Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

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Hell nah, sh1t waaayyyy worse now. That didn't have deal with Social Media and dating apps. People still seeing and communicating with ex's and all type of people daily. This is a new frontier in dating dynamics. Feminism and Women's empowerment is strong as ever. Men have no nuts now.
Oh really? People had no way to contact exes back in the day? Like these were not invented until 2011?
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Do you think people were just stuck in the house and not doing shyt, like they were not going out and fukking around with random people on the low? It was way easier to do that shyt back then BECAUSE they had no social media.

How has feminism prevented you from having something serious with someone? What, because a woman can work she does not have to put up with your shyt because she can afford to live by herself? "Damn, i wish it was like back in the day where a woman had no opportunities so she could not say no to my proposal".

All this shyt sounds like a cry for help and you are putting your fukked up experiences on others. Yes, if you are in your 30's and single it is harder to find someone, but it is not because of social media, feminism, global warming or whatever other excuse you can drum up. It is harder because you are older and your dating pool shrinks, that is life and how it has been for a long time.

Go find a young woman, pay like you weigh and lock it down. Or find a woman your age that is reasonable and get with her, regardless of how she looks. Or go move out of the country and start a family in some developing/3rd world country where women have little to no prospects. Just stop crying and actually take some action to resolve your problems.
 

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I only go outside to go to work and then come straight home. I also have no friends or social life. So I guess it's by choice. I just dont feel like even trying.

Ah, well if you ever feel like switching it up, ease your way into a new routine. New social activities, Try hinge, etc. takes time, but it’ll be iight.
 

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Oh really? People had no way to contact exes back in the day? Like these were not invented until 2011?
gpo-746-rotary_01_b.webp


s-l1200.jpg


7fjn5xulvq301.jpg

Do you think people were just stuck in the house and not doing shyt, like they were not going out and fukking around with random people on the low? It was way easier to do that shyt back then BECAUSE they had no social media.

How has feminism prevented you from having something serious with someone? What, because a woman can work she does not have to put up with your shyt because she can afford to live by herself? "Damn, i wish it was like back in the day where a woman had no opportunities so she could not say no to my proposal".

All this shyt sounds like a cry for help and you are putting your fukked up experiences on others. Yes, if you are in your 30's and single it is harder to find someone, but it is not because of social media, feminism, global warming or whatever other excuse you can drum up. It is harder because you are older and your dating pool shrinks, that is life and how it has been for a long time.

Go find a young woman, pay like you weigh and lock it down. Or find a woman your age that is reasonable and get with her, regardless of how she looks. Or go move out of the country and start a family in some developing/3rd world country where women have little to no prospects. Just stop crying and actually take some action to resolve your problems.
This should make it interesting in here
 

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Snaky sh:t???:gucci:
Stuntone humble bragging? You must be new.:mjlol:



You sound like a loser, just say you dont want to hear anyone bragging. I'm gone brag, I'm from the Projects in Louisiana. Grew up piss poor, digging in dumpsters. Now I making over 100k and my house is paid off.

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I've read several posts on here stating the older women are better than younger women. Some even say they can't date younger than 25. Which one is it?

Maybe y'all just running into the wrong women. Try 35+


Most dudes can't secure and lock down a young 20-25 yr old because they in their prime and their options are bountiful but at 35, life has kicked these women's asses enough that they tend to be a lot more humble and realistic with their expectations but they still yearn for that fantasy.


Depending on your age/skillset/patience level, you should try to get a young one that will listen and not fukk her life up TOO much or try to snag a mid/late 20s that is getting fatigued of the game but you will only be able to do either if you look the part, have the career/lifestyle mostly together and not completely boring and checked out.
 

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The people who say this, ain’t actually dating or tried to date younger women. I have a few . They’re fun. They’re really fukkin fun. But they’re just for play.

There is no free lunch. BECAUSE they haven’t been beat up by the world and/or dating, they still think the world is their oyster. Younger women are raised by social media and all the delusion, vapidity, and materialism that comes with it. She’s gona have 1k+ followers, she’s gonna think she can do better, etc

So there is a certain age sweet spot as you get older. Traditionally it’s half your age plus 7 but I’d make it more like half your age plus 10


This shyt comes down to if that young chick really fukks with you or not.


If a woman really likes and respects you, she will conform herself, her mentality and her behavior to yours. They are by nature, submissive.


However, by nurture, they are anything BUT this. Society, culture and social media got these hoes thinking they are the men, the prize AND the main character of the story of life.
an unfortunate reality is that men of this era are going to have to teach, culture and form our women into the type of women we want because that kind of teaching isn't happening in their broke homes anymore. But Most men are not qualified or skilled enough to do this until they have learned their own rigors of life, which AT BEST is gonna be in their mid 30s.


Age gap dating isn't the only solution but its the most functional and serviceable one. Its hard to ask a man that has done the work on himself to accept an older, broken, bitter baby momma especially if and when a younger woman without all the trauma is on his radar. We gonna have a huge generation of older woman with no regular stable man in their lives and large subsections of single men that weren't able to meet their marks socially, financially and emotionally.
 

