Everyone Over 30 in the Dating Game is already BURNT OUT.

[theGoldmangod]

agreed....

brehs gotta stop shopping for the phattest azz and get someone compatible.....

Word. I think people--men and women--are starting to come around to reality though.

We done had what 5 years of all this podcast and internet shyt rot people's brains and get them having all these bad experiences. Now they seeing it for what it was and reassessing.

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

this shyt is cap cause these old chicks are stubborn as shyt hence them being single.

its not....

unfortunately im in these streets.....

there are some of old broads with some sense.....granted...they arent the majority....but there some out there

 

[Wig Twistin Season]

And I laugh at this logic because if the threshold for this issue is 40+ you did your family a disservice.

I have 3 decades alone and would never obligate my kid(s) to be my nurse. I'll be aight.

Laugh all you want. Nowhere did I say anything about needing children to be anyone’s nurse.

If you’ve been around enough old people, they get bored and want company… visitors… love.

If you think being alone is healthy you must be unlike the majority of humans who need companionship. There’s a reason solitary confinement is a punishment.

But you got it, stoic breh. You don’t need anyone. More power to you and that laughter.

 

[CBSwagga]

fukk all that.

Glad I’m not out there looking for a partner at my Larry Holmes age.



Glad I got all the p*ssy I wanted in my 20s and 30s and got that cheating itch scratched and survived with my wife by my side too.



Even in my 30s these women were burnt to a crisp looking for that one last fantasy fling before they fully embraced flabby and sickville. I can’t tell you how many newly separated and divorced pools I took a dip in. I had a helluva run.



I laugh at the brehs talking that dumb shyt about brehs “settling” because they’re afraid to be alone. When they get to 40+ and that blood pressure starts hitting a lil different and health starts to become a ticking clock, they’re gonna wish they had some children around them who love them and a woman down like 4 flat tires.



A whole generation tricked into a lonely old existence.

No this nikka didn't come in here and PREACH to y'all boys

 

[Apollo Creed]

its not....

unfortunately im in these streets.....

there are some of old broads with some sense.....granted...they arent the majority....but there some out there

needle in a haystack yet nikkas got unrealistic standards lmfaoooo

 

[Shadow King]

Laugh all you want. Nowhere did I say anything about needing children to be anyone’s nurse.

If you’ve been around enough old people, they get bored and want company… visitors… love.

If you’ve think being alone is healthy you must be unlike the majority of humans who need companionship. There’s a reason solitary confinement is a punishment.

But you got it, stoic breh. You don’t need anyone. More power to you and that laughter.

You have to say it verbatim, it's implied and meant whenever people talk about children and old age.

You can build your own circle and there is such thing as chosen family. We are past the point as a species where the classic family unit is the end all be all to avoiding being alone.

Sitting in a 8x8 brick room with no light =/= living life as a single man.

I'll need the actual nurses when it's time. Till then, I know my time and place and understand that the women in it by and large don't deserve the contract, and that the institution that enforcces the contract needs to catch with the time and place for it to make sense.

It is what it is.

 

[Wig Twistin Season]

You have to say it verbatim, it's implied and meant whenever people talk about children and old age.

You can build your own circle and there is such thing as chosen family. We are past the point as a species where the classic family unit is the end all be all to avoiding being alone.

Sitting in a 8x8 brick room with no light =/= living life as a single man.

I'll need the actual nurses when it's time. Till then, I know my time and place and understand that the women in it by and large don't deserve the contract, and that the institution that enforcces the contract needs to catch with the time and place for it to make sense.

It is what it is.

I disagree that I implied we need kids to be our nurses.

All that other jazz you’re talking sounds like nonsense to me.



How many old people have you been around since you were a child? Did any of them like being alone?

And no, the family unit isn’t the end all be all, but if you haven’t found one woman in 30 years of living who is a friend and “chosen family” I think that says more about your ability to create meaningful bonds with the opposite sex and not as much about the quality of ALL women as you think it does.



It’s your life and I’m the last to judge, because it has no impact on me, so enjoy it and live it how you see fit.

