I don't blame the men, I blame the women. A man can only do what you allow him to do. And you keep talking about the raw attraction piece. Well let me ask you....HOW HAS THAT WORKED OUT FOR US???!!! Choosing on just raw attraction is why there are so many single black mothers. Choose based on JUST sexual attraction and wonder why your relationships don't work out. Black Women need to start choosing men based on substance. Good looks and swag can't raise a family or led a household. Time for us to wake the fukk up, fairy tale time is over. shyt is about to real and we can't afford for black women to continue with this i need PAC in a business suit BS.
Women who want good looks and swag, WANT good looks and swag, they aren't entitled to men who possess these things which means, if those men chose not to hook up with these women, their WANTS would go unmet.

a bunch of idiots.
They ain't gone listen op. They need someone to blame for they failure and not trying. And the easier target for these soft muthafukkas is females.
It's always what the man should do, what about what these bytches bring to the table? 
