Lifejennings
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I'm on the side of the innocent children. Their parents circumstances be damned. Glad they got what they needed for school.
Father gives baby mother $600 for his son. She spends it on all 3 of her kids instead
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Cel 510 kid ados forever
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Breh in a tough spot
I understand his point but once u give money u cant control
I understand his point but once u give money u cant control
King Crimson
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Is this the “Back to School” edition of this story? I could’ve sworn I saw this same scenario in December, but it was about shorty using breh’s money to buy gifts for all her kids and not just his. nikkas really be getting their Donald Goines on on Facebook, huh?
lol, I know this thread has been posted here with a different background at least once.
Everything has been said that needs to be said. He don’t like it, but stuff for his kid himself; his siblings may have contempt for him/her, though. Fight for full custody. Most guys don’t want to be the everyday dad. I don’t. I’m not fit to. Lastly, just hope she’s taking proper care of your kid. If you don’t believe so get proof.
I think it's understandable but ultimately wrong and short sighted.
The mom is penalizing and damaging the potential of the son so her other children don't feel left out. In a sense, she's discriminating against her own son for having a daddy that actually cares enough to support him beyond the CS agreement.
Ultimately, it's better to have 1 high achieving child than to have 3 children that'll likely have the socio-economic status of their parents: one a deadbeat and the other cheating one of her sons out of his max potential.
What if the dad gives her enough money to get the kid into the most basic of private schools? Is it fine to split it 3 ways into tutor lessons/ excellent school supplies rather than 1 child attending the private school he deserves?
The mom is penalizing and damaging the potential of the son so her other children don't feel left out. In a sense, she's discriminating against her own son for having a daddy that actually cares enough to support him beyond the CS agreement.
Ultimately, it's better to have 1 high achieving child than to have 3 children that'll likely have the socio-economic status of their parents: one a deadbeat and the other cheating one of her sons out of his max potential.
What if the dad gives her enough money to get the kid into the most basic of private schools? Is it fine to split it 3 ways into tutor lessons/ excellent school supplies rather than 1 child attending the private school he deserves?
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The post was done a few years ago.
It’s hard for unmarried men who haven’t established paternity.. but it differs state to state.
the mom...
im in the situation now... my daughter's brother dad nowhere to be found ....
the amount i spend..is more than enough for a 8 yr old... n how my daughter is
when i have her...n she wants somethin she always make sure she gets somethin for the lil bro too..
ion trip...
kids gone want their sibilings to have everything they have ....so if they know daddy is givin money ...they gone want to share...
regardless if the punk ass daddy trippin off 600 dollars..
im in the situation now... my daughter's brother dad nowhere to be found ....
the amount i spend..is more than enough for a 8 yr old... n how my daughter is
when i have her...n she wants somethin she always make sure she gets somethin for the lil bro too..
ion trip...
kids gone want their sibilings to have everything they have ....so if they know daddy is givin money ...they gone want to share...
regardless if the punk ass daddy trippin off 600 dollars..
Pirius Black
Superstar
Any kid that has any sort of love for his siblings is gonna share his shyt anyway. If he didn't want his money going to another nikkas kids, he should've worked on his vetting skills and pullout game. Sucks he got stuck with the bag being the non-piece-of-shyt pappy, but no mother worth anything is gonna let her other kids go without. Y'all nikkas don't live in the real world if you think once you relinquish custody, that you can control the way the mother spends the money. If you wanted that level of control, you should've either made her a wife or seeded up a woman you intend to marry. But some men and women in the community hate accountability so shyt like this will continue.
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Rocket Scientist
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Man took an L for having a kid with a single mother
LiveFromLondon
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The affinity for drama and fukkery is troubling
For the record it is about principle.
I wouldn't expect the other children to go without. If something happened to my ex, I'd even take them in.
I would however expect the mother to try and pay me back. I wouldn't ask her to and would turn down the offer. I would just think less of her if the offer was not made.
I wouldn't expect the other children to go without. If something happened to my ex, I'd even take them in.
I would however expect the mother to try and pay me back. I wouldn't ask her to and would turn down the offer. I would just think less of her if the offer was not made.