 

[Strapped]

Not many Black men get out of here with money and love.

Welcome to America

 

[Shadow King]

Male feminist babble

Lol

No this nikka didn't come in here and PREACH to y'all boys

You're right, he didn't lol

I disagree that I implied we need kids to be our nurses.

All that other jazz you’re talking sounds like nonsense to me.



How many old people have you been around since you were a child? Did any of them like being alone?

And no, the family unit isn’t the end all be all, but if you haven’t found one woman in 30 years of living who is a friend and “chosen family” I think that says more about your ability to create meaningful bonds with the opposite sex and not as much about the quality of ALL women as you think it does.



It’s your life and I’m the last to judge, because it has no impact on me, so enjoy it and live it how you see fit.

Well it's too bad that you disagree, because you did and that is part of the sentiment around this discussion from anyone on your side of the argument.

If the family unit is no longer the end all be all, then trying to use that as a manner to judge another man is contradictory, which you are in fact doing, judging, between that notion, and "laughing" at men on my side of the table.

While I think a single man signing that contract in the 21st century is doing himself a disservice, I and most cats will hope for them to be above the odds. It's always y'all with the judgement.

 

[DJSmooth]

my brother went on a date with a 46 year old bbw, when they sat down at their table at applebees, fat bih gone start going through her purse and pull out a We energy bill and ask him if he can go half...her shyt was cut off and it was gonna cost her $1200 to get it cut back on...bro looked at her like said "ill brb finna use the bathroom", nikka went to his car and smashed out. blocked her number before leaving the parking lot THESE FAT HOES CRAZY

 

[Bigen King]

I ain’t gonna complain about the game. It is what it is.. Real ones rise to the top. It’s Wins and losses but to go completely into Monk Mode I can’t do that.

Somebody on the coli said water finds it own level so if you getting bottom shelf women you gotta look in mirror at some point and take accountability for what you attracting.

 

[Scaaar]

I've read several posts on here stating the older women are better than younger women. Some even say they can't date younger than 25. Which one is it?

Maybe y'all just running into the wrong women. Try 35+

They do talk outta both sides of their neck lol

 

[#1 pick]

Too many failed relationships and too much deadend dating.

Too many sexual experiences with too many different partners.

Still on and off with our exs.

Too much social media has warped your perception of what love and a relationship is.

Too much red pill or feminism.

If you're single at 30 and 40+ , that means you're an absolute 100% failure in the dating game. You've been on dozens of dates and nothing has worked out for u. Chances are very slim you'll find someone to make it work with. You're to bitter and stuck in yours ways and your standards from your prime.


There's a reason people got married so young, we weren't meant to date and sleep with so many people.





There are No happy endings for most of us .

I tired to tell you this years ago bro. The market gets real weak after 30 years old. Sure you got exceptions but even the exceptions have limited experience

 

[O.T.I.S.]

I’m still confused as to why any man would let an age gap get in the way of finding the right woman… who gives a fukk what anyone says? Better to get them young before they’re cynical and jaded.

Thats where I either feel like my time has passed for a seriously relationship or where I’m conflicted with dating younger.


Most these single women cooked… 18 and up. Just saw a chick that was trying to holla at me a month ago post that she was in a whole relationship like a month later…


A whole month huh


Motherfukkers are desperate… I am not trying to get with a woman as her last resort, last option. You could be making well over 6 figures but in LAST place in the respect and care department, not bringing any drama or anything from the past (kids included)., etc.

Yet they want HVM, status preferences, height preferences, dikk policing, etc., just to be treated like the last option or beneath them somehow because I’m black and a man

 

[Scaaar]

I ain’t gonna complain about the game. It is what it is.. Real ones rise to the top. It’s Wins and losses but to go completely into Monk Mode I can’t do that.

Somebody on the coli said water finds it own level so if you getting bottom shelf women you gotta look in mirror at some point and take accountability for what you attracting.

This is precisely what it is for alot of these brehs. I don't encounter these types of women but I also don't put myself in proximity for it to even happen. Elevate yourself and then the type of women you encounter will elevate too.