to give me her number.... like, I asked for it... and she was like, "here take it"

and then don't wanna talk when I call

Had me like

And I always asked them if they had a bf already, all of them told me no...

The last time it happened, I was doing a favor for ole girl at my place of employment, and she was all hugging on a brotha, talkin extra sweet, "thank you, thank you" blah blah

So at the end of it when she's about to go, I'm like, "you married or involved? you got a man?"

she tells me "no" and then tells me to call her

but when I call, she wouldn't wanna talk



She was a straight 10 too, brehs.... I admit, I wanted that...

You doing too much from the jump. Favors for some random chick? Oh, and I like how you slid that "she was a 10" at the end as if we didn't already know that....because that's why you were doing her a favor in the first place.

Also, don't ask about her having a dude or being married. At the point of first interaction, that's none of your business. You're not marrying this chick, you're not cementing a relationship with this chick, you haven't even gotten a date with this chick....you're just hoping to exchange contacts with the chick. So, keep it extremely simple and non-commital.

First, never go out of your way for a chick you just met. No matter how pretty she is. Good will is earned and reciprocated.

Second, keep the initial convo short, sweet and extremely light. No talk of possible boyfriends or husbands. It's about you and her....not about anybody else.

Third, casually offer her your number/card. No pressure, no twinkle in your eyes, no "can I get yo numba....please....can I have it?" type sh#t.

Closing statement after BRIEF convo: "Hey, it's been nice talking but I have some business I need to handle"(always end convo first and seem to have more important things to do than talk to her). "But we should keep in touch.....maybe do coffee some time"(coffee is casual and is basically code word for date). "Here's my card, shoot me a call tomorrow night around 9...we'll talk then. Bye." (Confidently outstretch your hand with the card, expect her to take it because she will and smile as you leave her)

- Sidebar: this also works online as well. Just alter for the environment.

But always keep it brief and always give her your number and let her choose.

Peace

 

[Mr. Somebody]

when you call, ole girl basically don't wanna talk?

Here's the scenario (happened on 3 diff occasions)

struck up a nice convo with a woman... at the end, I ask for the digits... she's smiling, gives them to me... then when I call a day or so later, I say "hey" she says "who's this" I tell her it's "neotheflyingone" she says "okay, Imma give you a call back"

But I never hear back. Had it happen at least 3 times on 3 different occasions....

I don't get it. Why give me the digits if you don't wanna talk?

Just tell a brotha "no"

I'm a big boy, I can handle it.

She reluctantly gave you her number and just needed attention

She heard your voice and realized you werent her type

You werent sayin the right thing to ignite her personality.

Shes a demon

Which one is it, friend.

 

[Bunchy Carter]

I never had that happen to me because I come out side swanggin.....the ladies know what time it is

 

[blackzeus]

Man bytches crazy.....

Kinda happened in reverse to me....

When I first got to japan, there was this bad bytch in my orientation class. After it was over, I went over to talk with her while we waited for our sponsors to pick us up. We chatted for 30 minutes until my ride showed up. I asked her if she wanted a ride from us she said no so I said cool. Told her It was nice to meet her then proceeded to get in the car. As we was pulling off, she ran to the car and said "here take my number" I'm like cool...so I call her about 6 times...she answered once and took my number and said she'd call me back. Never did.....
I seen her around for 2 years and she never spoke to me once. Would not even look at me....I'm thinking we'll bytch why did you give me your number when I didn't ask for it?

You never chase a bish by calling her, that's one of the few benefits of the 10s, you can message her so you say what you want to say, and she responds when she feels like it. You DEFINITELY should have chased her in person though and asked her what was up. Better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all

 

[Maddmike]

You never chase a bish by calling her, that's one of the few benefits of the 10s, you can message her so you say what you want to say, and she responds when she feels like it. You DEFINITELY should have chased her in person though and asked her what was up. Better to have loved and lost then never to have loved at all

I really wasn't that intrested. At the time I had stopped fukkin with military hoes period. This was back in 2002 so me calling her and not getting a answer didn't matter. She had no way of knowing I called until I talked to her....

