Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

[NO-BadAzz]

chick was exposed to selling p*ssy out of a fukking shack man, stop engaging.

Oh my

 

[Scaaar]

And when a woman chimes in they turn into angry chihuahuas.

When your name pops up the definitely start foaming at the mouth to go back and forth with you. The one they love to hate but also debate

 

[Apollo Creed]

@ this interaction. The OP was all facts but this has taken a left into some incel shyt.

The only problem nggas should have in dating is picking one. If you don’t have viable options that absolutely is on you, or you live in a shyt city

another nikka talking out of his ass.

Meanwhile US Statistics running a train on you nikkas idiotic narratives.

 

[Braman]

another nikka talking out of his ass.

Meanwhile US Statistics running a train on you nikkas idiotic narratives.

My ngga are you…are you fighting for the right for all men to be miserable


Godspeed man some of you sound like school shooters

 

[Vandelay]

Failure

this is what its like for a lot of us bruh

Even with family members, we doing the same shyt.

I was half-talking to a 32 year old who is trying to be an influencer


She had her own beauty business so I was entertaining it but of course it ended on dumb shyt.

And thats just one. I’m juggling as well… young or older because it is a risk to put all your eggs in one basket.

And these females be trying to do the same. Online dating is even worse.

100 at the bolded. Only reason I do it.

But I'm about to stop. It prevents the annoyance or disappointment when something doesn't work out, but that shyt will sabotage you too because you always have one foot out the door.

I'm optimistic, confident and content enough I'll find something... but I'd be lying if it didn't sting everytime some shyt falls apart with someone you thought you had a cool vibe and could build something with.

We're all treating each other like we're disposable. That shyt is toxic.

 

[cyndaquil]

That sweet spot I think is 30. I think psychologically a lot of women feel the pressure at that age and tend to be a lot more cooperative. I fukked it up with 2 women who had great careers, early 30s, great rapport, bodies were right, no kids, etc... I just didn't put all of my chips in and subsequently fukked it up because I was chasing other chicks simultaneously.

I'm trying to learn to be content by myself until I find another gem like that, it's just so few and far between... I did it before. Not sure why I have have this chronic compulsion to keep dating everything lately. The irony I'm finding is, women with kids tend to even be less cooperative then women without.

Didn't you just get out of a long term relationship?

agreed....

brehs gotta stop shopping for the phattest azz and get someone compatible.....

This means nothing. When these women change up on you. You can meet someone at 25 and date them for 5 years then all of a sudden they switch up.

Dog... They definitely... DEFINITELY don't reward that behavior. And I get every woman is different, but in 4 out 5 of them I can call it like clock work when they fall off. You show some vulnerability, indicate a stronger interest, or come off like you're not dating/capable of dating anyone else, something will self destruct and go awry and back to square one you go. And it's fukking beyond annoying.

This other chick I was talking to that I actually started to have interest in, we had a falling out 2 months ago, and it started with me and her starting to feel around what we were doing. shyt completely fell apart on some "should I be dating other people" "I need some space". And it wasn't me bringing the convo up, it started from some trivial shyt like I didn't hold the door open when we went to a dinner date... after 4 other flawless dates. I bring her up because she hit me up a little over a week ago and we started to go down the path of linking up again, but then I guess I told a corny "joke" and shortly self destructed again. Told her last week, I'm digging you but I'm not walking on eggshells in every interaction we have and left it like that.

To your point, I have to find one that I'm really interested in, put my effort in her and take a gamble. It sucks, because it can unravel... but at least I know I'm putting my best foot forward in that interaction.

Breh imma be honest with you here. That's what some of these women do. Self destruct. You are finding out exactly why she was single. That shyt is toxic and you dodged a bullet. Do you really want a woman who will pull back and self sabotage in your marriage?? No. The men that have to walk on eggshells in their marriage are the men who are the most unhappy. fukk all that.

 

[threattonature]

Kids. Failed relationships. They try to hide it but the eyes....they never lie Chico.


