Explain the benefits of a side chick brehs

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this conversation is about people who are already in relationships and seeing a person outside of the relationship.

If you've already chosen a woman, getting a side chick isn't as innocent as looking for the best candidate, if you're still looking, you shouldn't be in a relationship.


People are always looking unless they are married.

That's how people get disillusioned and hurt.

The fallout from people that follow your advice are #HOH and #WastehisTime Fodder....
 

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People are always looking unless they are married.

That's how people get disillusioned and hurt.

The fallout from people that follow your advice are #HOH and #WastehisTime Fodder....

if you're an effective communicator and your relationship is more than sex and netflix, you should have a pretty decent idea of whether or not you want to be with a person, if you determine that you're not interested in continuing the relationship, you break up, not find a secret woman to fill in the gaps. I've never seen a failed relationship were there weren't signs that indicated that failure was near.

I'm older than most nikkas here on the coli and have never had the misfortune of turning bitter or cold because I was hurt by some woman and I've had quite a few relationships, most of them meaningful and fulfilling.
 
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if you're an effective communicator and your relationship is more than sex and netflix, you should have a pretty decent idea of whether or not you want to be with a person, if you determine that you're not interested in continuing the relationship, you break up, not find a secret woman to fill in the gaps. I've never seen a failed relationship were there weren't signs that indicated that failure was near.

I'm older than most nikkas here on the coli and have never had the misfortune of turning bitter or cold because I was hurt by some woman and I've had quite a few relationships, most of them meaningful and fulfilling.


You're mixing up liars, with lovers with options.

You're right. There is no excuse for dishonesty. It all depends on the implicitness of the parties involved. I'm not carrying around a bag... and neither should she if there is a better option waiting in the wings. I will go ahead now and say that I'll respectfully agree to disagree with you breh.


All is fair in love an war is my mantra.... I see your point, but we are on different wavelengths....
 

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Most nikkas with a "side chick" build himself up off female attention. It's the equivalent of a "hoe"....low self worth, low morals, low value on partnership, stunted emotions

Don't value their own bodies or time and thus don't value their partners body or time

Basically nikkas that want to ruin other people's lives and risk their health because of a rap song, seeking other nikkas approval, some misguided ideal in their head and a feeling of power derived from the dikk and it's use/placement (usually because real power...in life...in society among other males is out of reach) so they attempt to build it within the walls of exposed vagina and playing with bytches emotions and mind

It's sad really....but many of you encourage each other in this way.

I'm just sitting back and watching. :jbhmm: it's not worthy of respect.

These same nikkas with "side chicks" bawl their eyes out begging and lie to high heavens to hide it once caught up. If shyt was okay to do and it's so "natural" for men....why do you turn into complete lost begging bytches once caught up :skip:...... nevermind.:beli: Lol.
 

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Most nikkas with a "side chick" build himself up off female attention. It's the equivalent of a "hoe"....low self worth, low morals, low value on partnership, stunted emotions

Don't value their own bodies or time and thus don't value their partners body or time

Basically nikkas that want to ruin other people's lives and risk their health because of a rap song, seeking other nikkas approval, some misguided ideal in their head and a feeling of power derived from the dikk and it's use/placement (usually because real power...in life...in society among other males is out of reach) so they attempt to build it within the walls of exposed vagina and playing with bytches emotions and mind

It's sad really....but many of you encourage each other in this way.

I'm just sitting back and watching. :jbhmm: it's not worthy of respect.

These same nikkas with "side chicks" bawl their eyes out begging and lie to high heavens to hide it once caught up. If shyt was okay to do and it's so "natural" for men....why do you turn into complete lost begging bytches once caught up :skip:...... nevermind.:beli: Lol.


+10 REP
 

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Cause main chicks are annoying...

A side chick is supposed to be the equivalent of a therapist...

she listens to you when you sad, she listens to you when your mad, she'll do anything you want her to...

The main woman is typically a demanding motherfukker that wants shyt...kids...family...money...

A side chick just wants your presence...

A side chick is like a sponge...

I always been honest though...

I literally just be like..."And that's why I go see my side chick..."

I do what I wanna do...if main woman don't like it, she can leave...she grown...I ain't gonna beg for her to stay either

I am too old and she's too old for all that lying and deception...

Keep the main chick around out of habit, routine and security...
 
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