But you right. I should have asked her for the number there and then. She was a 9 at least. Mabe it insulted her that I didn't

 

[illadope]

This happened to me the other day, so I fukked her friend instead.

 

[Jesus Shuttlesworth]

when you call, ole girl basically don't wanna talk?

Here's the scenario (happened on 3 diff occasions)

struck up a nice convo with a woman... at the end, I ask for the digits... she's smiling, gives them to me... then when I call a day or so later, I say "hey" she says "who's this" I tell her it's "neotheflyingone" she says "okay, Imma give you a call back"

But I never hear back. Had it happen at least 3 times on 3 different occasions....

I don't get it. Why give me the digits if you don't wanna talk?

Just tell a brotha "no"

I'm a big boy, I can handle it.

Where you meeting these women, breh?

 

[TRFG]

Man bytches crazy.....

Kinda happened in reverse to me....

When I first got to japan, there was this bad bytch in my orientation class. After it was over, I went over to talk with her while we waited for our sponsors to pick us up. We chatted for 30 minutes until my ride showed up. I asked her if she wanted a ride from us she said no so I said cool. Told her It was nice to meet her then proceeded to get in the car. As we was pulling off, she ran to the car and said "here take my number" I'm like cool...so I call her about 6 times...she answered once and took my number and said she'd call me back. Never did.....
I seen her around for 2 years and she never spoke to me once. Would not even look at me....I'm thinking we'll bytch why did you give me your number when I didn't ask for it?

 

[RiffRaff]

Sometimes we change our minds, or we meet somebody else. Or we're just busy. A lot of times I'll look at a text and be like 'let me hit him back later' and forget.

Point is, if you were a priority then you would be on her mind. If youre just an option, then you are not that important to her.

Personally, sometimes I don't answer because I just had one conversation with dude, it's not like we're friends. I don't owe him an explanation and either way he's gonna get the message.
Another reason I started to ignore dudes is because if you start that conversation of telling someone your not interested anymore then they want to know why, or try to change your mind. They come out with that you ain't even give me a chance, or you missing out.

If I'm not interested, I'm not trying to waste time going back and forth.

I just think it comes down to a a numbers game. The more options a girl has the less valuable you are to her because she always has another one in the pocket.

And we can't really get mad at yall for having this mentality. Unless of course you out giving your number with no intention of replying, that's some hoe shyt.

Honestly I've just been trying to play the game like a female(). Keep my options open. The girl back home for the summer, started sending me mixed signals so I stopped texting her. The girl I met at the bar last night never hit me back so the bushes she goes. I got a girls number off Twitter today we will see where that goes. I'm going to holla at this snowbunny that comes to my gym tomorrow. Eventually something is gonna break without too much stressing and work. Good chance those first couple fall in line later, and look at that, now I've got a roster .

Easier on the mind and easier to get puss when you got options, why do you think females do it?

 

[blackzeus]

I really wasn't that intrested. At the time I had stopped fukkin with military hoes period. This was back in 2002 so me calling her and not getting a answer didn't matter. She had no way of knowing I called until I talked to her....

But you right. I should have asked her for the number there and then. She was a 9 at least. Mabe it insulted her that I didn't

No breh, I meant that you should have told her you called and she never answered. Anyway I know how it feels to regret decisions you made that you thought was right at the time. I didn't realize who my first love was until after the fact, and I dumped her for a one night stand that turned into a one month fling that I never talked to after. I would give a lot to be able to rewind the clock 3 years and make things right

 

[Maddmike]

No breh, I meant that you should have told her you called and she never answered. Anyway I know how it feels to regret decisions you made that you thought was right at the time. I didn't realize who my first love was until after the fact, and I dumped her for a one night stand that turned into a one month fling that I never talked to after. I would give a lot to be able to rewind the clock 3 years and make things right

O I feel you. ...but nah at the time, my pride was like fukk that bytch. Mabe she could of been a special one but I doubt it. I would have fukked it up anyway messing with japanese chicks....And like I said I wasn't really intrested in military females anyway.