Burnt tf out. Next time I take a chic out it's gonna be a childless 25 year old anything else I'd be wasting my time

Yeah there's a bitterness in a lot of women (likely men too) over 30. People used to ask why I gravitated towards the younger women and it was 100% because they were more bright eyed and optimistic when it came to dating and a lot more fun. They weren't overly skeptical or didn't have the energy like they were just waiting on the other shoe to drop.

fukk all that.

Glad I’m not out there looking for a partner at my Larry Holmes age.



Glad I got all the p*ssy I wanted in my 20s and 30s and got that cheating itch scratched and survived with my wife by my side too.



Even in my 30s these women were burnt to a crisp looking for that one last fantasy fling before they fully embraced flabby and sickville. I can’t tell you how many newly separated and divorced pools I took a dip in. I had a helluva run.



I laugh at the brehs talking that dumb shyt about brehs “settling” because they’re afraid to be alone. When they get to 40+ and that blood pressure starts hitting a lil different and health starts to become a ticking clock, they’re gonna wish they had some children around them who love them and a woman down like 4 flat tires.



A whole generation tricked into a lonely old existence.

Nah nothing is worse than that look in men's eyes who have settled. Those that hate going home or find excuses to be out of the house just to get away from the wife or kids. Those dudes that are so beat down by their wife's nagging or constantly bugging them over nothing that they act like they got PTSD every time their phone rings.

 

[threattonature]

Men and women aren’t ready to have an honest conversation about mental health in the dating scene. A lot of head cases running from relationship to relationship without taking the time to heal from said relationships. Having an honest conversation with themselves. Self reflection. Seeking to improve for the next person.

Instead, women out here chasing a high. The dopamine hit. And fellas out here doing the same but to a lesser degree. As a man you are brainwashed into believing women are a certain way, until you find out the hard way that they are the complete opposite

People are broken because we are not meant to have all of these emotional experiences and attachments WITHOUT properly moving on and healing before beginning the next one.

This is too real. I took a long break from dating myself for the same reason. So many people want what they aren't ready to receive. I was dating out of boredom while not being ready to give up my single life. I had become to selfish and set in my ways so I took a break until i was really ready to have someone else in my life dating wise.

 

[cyndaquil]

Most single men/women over the age of 28 are single for a reason.

The most stable relationships with two good partners, college educated, by the time they’re 28 are already an into it a few years and maybe have 1 or more kids they’re raising together.

You aren’t going to keep up with them happy couples who have a solid foundation.

I hate hearing shyt like this becauss the one variable yall conveniently leave out is that people change. You can go years in a relationship from 22 to 30 and all of a sudden your partner is adopting different beliefs and values and changing with yall growing apart. Imagine if your partner became a staunch Trump supporter or a super devout fundamentalist evangelical? How would you stay in that relationship?

You basically have to come from that for that to work.

If you come from a stable two parent household where the parents actually did the job of raising you, its much easier to find that person in college.

But those are first rounders or lottery picks.

If you didnt have that, years of figuring shyt out.

It depends on where you went to college!

 

[O.T.I.S.]

100 at the bolded. Only reason I do it.

But I'm about to stop. It prevents the annoyance or disappointment when something doesn't work out, but that shyt will sabotage you too because you always have one foot out the door.

I'm optimistic, confident and content enough I'll find something... but I'd be lying if it didn't sting everytime some shyt falls apart with someone you thought you had a cool vibe and could build something with.

We're all treating each other like we're disposable. That shyt is toxic.

Yeah I feel that

I take breaks but thats just from online dating… which is complete trash.

Most of the females I’m dealing with I’ve atleast known for some time. Only thing that trips me up is distance. I move a lot so it has been hard to keep something stable.

New chicks are usually fried but I havent put in real effort after a few bad dates.

You're right though, that one foot in/ one foot out, juggling shyt is tiring as you get older but until something real comes along

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

When your name pops up the definitely start foaming at the mouth to go back and forth with you. The one they love to hate but also debate

Can you imagine if I didn't block so many of them? Every thread I come into would turn into me vs 10. At this point I have to block people just to help discussions stay on topic.

