Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Been over relationships. As a woman this is what men want:

1. They want to be admired yet have nothing about them that's admirable

2. Want to "lead" yet have no track record if good leadership and a history of poor decisions

3. Want you to submit but never have a plan outside of just telling you what to do

4. Want children but don't even support proper natal health care and don't expect to actually help with the children

5. Want you do vast amounts of free labor while also contributing half the bills

6. Expect you to look good as they grow a fat belly

7. Want you to be happy with the ED

8. Don't want you to have success that doesn't benefit

9. Constantly need their ego stroked

10. Have to walk on egg shells constantly because they are so easily offended

11. Expect you to have no boundaries and constantly testing yours

12. Want your to put aside your needs to cater to them.

13. Want you to take an interest in the things they like but won't exchange the favor

14. Want you to their emotional dumpster but can't give you the same in return

15. Want to be sexist then expect you play mommy

16. Want to be stingy even when they have money

17. Expect you to tolerate their bad behavior for life because they did one thing for you.

Etc etc etc

And in exchange you get...what? Half the bills pays and maybe some dikk that's only decent less than 50% of the time.

The juice just isn't worth the squeeze.

Friendships are way more fulfilling at this point.

Relationships are basically a really shytty job that have little to no benefits.

Damn dear. I'm not mad though, none of that describes me and I wish you the best of luck.

 

[Apollo Creed]

She’s cute though…

Tall, West African looking mami…

chick a literal sex worker and y'all having relationship convo with here lmfao

 

[Apollo Creed]

Just get a foreign or nerdy/science introvert who isn't into the TikTok thottery....It is hard but possible...

The brain rot of social media has ruined all real-life expectations, dating included.

Women just want their man to be a Genie, appear out of nowhere and fix their problems, regardless of their behavior which is the crux of modern women, they are emotionally stunted creatures with the mentality of a 3 year old....

Cooked as a species...

The Western Social Media Cancer is spreading globally lol, unless you going to remote villages everyone is sharing the same. memes. The Thing is finding people from Strong Families because often those people can separate entertainment from reality. But the issue is AINT NOT STRONG FAMILIES like that lol.

You have Simp Fathers who are slaves to their family thus the women is raised than men are slaves meant to serve (these were often the chicks from what on the surface appears to be from a good two parent home, get to college and become whores thotting it up form men who are the opposite of their father because they have no respect for him as a man, and once they are done hoing seek a clean up man like their father).

Toxic Single Moms who traumatized their daughters where the daughter either hates their mom and grows up not being taught anything thus they go into the world clueless and make mistakes that have internal effects (or they have Stockholm syndrome where they have a weird love hate dynamic with their abuser mother).

 

[Apollo Creed]

And yet you couldn't keep him. At this point you are just out here, not trying to be married.
How you fumble a whole doctor with all that going on he has.

Yall can't keep a man to save your life

chick was exposed to selling p*ssy out of a fukking shack man, stop engaging.

 

[colicolicoli]

OP said everyone and somehow this thread became almost solely about women.

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

A lot of red flags are visible in the profile if you are using the apps

 

[NinoBrown]

chick was exposed to selling p*ssy out of a fukking shack man, stop engaging.

????

 

[The ADD]

OP said everyone and somehow this thread became almost solely about women.

^^^

 

[#1 pick]

I'm 41 dating a 28 year old. Not sure how long it's going to last. I know she wants a relationship, but I'm not there with her. She's cute, freak in the bed, but mentally were in 2 different places; she still trying to get a singing career popping. Granted she's actually nice, but I'm not on board for that shyt. If she was coachable I probably would see where we could go.

I been all over the spectrum in this last year, and it's all ended the same regardless if they liked me or I liked them.

It's a shytshow fellas. Dating in general is a shytshow now. It's a race to do the least, smash the fastest, get the most out of someone without being genuine, and then cutoff with no explanation or resolution.

