Father gives baby mother $600 for his son. She spends it on all 3 of her kids instead

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  • The mom

    Votes: 50 24.0%
  • The dad

    Votes: 158 76.0%

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Mirin4rmfar

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The mom, these are brothers and sisters. In the long run bonding with the his/her brothers and sisters is more important.
 

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@Chelsea Bridge that article you posted has data from a dead link

Regardless, yes, many couples mutually decide to make the mom the primary caregiver, but that doesn't disprove that there is bias. That article didn't disprove that judges don't bias.

There's anecdotes in this thread, and elsewhere, that show otherwise.
 

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Child support money becomes household money once it reaches the moms hands. Really ain't shyt a man can do about it.
Thread could have ended right here.

If you dont want your money to get spent on other kids, then spend the money directly yourself.
Thats all you can do. Child support will be used for whatever she wants. Best to not even think about it.
 

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I know dudes who tried to get custody, I didn't work out for them. The burden of proof is significantly greater with men tha it is with women in court. If you cant afford a good lawyer and the mother isnt known trash then good luck.

I've spoken on my brothers situation a few times on here, he was required to pay nearly 1k in child support a month so he was working extra hours to pay bills and shyt. When he was fighting for custody, working extra hours fukked him, they said he worked too much to properly take care of the kids even tho he only worked so many hours is because he was forced to pay for his kids not being with him.

He has a 3 bedroom house and makes more while the mother had to move back in with her parents, it didnt matter because the general consensus is that the children should be with the mother unless she cant take care of them.

It did not matter that their mother didn't even have her own place to stay and had been recently fired from her job. The only fact that mattered in the courts eyes was that my brother worked alot.
The bold is so fukking ridiculous and it happens all the damn time in custody cases in certain states...

Prime reason why I :martin: when I hear folk say men don't want custody...Why would I want to pay pay double or triple what it would cost me to raise my kid if I had custody? I wouldn't have to work two jobs if I wasn't getting raped for baby mamma support...In the case of an athlete they paying over 1000% more than what it would cost them if the kid was in their custody and they hired a nanny for away games...

I know a dude that had an iron clad prenup that stipulated his wife would be left with nothing including the kids which would remain in his custody...Judge tossed the prenup out because she said he forced her to sign it which there was NO EVIDENCE whatsoever to backup that claim...It was literally he said, she said and judge tossed out a legally binding contract on that because she felt sorry for the woman...This is the shyt men have to deal with in states like NY and Cali...
 

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The mother is not "wrong" but in doing this she better understand that if that's what he can give, that's it.
Just buy the kid what he needs, and keep the receipts. Folks make stuff complicated for no reason.
And when this happens the women will have an issue with the man not putting the money in her hand to do what SHE wants. This is why brehs get taken to court.
 

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His fault.

If you are dumb enough to impregnate a woman that has two kids already, then you deserve whatever happens after.

Or if you are dumb enough to impregnate the type of woman to have two more kids after yours, then you deserve whatever happens after.

Choose better brehs :francis:
 

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Custody for the man in the us is a fuxking joke

My cousin was married to a bitxh that quit her job ans then divorced him. So she didnt have a job and she said he couldnt lice with her in the home he was paying rent on, she had a car he paid off

Divorce judge made him pay alimony and had to pay rent on their house for 6 months until she could find a new place and then ruled he would have to contribute to her housing 900 a month because she was awarded primary custody of the children. when he bought his apartment he sought to get joint custody he was refused by the courts.

Next year he will finally be done with child support for a bytch who only works paet time and quit her 6 figure job, had an affair amd initated a divorce against him.
 

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So she's suppose to feed 1 of them, while the other two sit there hungry?

yall fakkits just dont like women,
:stopitslime: how the fukk is it his and his kids fault the dumb bytch ended up pregnant by two bum ass nikkas. If he wanted to buy something for them he would have obviously he wanted to do something SPECIFICALLY for his child. Those kids is her end if the ball game not his, whatever he does for them is out of good heart not his responsibility
 

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That is an ugly scenario, I feel for the guy, but that's the result of making a baby with a rather awful choice of a mother. It is what it is.
 

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Custody for the man in the us is a fuxking joke

My cousin was married to a bitxh that quit her job ans then divorced him. So she didnt have a job and she said he couldnt lice with her in the home he was paying rent on, she had a car he paid off

Divorce judge made him pay alimony and had to pay rent on their house for 6 months until she could find a new place and then ruled he would have to contribute to her housing 900 a month because she was awarded primary custody of the children. when he bought his apartment he sought to get joint custody he was refused by the courts.

Next year he will finally be done with child support for a bytch who only works paet time and quit her 6 figure job, had an affair amd initated a divorce against him.
:picard:
I would've been fighting for custody every chance I could get.
 
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