I have no idea why opinion matters so much to them.

I am completely harmless outside of my love for trolling. I don't use men for money. I'm not abusing any men (unless you count TLR). I don't lead men on. I'm not having children out of wedlock and I don't use public assistance.

I have the same smoke for women I have for men. I obviously enjoy the company of men because I come here regularly. I just don't want to be in a relationship with anyone.

I'm also everything they say a woman should NOT be.

You would think all of that would make men relatively uninteresting. But no. Lol

I should start a call in show. I would get monetized in a week. Let them nikkas just come and flame me and collect a check.

 

[Mowgli]

We were simps when we said get married bruhs.

Now you wish you'd simped n went and got married bruh.

 

[The ADD]

We were simps when we said get married bruhs.

Now you wish you'd simped n went and got married bruh.

 

[IIVI]

I hate hearing shyt like this becauss the one variable yall conveniently leave out is that people change. You can go years in a relationship from 22 to 30 and all of a sudden your partner is adopting different beliefs and values and changing with yall growing apart. Imagine if your partner became a staunch Trump supporter or a super devout fundamentalist evangelical? How would you stay in that relationship?

It depends on where you went to college!

Like I said in a follow-up post, I understand no doubt.

However, for people who want to be a certain place in life late 20’s/early 30’s is starting to get late in the game when they can see folks have been on that path in their mid 20’s already. One of my best friends was a legit urgent care doctor seeing patients at Kaiser in Culver City when he was 30. I wouldn’t call him a genius as that’s something many people of his age achieve (the very last school he applied to was the Medical School that accepted my friend).

There are not that many people going the traditional path to success who switch up so abruptly to go in a different direction of uncertainty and throw it all away, because they’re trained to be rooted in reality and have stable thinking early. I have two friends who knew they wanted to be a doctor even before they went to college and both of them became doctors. One of them knew it by the time they were in 4th grade.

This is coming from someone who didn’t get their life really going until their early 30’s. My regret is not starting sooner because I’d have been far ahead of where I am now and I’m doing well. I’m acing my Upper Division and Elective courses, holding down a full-time career and marriage, got a house(s), etc. That was something I could’ve done much easier with a fresh young brain if I had more maturity/discipline at the time and knew how to manage anxiety better: something some young people actually do have at that age.

That younger version of me would’ve been “that” person in my social circle, had a deeper and wider range of friends, etc. on top of the academic and professional success. That’s someone an A+ tier-woman around that age really wants.

It kind of comes back to what I said about “potential”: I had the potential to do that at the time (considering that’s what I’m doing right now with more difficult factors) but didn’t. I left a lot on the table and many successful A+ women don’t want to leave that on the table, they want to actually live it in their 20’s, 30’s and on. Can’t blame someone preferring that.

 

[Scaaar]

Can you imagine if I didn't block so many of them? Every thread I come into would turn into me vs 10. At this point I have to block people just to help discussions stay on topic.

I have no idea why opinion matters so much to them.

I am completely harmless outside of my love for trolling. I don't use men for money. I'm not abusing any men (unless you count TLR). I don't lead men on. I'm not having children out of wedlock and I don't use public assistance.

I have the same smoke for women I have for men. I obviously enjoy the company of men because I come here regularly. I just don't want to be in a relationship with anyone.

I'm also everything they say a woman should NOT be.

You would think all of that would make men relatively uninteresting. But no. Lol

I should start a call in show. I would get monetized in a week. Let them nikkas just come and flame me and collect a check.

Yeah they definitely steer the convo away from the subject and take their anger and frustrations of their interactions with women out on you. But the longer I've been on here the more I've come to understand that a lot of these people live through the internet instead of actually engaging with the real world. So even you trolling they take it personal because their persona they've built on this site matters to them as much as who they are in the real world and we know these HOH generals can't let a woman get the best of them especially "PEARL!!"