I'm not jaded, because for what it's worth I'm trash too. I'm trying to make it a point to be more intentional in my dating, because I ultimately want to be back in something real. I've juggled women, because women are so fukking flakey. And the catch 22 is, that's probably why I'm still single; not putting my effort in one person and risking that they fall off. Doesn't matter if they are 25 to 52, I've literally dated everything in between and every shade and it all ends in someone flaking out.

These are all facts too. The end game is get out of the game but most people aren't worthy for at least what you directly need

 

[Apollo Creed]

????

they posted the google image screen trap of the trailer she worked at as a prostitute In Philly or DC or something. This was a few years ago she has had various exposals threads where they posted her YouTube channel, how she got a BBL and all this stuff and then her various identity crises.

 

[Braman]

This is precisely what it is for alot of these brehs. I don't encounter these types of women but I also don't put myself in proximity for it to even happen. Elevate yourself and then the type of women you encounter will elevate too.

you nikkas be saying any damn thing

@ this interaction. The OP was all facts but this has taken a left into some incel shyt.

The only problem nggas should have in dating is picking one. If you don’t have viable options that absolutely is on you, or you live in a shyt city

 

[O.T.I.S.]

Too many failed relationships and too much deadend dating.

Too many sexual experiences with too many different partners.

Still on and off with our exs.

Too much social media has warped your perception of what love and a relationship is.

Too much red pill or feminism.

If you're single at 30 and 40+ , that means you're an absolute 100% failure in the dating game. You've been on dozens of dates and nothing has worked out for u. Chances are very slim you'll find someone to make it work with. You're to bitter and stuck in yours ways and your standards from your prime.


There's a reason people got married so young, we weren't meant to date and sleep with so many people.





There are No happy endings for most of us .

Failure

I'm 41 dating a 28 year old. Not sure how long it's going to last. I know she wants a relationship, but I'm not there with her. She's cute, freak in the bed, but mentally were in 2 different places; she still trying to get a singing career popping. Granted she's actually nice, but I'm not on board for that shyt. If she was coachable I probably would see where we could go.

I been all over the spectrum in this last year, and it's all ended the same regardless if they liked me or I liked them.

It's a shytshow fellas. Dating in general is a shytshow now. It's a race to do the least, smash the fastest, get the most out of someone without being genuine, and then cutoff with no explanation or resolution.

I'm not jaded, because for what it's worth I'm trash too. I'm trying to make it a point to be more intentional in my dating, because I ultimately want to be back in something real. I've juggled women, because women are so fukking flakey. And the catch 22 is, that's probably why I'm still single; not putting my effort in one person and risking that they fall off. Doesn't matter if they are 25 to 52, I've literally dated everything in between and every shade and it all ends in someone flaking out.

this is what its like for a lot of us bruh

Even with family members, we doing the same shyt.

I was half-talking to a 32 year old who is trying to be an influencer


She had her own beauty business so I was entertaining it but of course it ended on dumb shyt.

And thats just one. I’m juggling as well… young or older because it is a risk to put all your eggs in one basket.

And these females be trying to do the same. Online dating is even worse.

 

[Ohene]

how excited are yall to sign up for this?

lol shorty a huge troll

 

[Scaaar]

@ this interaction. The OP was all facts but this has taken a left into some incel shyt.

The only problem nggas should have in dating is picking one. If you don’t have viable options that absolutely is on you, or you live in a shyt city

Breh is one of the king of incels on here. Which is no problem live how you want to. But he spends majority of his time spreading misery on the dating market because his options suck. It's never as black and white as people try to make it on both sides. It's nuances and layers. For instance we got the same brehs in here complaining about the 30 yr olds with multiple kids saying they want a younger chick not to lock down but to smash....this produces the very same problem they're griping about but they refuse to acknowledge it and only make excuses. But most of these dudes I've come to the conclusion don't actually interact with women outside of transactional situations. That's why it's always a tug-of-war of who can give the least while getting the most in their relationships. They're not truly trying to build a relationship they just want to smash without any regard to the responsibilities that come with it

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

OP said everyone and somehow this thread became almost solely about women.

And when a woman chimes in they turn into angry chihuahuas.