Father gives baby mother $600 for his son. She spends it on all 3 of her kids instead

[EndDomination]

The well-being of all of the kids is important.

I'm taking sides with the parents because I couldn't' care less - I only care about the well-being of Black children.

 

[mobbinfms]

Getting custody involves more than just money..


Let’s be real... in most relationships, the women takes on the role as the primary parent in the child’s life.. A lot of men just give financial support and certain times where they spend it with their children which is why when the relationship ends, the women continues to be the primary parent while the man continues to provide the financial support. That’s why women typically get custody because they are the main parent in their children’s lives.. whether they have a job or not, so the children are usually put with the parent that is their primary caretaker unless there’s other circumstances that makes that a bad idea...


If both parents want custody of the children then each has to prove that the child would be better taken care of for all their wants and needs with a particular parent.


Most men aren’t fighting for that..
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These are all facts pretty much and the reason why the law favors mothers having custody.

 

[deadpresidents]

Good luck with that

What makes you think it wouldn't work?

 

[Noriega]

These hood make believe scenarios nikkas keep making are cringeworthy as fukk. Get a damn job.

Scenarios? This is real life shyt I’ve heard happen in my own fam

 

[Hoshi_Toshi]

Have a child with a single mother who already has multiple kids, brehs.

I’m just now seeing this avatar

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

It is actually true. Courts won’t take primary custody away from the mother unless there are pretty galling circumstances. I’m not a practicing family lawyer, but that’s what I learned in law school about fifteen years ago. If things have changed then

Why won’t they? What were the fathers circumstances? Honestly, did that apply in majority of custody battles?

 

[RadaMillz]

I’m on the mom side, can’t create jealousy and rivalries amongst siblings. You get a toy for one, u must get something else for the others too.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Tbh if a woman already has 2 kids by 2 other men. I would not be entertaining her in the first place.

 

[Raw Lyrics]

Not true..
If a man can show he’s better equipped to take care of his children, he can get primary physical custody. But it seems most men only fight to not pay child support and get some time with the children. A lot of them never fight for the children to live with them as their base home because a lot of men feel the children should be with their mother or don’t want that much responsibility. They prefer to be weekend parents. While they just see them occasionally and get mad that they have to still support the home they are no longer apart of.


Exactly... there’s way more cases of men being pissed at paying child support or not seeing their children often enough then men actually fighting for custody and losing.

The woman has to be sooooo OBVIOUSLY fukked up for that to happen. I spent a lot of time in Family Court (working).

In those situations women start off with a huge benefit of the doubt, that the man is typically (emphasis on typically) not afforded.

 

[mobbinfms]

Why won’t they? What were the fathers circumstances? Honestly, did that apply in majority of custody battles?

It would apply in every single custody case. The Court is going to favor the mother since mothers are traditionally the primary parent. It’s literally baked into how all these cases are decided.

 

[Bryan Danielson]

If he doesn’t like how she spends the money, get custody.

Or to either simplify it.

HE should just buy the shyt, give it to her and keep it moving. I don’t see the issue going forward

 

[NinoBrown]

All parties involved lost and kids will be Amazon drivers since all the parents are pieces of shyt...

 

[Nigerianwonder]

The man for impregnating a bytch with 2 different deadbeat baby daddies.

Tbh if a woman already has 2 kids by 2 other men. I would not be entertaining her in the first place.

Yall realize a woman can get pregnant and have more kids AFTER she breaks up with you right?

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

It would apply in every single custody case. The Court is going to favor the mother since mothers are traditionally the primary parent. It’s literally baked into how all these cases are decided.

I mentioned this as well that the mother is usually the primary caregiver..so the fathers would have to prove otherwise and let’s be real, that belief is the truth for the most part, lol. The outliers are the ones some guys like to focus on.


Are there statistics on how often fathers actually fight for custody? In what I posted earlier, most fathers don’t try to get custody?

 

[Entropy Fan]

I’m on the mom side, can’t create jealousy and rivalries amongst siblings. You get a toy for one, u must get something else for the others too.

yup. Just go get it from their dads. Or she should pay for it herself . You can’t make a man support other people’s kids .