Fat IG model tired of being treated badly by men, tells some stories

[Gravity]

I think this is dismissive because it doesn't negate the argument that people treat people they aren't attracted to worse. She has attractive friends and gets to bear witness to the stark contrast in real time, she even gave examples that dismiss the idea that it's all in her mind.

Of course people treat those that they are physically attracted to better than those who they find physically unattractive. That's just basic human nature.

You’re telling me there’s nothing impolite about being told to “go away” because someone wants to get at your friend?

Of course it can be impolite. It's also impolite to "cock-block". If she sees that guys are interested in her friends and not her, then she should remove herself from the scene. Plus if's she's friends with girls who would talk to dudes who treat her that way then that should be her concern. Sounds like she's a wannabe bird running with birds.

 

[knl14]

She said her friends defended her, seems like she has a good group of friends.

 

[Originalman]

big deal try being a fat ugly dude who is 5' 3"

All this woah is me shyt. Get you a fat ass dude and he will he happy with you.

Real talk in america they just ain't honest with women.

In another country they would have told her look you are fat. You need to get you a fat man so you"ll can be happy together.

 

[Originalman]

Amen!

Fat girls that understand the game always keep a good man around. The sad/unhappy ones are usually chasing dudes that are physically out of their league.

It's just like a dude with below average looks/game that only talks to dimes. Then he blames his failure on trying to pull supermodels...even though his game would fail with 99% of broads.

All this and well said.

 

[Originalman]

Do women even think before they say shyt like this? lol.
She makes it sound like its only women that go through this,
any dude thats below 5'10 gets automatically disqualified by most women.
At least she got fat support group , putting whales in bikinis ...but you
never see it for short men.

Truth

 

[knl14]

Of course people treat those that they are physically attracted to better than those who they find physically unattractive. That's just basic human nature.
Of course it can be impolite. It's also impolite to "cock-block". If she sees that guys are interested in her friends and not her, then she should remove herself from the scene. Plus if's she's friends with girls who would talk to dudes who treat her that way then that should be her concern. Sounds like she's a wannabe bird running with birds.

She should have removed herself from her group of friends because he wanted to talk to her? Y’all walk up to a group of women to spit game to some of the group, and we should take it upon ourselves to go away so you can spit game? Really?

The impotus should be on the man to respectfully and/or courteously ask to speak to the woman privately, not put it on the woman who was already a part of the conversation/group to excuse herself. Y’all are the ones “interrupting”.

 

[Piff Perkins]

Be nice to people. Respect and basic courtesy matter. That being said, she's not simply asking for that...she's asking and demanding attention, which no one is entitled to. If a man walks into a room to meet your friend, and he says hi to you and maybe even shakes your hand before talking to your friend...he has not wronged you. He treated you with respect.

On one hand she is laughing at men who demand attention from women, on the other hand she's crying that men don't give her attention. The hypocrisy is pathetic. She is morbidly obese and unattractive. It's not surprising men don't pursue her. Do I think she deserves basic respect? Sure. But she's confusing that with attention. I am not obligated to have conversations with women I'm not interested in. Will I say hi, how are you, have a good day etc? Yes. But that's not a conversation, it's basic courtesy.

 

[3rd Koast Kang]

I'm confused.

She's not obligated to be nice to men who are attracted to her, but men who aren't attracted to her have to be nice or else it speaks volumes on their character?

Odd ain’t it?

 

[Gravity]

She should have removed herself from her group of friends because he wanted to talk to her? Y’all walk up to a group of women to spit game to some of the group, and we should take it upon ourselves to go away so you can spit game? Really?

Yea, if it's obvious that they guys aren't checking for you.

Or stand there and wallow in the rejection. Why stand there and get dissed tho? Why would the guys have told her to go on somewhere unless she was on some cock-block shyt being in the way? Her tweets give you an idea of what kind of attitude/personality she's got.

The impotus should be on the man to respectfully and/or courteously ask to speak to the woman privately, not put it on the woman who was already a part of the conversation/group to excuse herself. Y’all are the ones “interrupting”.

Its 2019, that chivalry shyt is dead. Plus she looks to be young. She's talking about interactions with dudes in the mall, Walmart parking lots, and homecoming. These are kids. She's talking about young boys not "men".

She needs to get friends who are more in her lane because tryna hang out with girls much more attractive will just ruin her self esteem. That, and she needs to lose weight. It's a shame for a girl that young to be so obese.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

The “why” is still not being answered. “Common courtesy is “politeness that one can usually be expected to show”, and many informal definitions include respect in that definition. Call it common courtesy, respect, or whatever you want because mincing words doesnt work here. Why wasn’t this girl given the “common courtesy” of being acknowledged in a group setting? So she was given common courtesy when she was told to go to the nearest McDs while dude talks to her thinner friends? You’re telling me there’s nothing impolite about being told to “go away” because someone wants to get at your friend?

Y’all are making mostly baseless assumptions about her instead of addressing why she’s less entitled or deserving of respect or common courtesy than her thin friends. Sure she could lose weight that would help, but why can’t she be given common courtesy whether she’s fat/unattractive or thin/attractive?

Her comparing men she doesn't find attractive to dogs is not a baseless assumption.

Treat people you aren't attracted to with respect and don't compare them to animals.

 

[eifmp]

We live in a country where, predominantly, the societal standard is that men have to approach women. Yes, there are that select group of men who have women chasing them, but the greater majority of men have to do the chasing.

It's not shocking to believe that there are women who internalize this societal standard as to mean they have more value than men. We all know that they don't, but some women truly believe this to be true. And if women believe that they have more value than men, it's not hard to understand why they feel they're entitled to a double standard. Especially when it comes to dating.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Ehh... thus is life. Many men simply don’t respect women whether they “like” you or not

Her weight may play a part in how she has been treated, but I think most women of all levels of attractiveness have stories of being treated like trash too.

 

[reasonable_doubter]

never deal with a female over 150lbs

 

[Thatrogueassdiaz]

"Being the fat friend is exhausting"

I won't ask her how

come on breh