Failed Black Patriarchy

Matt504

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I don't blame the men, I blame the women. A man can only do what you allow him to do. And you keep talking about the raw attraction piece. Well let me ask you....HOW HAS THAT WORKED OUT FOR US???!!! Choosing on just raw attraction is why there are so many single black mothers. Choose based on JUST sexual attraction and wonder why your relationships don't work out. Black Women need to start choosing men based on substance. Good looks and swag can't raise a family or led a household. Time for us to wake the fukk up, fairy tale time is over. shyt is about to real and we can't afford for black women to continue with this i need PAC in a business suit BS.

Women who want good looks and swag, WANT good looks and swag, they aren't entitled to men who possess these things which means, if those men chose not to hook up with these women, their WANTS would go unmet.
 

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there were matriarchal and egalitarian socieities before cacs came and destroyed them.

and they functioned perfectly well, too.

and before you start they blew through other patriarchal societies as well, so them being matriarchal/egalitarian has nothing to do with it.

but ama let ya'll not live in reality and act like there is only one way to do things.:coffee:
 

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Women who want good looks and swag, WANT good looks and swag, they aren't entitled to men who possess these things which means, if those men chose not to hook up with these women, their WANTS would go unmet.
Asking a good looking man to turn down p*ssy is like a lion turning down a zebra. It's not going happen
 

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Asking a good looking man to turn down p*ssy is like a lion turning down a zebra. It's not going happen

yall love running with this men are like wild animals rhetoric until it comes back to haunt you.

This is equivalent to saying that men aren't disciplined enough to turn down sex. If we're not disciplined enough to say no to sex, how the fukk can we be disciplined enough to lead our communities?
 

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The thing is, black women "not being compliant" isn't stopping black men from building.

A lot of black men just choose not to try to build something.

For the most part, we just want that job working in the white man's business. Not build our own.

Not all but most and that's just the truth. I have a business and encourage entrepreneurship to other black men (because we currently have the lowest entrepreneurship of all males in the U.S.) and most of the time, they think it's stupid and rather just work their job for their white boss. They're not trying to build, i know it's not easy but OP is right that we need to do it anyway.

Black women aren't stopping black men from building....black men are opting not to

As i said, it doesn't matter if you prefer black women, white women, asian women, etc. We still should be trying to build as men. Pointing the finger at black women is just a copout.

I was building before i met my girl and would still be building even if i hadn't met her.
It's like you're too stupid to understand what I've said. I didn't say that black women are stopping black men from building. I'm saying that black women are embracing ideologies that don't deem it necessary to instill those kind of skills/qualities in black boys while they are being raised. It's as simple as black men choosing to not build. Black men don't know how to build.
It has everything to do with what you said

Your post was about you worrying that black women won't accept the leadership of men. I told you how thats false


This time read the post aloud slowly. It should register
I didn't worry about anything I stated facts. It's a fact that black women embrace this liberal left feminist/gay agenda and that agenda directly sabotages black patriarchy. Black women are building to the will of men, white men.

If you're a man who was half assed raised by some chic who didn't/couldn't equip you with the skills to know how to build and be a patriarch then you're not going to have them. How stupid are you that you don't understand that?
Can't have been perfect if we got put in slavery lol

And @karatechop schooling these "but but but but they won't listen to me" ass nikkas.
He's not schooling shyt and nobody has even said what you put in quotes. :heh: a bunch of idiots.
 

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all people bend to the will of those who butter their bread. This is why nikkas don't act up when their bosses get out of line with them because they know who signs their paycheck. Women who depend on men and have limited options outside of him naturally fall in line if they fear the alternative of having to provide for themselves on their own. This is why many of the men here have contempt for women who build their careers and are self-sufficient, they don't have to bend as much.

Not what I'm talking about. I'm talking strictly on an interpersonal basis. Women defer to men (sexually as the best example) without the threat of withdrawing resources, please take that bs somewhere else.
Most of these dudes have never experienced this, and probably never will. They can't even comprehend what you're saying

Ikr look at the post quoted before yours
 

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yall love running with this men are like wild animals rhetoric until it comes back to haunt you.

This is equivalent to saying that men aren't disciplined enough to turn down sex. If we're not disciplined enough to say no to sex, how the fukk can we be disciplined enough to lead our communities?
What exactly is men turning down p*ssy going accomplish? You love deflecting and making it about black MEN need to do instead of black women.
 

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I don't blame the men, I blame the women. A man can only do what you allow him to do. And you keep talking about the raw attraction piece. Well let me ask you....HOW HAS THAT WORKED OUT FOR US???!!! Choosing on just raw attraction is why there are so many single black mothers. Choose based on JUST sexual attraction and wonder why your relationships don't work out. Black Women need to start choosing men based on substance. Good looks and swag can't raise a family or led a household. Time for us to wake the fukk up, fairy tale time is over. shyt is about to real and we can't afford for black women to continue with this i need PAC in a business suit BS.
Its a two way street. Men need to be choosing women based on substance as well
 
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