Father on the phone don't want to deal with his kids anymore after being put on child support

Ezekiel 25:17

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The father is wrong, but that mother is wrong too.

At the end of the day it’s the child that loses.

Females get in their chest and know that family court as it relates to custody generally always favors the mother if she has any type of competency.

Females get upset and start using kids and the judicial system as a weapon against men. You have to be smarter about the type of women you’re dealing with.

A lot of women aren’t shyt and use young children as their ace in the hole to exercise some level of control over a man. Those kids grow up not getting what they need.

It could be the momma ain't shyt or it could be she didn't choose right.

Definitely a 50/50 thing.
 

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I was in a similar situation just this weekend.
But I didn’t react like he did.
Life is gonna be more complicated for me now, but I’m a always be there for my kids!!

Stay solid brother, I went thru, am going thru, this as well. Our kids need us, aint no woman can make me react this way to my children...
 

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Man the emotion he's coming from is understandable. I won't pretend to know the specifics of their situation bit he's at least been present in his kids lives, and if the case is despite being a father she still put him on the hook, I can understand being angry...
It isn't understandable. If he was doing his job, the decision made by the court wouldn't make a difference as it would just formalise what he was already doing.

He got put "on the hook" because he was doing less than what is required of him.

He is a straight up bum who is trying to use the emotional trauma, caused by abandoning his kid, as leverage to get out of paying what is required.

No excuses.
 

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How can you protect them in prison? :lupe:
People don’t normally say that statement like they are going to commit random murders for hire

They say it like someone is harming their child or means to harm them and the parent says “I’ll kill for mine”

But you already knew that
 

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Saves u from 18 years of headache and financial ruins

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Our young girls, our daughters, our baby sisters become unwed mothers before they are hardly out of their teens. Our community has thousands of unmarried mothers [who] have no hope of ever getting a husband. And our community has tens of thousands of little babies who have no father to act as their provider or protector,"
 

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Our young girls, our daughters, our baby sisters become unwed mothers before they are hardly out of their teens. Our community has thousands of unmarried mothers [who] have no hope of ever getting a husband. And our community has tens of thousands of little babies who have no father to act as their provider or protector,"


You are Canadian what do you mean by "our"?


The single mother rate in Canada is less that 20 percent


Census in Brief: Portrait of children's family life in Canada in 2016
 
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