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monogamy is overrated. when i was single brah i had a rotation of at least 3 most of the time. wasn't a at number just how things kinda played out. one piss u off u got 2 more to cheer u up. one ghost u got 2 more. Present yourself as busy to getter and they will value the limited time they get with you.
Facts.... I don't get it. I can do some harmless flirting for half a day and have 4 broads lined up for the weekend, that wasn't even on the radar last week.


Now would I settle down with any of them?? Hell fukking no.
 
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This shyt comes down to if that young chick really fukks with you or not.


If a woman really likes and respects you, she will conform herself, her mentality and her behavior to yours. They are by nature, submissive.


However, by nurture, they are anything BUT this. Society, culture and social media got these hoes thinking they are the men, the prize AND the main character of the story of life.
an unfortunate reality is that men of this era are going to have to teach, culture and form our women into the type of women we want because that kind of teaching isn't happening in their broke homes anymore. But Most men are not qualified or skilled enough to do this until they have learned their own rigors of life, which AT BEST is gonna be in their mid 30s.


Age gap dating isn't the only solution but its the most functional and serviceable one. Its hard to ask a man that has done the work on himself to accept an older, broken, bitter baby momma especially if and when a younger woman without all the trauma is on his radar. We gonna have a huge generation of older woman with no regular stable man in their lives and large subsections of single men that weren't able to meet their marks socially, financially and emotionally.
I think you’re overestimating the amount of men who have direction in life themselves, let alone a good direction for a good woman to follow. A lot of young men need their hands held, and are waiting for a woman to come along, and fix him up. Even something as simple as taking care of hygiene, wearing wrinkle free clothes, and keeping up with haircuts is a lot for some men.

Young brehs eating cereal for dinner, no food in the refrigerator, no furniture, works at the Amazon warehouse, but he’s nice, so I guess that makes him a good prospect for a husband, and a woman should let him lead. Then she should be expected to give him motivation to do better, and keep him fed, right?
 

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Most dudes can't secure and lock down a young 20-25 yr old because they in their prime and their options are bountiful but at 35, life has kicked these women's asses enough that they tend to be a lot more humble and realistic with their expectations but they still yearn for that fantasy.


Depending on your age/skillset/patience level, you should try to get a young one that will listen and not fukk her life up TOO much or try to snag a mid/late 20s that is getting fatigued of the game but you will only be able to do either if you look the part, have the career/lifestyle mostly together and not completely boring and checked out.

Aint shyt humble about an old bytch in 2025, the delusion gets worse because they want to fast track a fantasy and then still not be happy lol
 

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I think you’re overestimating the amount of men who have direction in life themselves, let alone a good direction for a good woman to follow. A lot of young men need their hands held, and are waiting for a woman to come along, and fix him up. Even something as simple as taking care of hygiene, wearing wrinkle free clothes, and keeping up with haircuts is a lot for some men.

Young brehs eating cereal for dinner, no food in the refrigerator, no furniture, works at the Amazon warehouse, but he’s nice, so I guess that makes him a good prospect for a husband, and a woman should let him lead. Then she should be expected to give him motivation to do better, and keep him fed, right?

It's so SIMPLE... Brehs psyching themselves out before they even say hello. Women, like any other animal, have shyt coded into their DNA, and Instagram isn't going to change it. If you can't present yourself as well dressed, groomed, able to hold a convo without talking about sex, being funny, intelligent and having some compliments and sweet nothings, THEN YOU ARE LOST!!!

Just being that alone, should have SOMEBODY looking at you, thinking "If only I had a chance with him.........." Cause women aren't going to leap first. JUST TRY.... "Hi, my name is Dev. Nice to meet you." And hold a normal fukking convo... ABOUT ANYTHING INTERESTING. If you can hold an entertaining convo for 15 mins, then you probably have a 90% chance of having another one with her.... And at that point, it's yours to fumble

shyt been going on for 100s of thousands of years... This woman and man thing... It ain't that damn hard
 

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It's so SIMPLE... Brehs psyching themselves out before they even say hello. Women, like any other animal, have shyt coded into their DNA, and Instagram isn't going to change it. If you can't present yourself as well dressed, groomed, able to hold a convo without talking about sex, being funny, intelligent and having some compliments and sweet nothings, THEN YOU ARE LOST!!!

Just being that alone, should have SOMEBODY looking at you, thinking "If only I had a chance with him.........." Cause women aren't going to leap first. JUST TRY.... "Hi, my name is Dev. Nice to meet you." And hold a normal fukking convo... ABOUT ANYTHING INTERESTING. If you can hold an entertaining convo for 15 mins, then you probably have a 90% chance of having another one with her.... And at that point, it's yours to fumble

shyt been going on for 100s of thousands of years... This woman and man thing... It ain't that damn hard

Yall gotta stop conflating the issues.

A population of men robbed of being prepared for manhood + a population of women groomed to be wives are two different convos.

What good is this super sayain husband going into a world with no women groomed to be wives and shytty family law? Lol you nikkas are fukking slaves man.

It has always been survival of the fittest, only 40% of men in human history even had children, the issue today this shyt is a bad fukking deal
 
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