Failed Black Patriarchy

[AlainLocke]

You look at it that way, I look at it as setting an example for your kids to live up to and surpass. So that their children can be further along, and so on and so on. You know, like in a functioning society.

So showing your kids that it's okay if a woman can be a full independent human being and have her own mind is a bad thing...

 

[Skrilla]

I was shocked even tho I shouldn't have been. I even saw one of those dudes in another thread asking whats wrong with being a c00n. I gotta look to see who that was

 

[10bandz]

On real though ya'll got to stop with this matriarch and patriarch shyt. It is devisive. It does not matter who is the leader of the family as longas the family is a functioning unit that enables future generations to build.

IS that what this election shows us?

 

[HellRell804]

Yeah...nikkas somehow can't be masculine by themselves, they need a bytch under them to confirm their masculinity...

If you're truly masculine, the women will come. You don't have to wife them at all. Its an option. A truly masculine man will be good doing whatever he wants, whether that's a wife and kids, bedding a million women, or becoming a monk. He definitely wouldn't be on a message board railing against society's expectations of him

 

[Guile]

Yeah...nikkas somehow can't be masculine by themselves, they need a bytch under them to confirm their masculinity...

I just think a bigger problem is that black men and women give up on each other and their families to easily when things get rough in a relationship. There should be a bigger stigma in the black community for dciding not to live in the same household(or invovled in their lives) as your kids or running to the courts for child support instead of trying to work it out.

 

[HellRell804]

So showing your kids that it's okay if a woman can be a full independent human being and have her own mind is a bad thing...

Cut it out

 

[Guile]

IS that what this election shows us?

We are talking about black family dynamics. The results of this election revealed that white women put birthing and raising white familes above being a part of any other group unless they are especially moved to do so...so nothing new.

 

[Supreme HD]

the black community is done for. im only saving who I can. also guys remember to start making plans to move to africa later on. fukk saving everyone

 

[AlainLocke]

If you're truly masculine, the women will come. You don't have to wife them at all. Its an option. A truly masculine man will be good doing whatever he wants, whether that's a wife and kids, bedding a million women, or becoming a monk. He definitely wouldn't be on a message board railing against society's expectations of him

So it isn't masculine to be your man...but to follow the herd...

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

So showing your kids that it's okay if a woman can be a full independent human being and have her own mind is a bad thing...

You can have both.

Boys aren't going to grow up to be strong independent women.

That's why examples of strong men are vital for boys. It gives them something to identify with and emulate

 

[I_Got_Da_Burna]

@Knuckles Red

 

[Absalom's Thought]

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[Kenny West]

On real though ya'll got to stop with this matriarch and patriarch shyt. It is devisive. It does not matter who is the leader of the family as longas the family is a functioning unit that enables future generations to build.

On the real people should stop referring to their country/their community as a matriarchy or patriarchy. Those words are for families/clans of animals NOT human society.

I seriously wanna punch whoever made up these bullshyt sjw terms

 

[Funk Flex]

fukk outta here with this hotep wishing on a star shyt. nikkas aint never making it past a certain threshold in this country and any other non black country. so if nikkas wanna say fukk it and play 2k all day who cares? If you wanna keep chasing a dream that will never happen do it but dont talk down on others who live in reality.

 

[Kenny West]

So it isn't masculine to be your man...but to follow the herd...

I don't know if you remember me calling you an idiot in that other thread but I just wanna remind you again...

fukk outta here with this hotep wishing on a star shyt. nikkas aint never making it past a certain threshold in this country and any other non black country. so if nikkas wanna say fukk it and play 2k all day who cares? If you wanna keep chasing a dream that will never happen do it but dont talk down on others who live in reality.

lol @ being a man registering as some type of impossible feat to you.

There are non english speaking working class folks who maintain a wife and kids regardless of statistics on which groups are getting paid more than them. And yet this is excuse you call relatiy

pathetic