Failed Black Patriarchy

[Gravity]

Black women can only sabotage what you let them. Look at your trump example. He did not give a single flying fukk what women thought. He apologized for none of his comments. That attitude is attractive, it signals that even though I'd like to have you on board, fukk it if you don't. That's where black men have to get.

He did all of that and white women supported him anyway. That's my point. A unapologetic straight black man who promotes patriarchy is not going to get the support of black women.

Look man, women are the first teachers. If they're not down with a black patriarchy then they aren't going to raise black boys to be patriarchs. Black women are married to the liberal left feminist/gay agenda and that's reflected in the way black boys are being raised. Black boys being more effeminate now is a direct result I how they are being raised. It's a cycle and it's going to take black men and women to break it.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Another blame black men thread

If you're a brotha, look at the criticism as a call to arms. We need to live up to our potential

This type of topic is better translated in person, tho

 

[Tenchi Ryu]

Put down the Xbox controller and pick up some weights.

Wait breh...lets come to some kind of equality with the weights and controller.

 

[Billie Jean]

I have never seen so much reductionism in one thread. But then again everyone's a sociologist/political scientist on the coli

 

[HellRell804]

He did all of that and white women supported him anyway. That's my point. A unapologetic straight black man who promotes patriarchy is not going to get the support of black women.

Look man, women are the first teachers. If they're not down with a black patriarchy then they aren't going to raise black boys to be patriarchs. Black women are married to the liberal left feminist/gay agenda and that's reflected in the way black boys are being raised. Black boys being more effeminate now is a direct result I how they are being raised. It's a cycle and it's going to take black men and women to break it.

The thing about leadership is that nobody "lets" you lead. You lead and if people are down with it they follow.

Remember in state property when beans told a nikka "I wanna offer you the opportunity to be a lieutenant in my army" and dude was like "why would I wanna be a lieutenant in your piece of shyt army when I'm the ruling fukking general of my own?"

That's what it's like asking a woman to let you lead if you've never accomplished anything

 

[Kenny West]

He did all of that and white women supported him anyway. That's my point. A unapologetic straight black man who promotes patriarchy is not going to get the support of black women.

Look man, women are the first teachers. If they're not down with a black patriarchy then they aren't going to raise black boys to be patriarchs. Black women are married to the liberal left feminist/gay agenda and that's reflected in the way black boys are being raised. Black boys being more effeminate now is a direct result I how they are being raised. It's a cycle and it's going to take black men and women to break it.

Women bend to the will of man. It's been studies on this where you can pretty much call it an instinct

They talk all that I don't need no man bs to comfort themselves with the reality of not having one. And they will abandon it for a man in a hearbeat

So in the end it still comes down to men. Now whether or not the modern american woman deserves or can maintain that type of man is a different story. But even then, there's always african chicks

 

[Gravity]

Women bend to the will of man.

They talk all that I don't need no man bs to comfort themselves with the reality of not having one. And they will abandon it for a man in a hearbeat

So in the end it still comes down to men. Now whether or not the modern woman deserves or can maintain that type of man is the question. But hey, there's always african chicks

This has nothing to do with anything that I've said.

The thing about leadership is that nobody "lets" you lead. You lead and if people are down with it they follow.

Remember in state property when beans told a nikka "I wanna offer you the opportunity to be a lieutenant in my army" and dude was like "why would I wanna be a lieutenant in your piece of shyt army when I'm the ruling fukking general of my own?"

That's what it's like asking a woman to let you lead if you've never accomplished anything

i didn't say anything about black men asking black women to let them lead. I basically said that it's silly to expect black men to be patriarchs when they are being raised to be beta bytches. Your position that black men are going to build this thriving black community controlled by patriarchy without the assistance of black women is silly and ignorant. It makes no sense. Black women are going to have to get down because we need them. It's that simple.

 

[Kenny West]

This has nothing to do with anything that I've said.

i didn't say anything about black men asking black women to let them lead. I basically said that it's silly to expect black men to be patriarchs when they are being raised to be beta bytches. Your position that black men are going to build this thriving black community controlled by patriarchy without the assistance of black women is silly and ignorant. It makes no sense. Black women are going to have to get down because we need them. It's that simple.

It has everything to do with what you said

Your post was about you worrying that black women won't accept the leadership of men. I told you how thats false


This time read the post aloud slowly. It should register

 

[DarkHorse23]

If you're a brotha, look at the criticism as a call to arms. We need to live up to our potential

This type of topic is better translated in person, tho

I do look at the criticism and I'm sick of it. Black men aren't to blame for the shyt hole of our community. It's black women for CHOOSING the lowest of the low of black men to mate with. I'm sick of tired of brothers being blamed for the fukkery. I take care of my business. My father takes care of his business. My grandfather took care of his business. My friends take care of their business. fukk all this blame black men BS. It's black women to blame and I challenge ANYONE to show me otherwise, because I'm in such a bad mood today I shred up every argument you come up with.

 

[Skrilla]

i didn't say anything about black men asking black women to let them lead. I basically said that it's silly to expect black men to be patriarchs when they are being raised to be beta bytches. Your position that black men are going to build this thriving black community controlled by patriarchy without the assistance of black women is silly and ignorant. It makes no sense.

