Father gives baby mother $600 for his son. She spends it on all 3 of her kids instead

[homiedontplaydat]

She would just take some of the stuff you bought and give it to her other b*stards. There is no workaround for this situation other than somehow gaining custody. She would fight him out of spite for it.

Clothes are not one size fits all, cash is tho

There is no perfect answer here, just hope you never have to share a woman with another man like this

 

[3rd Ward Swangin]

My point still stands. You have a guy in this very thread who said how easy it was to get joint custody with his ex-wife.

Let’s think about why that is?

It’s funny how you want sympathy for those two situations you brought up without explaining why the situations are occurring.

When my parents divorced, there was no custody battle. In fact, and I’ve said this plenty of times, my dad put himself on child support. Even when my mother had other children, he didn’t care, he helped them as well because if my mom was struggling than we all were struggling. He made sure his children were always taken care of even if that including taking care of children that weren’t his.

I bet most of these situations where the dad is fighting so hard is with a woman that he either wasn't married to her and/or she was the primary caregiver to the child.

I don’t need to stfu just because of the bad decisions those men are making.

That isn't easy at all. In Texas they'll give custody to a female relative before the father.

I know this for a fact. As a man all you are is a check, unless the mother is a degenerate that's documented.

 

[KBtheKey]

Kinda selfish but I don't know exactly what this imaginary child might've needed. If I cared enough about they family/home life, I'd say just spend 100 each on the others and give my child the 400

 

[lib123]

Is potentially ending up in this situation worth messing with women with 2+ kids if you don’t have any kids yourself?

 

[ThrobbingHood]

Is potentially ending up in this situation worth messing with women with 2+ kids if you don’t have any kids yourself?

A lot of men have low self esteem. Having somebody is better than being with nobody for them. The same as women but as men, we ultimately choose and should choose better.

Too many childless women out there to put yourself in such a situation.

 

[Bondye Vodou]

I mean if only one kid benefits and the other 2 suffers that is gonna cause some hatred and resentment towards the mother and the perceived golden child. I could understand the father but if she got knocked up by other dudes who don't play their part this is the best she can do.

 

[kdslittlebro]

6 pages off some fake rage bait Never change, brehs

 

[lib123]

A lot of men have low self esteem. Having somebody is better than being with nobody for them. The same as women but as men, we ultimately choose and should choose better.

Too many childless women out there to put yourself in such a situation.

Facts. Also a lot of dudes just don’t do a cost-benefit analysis or risk reward assessment. I would be hesitant to smash a woman with two kids even with a condom since nothing is risk free.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Nggas arguing about this 5 years in

I still haven't seen a failed zay thread