The thing is, black women "not being compliant" isn't stopping black men from building.

A lot of black men just choose not to try to build something.

For the most part, we just want that job working in the white man's business. Not build our own.

Not all but most and that's just the truth. I have a business and encourage entrepreneurship to other black men (because we currently have the lowest entrepreneurship of all males in the U.S.) and most of the time, they think it's stupid and rather just work their job for their white boss. They're not trying to build, i know it's not easy but OP is right that we need to do it anyway.

Black women aren't stopping black men from building....black men are opting not to

I personally have known several nikkas who would complain about their job but then when i mentioned starting our own shop they backed out, so i did it without them

As i said, it doesn't matter if you prefer black women, white women, asian women, etc. We still should be trying to build as men. Pointing the finger at black women is just a copout.

I was building before i met my girl and would still be building even if i hadn't met her. And that'd be the same if she was asian, black, white, latina etc

 

[miranda]

Women bend to the will of man. It's been studies on this where you can pretty much call it an instinct

Most of these dudes have never experienced this, and probably never will. They can't even comprehend what you're saying

 

[Matt504]

If you're a brotha, look at the criticism as a call to arms. We need to live up to our potential

This type of topic is better translated in person, tho

shouldn't we do the same when Black women say Black men aint shyt?

 

[DarkHorse23]

I was looking at the thread about boys turning into girls and the only ones arguing with op were Men.

You soft ass nikkas are the reason black patriarchy doesn't work. You latte sipping, spineless, mama's boys are the type of men who could, in theory, lead a family, but you've been conditioned to think its ok to defer to women. Ignore what women say, watch what they do. The fact of the matter is women don't want men who're comfortable letting her shoulder the burden if decision making while you debate Dragonball and Pokemon. You're not progressive because you rally under female leadership, you're a bytch.

And the numbers prove it. That's why the out of wedlock #s are so high. These women have resorted to just settling for sex with men who turn them on primally, even if that means they have to go it alone.

Look at the reactions to trump, I barely saw any women posting, it was nikkas running around like the sky was falling. A real patriach would be confident that he can steer his family in the right direction regardless of the circumstances.

Put down the Xbox controller and pick up some weights. Take some extra shifts at your job and stop blowing money on designer clothes and shoes. Take a class or two to up your earning potential. Be a damn man. Stop waiting and wishing for female approval before you do anything. Be able to put your foot down and live with the consequences, right or wrong, good or bad. Stop blaming women for being women.

A lot of dudes seem to want a psuedo patriarchy where the woman contributes half, watches the kids, and run the day to day while deferring to you for major decisions. Life doesn't work like that. In that situation you're expendable. She has a social safety net to shield her.

Get your credit up yourself. Buy that starter house. Take pride in your appearance without going full metrosexual. Invite a woman into your world, stop this silly notion that we're going to build together.

Don't hate the guy smashing and dashing. Figure out why he's so attractive (hint: he doesn't supplicate), and get that mindset. Its not easy, its not an attitude you can flip on to get her then comfortably slide back under her. You cant just throw money at her. You have to maintain that attraction til the day you die, all the while handling your business

I don't blame the men, I blame the women. A man can only do what you allow him to do. And you keep talking about the raw attraction piece. Well let me ask you....HOW HAS THAT WORKED OUT FOR US???!!! Choosing on just raw attraction is why there are so many single black mothers. Choose based on JUST sexual attraction and wonder why your relationships don't work out. Black Women need to start choosing men based on substance. Good looks and swag can't raise a family or led a household. Time for us to wake the fukk up, fairy tale time is over. shyt is about to real and we can't afford for black women to continue with this i need PAC in a business suit BS.

 

[Matt504]

Women bend to the will of man. It's been studies on this where you can pretty much call it an instinct

They talk all that I don't need no man bs to comfort themselves with the reality of not having one. And they will abandon it for a man in a hearbeat

So in the end it still comes down to men. Now whether or not the modern american woman deserves or can maintain that type of man is a different story. But even then, there's always african chicks

all people bend to the will of those who butter their bread. This is why nikkas don't act up when their bosses get out of line with them because they know who signs their paycheck. Women who depend on men and have limited options outside of him naturally fall in line if they fear the alternative of having to provide for themselves on their own. This is why many of the men here have contempt for women who build their careers and are self-sufficient, they don't have to bend as much.

 

[HellRell804]

This has nothing to do with anything that I've said.

i didn't say anything about black men asking black women to let them lead. I basically said that it's silly to expect black men to be patriarchs when they are being raised to be beta bytches. Your position that black men are going to build this thriving black community controlled by patriarchy without the assistance of black women is silly and ignorant. It makes no sense. Black women are going to have to get down because we need them. It's that simple.

And I'm saying, initial programming can be overcome if, A you realize there's a problem, and B seek out the solution to that problem.

There are many men out there who aren't beta bytches. Learn from them. Read some books written by men who weren't beta bytches.

If you're not a beta bytch its your duty to go out there and absolutely kill it at life, and show those who are that their way of life isn't right. Make it so when they compare their life to yours it makes them want to change. But Don't belittle them and throw the fact that they can't get women in their face by calling them beta bytches. That just makes them hate you and double down on the bytchassness