Father on the phone don't want to deal with his kids anymore after being put on child support

[Diyhai]

Exactly. Momma aint shyt, but dad knew that when he started fukkin with her. I can't blame him for what he said because we all speak out of frustration sometimes. But momma filming it is calculated and super shytty. Another example of how men are pushed out of their children's lives.

a person can change up
people in hear really think they can control another person's actions
both of them are wrong they shouldnt even be putting the child in between their disagreements
this nygga aint know she would be posting shyt like this on tiktok when he was fukking her

 

[Concerned Citizen]

Not gonna act like I know the whole story but that was some bullshyt the dad was Reli f the kid. That’s a kid it’s not his business. At same time momma also showed that she ain’t shyt by posting the vid. You let him bust in you ma, hold your L with sincerity and KIM.

All it took was one party to want better for themselves and this situation likely could’ve been avoided…

 

[Sauce and Footwork]

I could never ever in my life speak like that to my children. I don’t care if they mamma just had a knife to my throat. Parents do not talk to they children calling anybody bytches hoes nikkas … any of that. That’s some ghetto fukk shyt. A child is a child, they have nothing to do with grown business. Be a fukking man. You don’t tell your child they mamma a bytch or none of that, even if she is. Not if they are an actual child. Wtf

 

[Concerned Citizen]

Hhh

-It's looked at as a weapon because it's often used as a weapon. My BM took me to court over payments because she wanted me to give her cash instead of buying what the kids needed myself. Women want this money to do what they want with it & it often doesn't go to the kids.

-No it doesn't. It only lowers if you go to court & they approve an adjustment.

-You don't know if he was a bum before this or why he got put on the hook. fukk formalizing things, it can directly interfere with your ability to spend time with your kids.

Breh it looks like you’re going through it and as long as you legit take care of yours the. I wish you the best.

With that being said unless your bum was your wife and she pulled some out of left field shyt then your situation was totally avoidable. Please speak to the young brehs about how to avoid this type of deal…

 

[Diyhai]

Honestly, whats so scary about child support? People keep looking at it as a weapon, when really it’s money that you were going to be spending on your child anyway. Or SHOULD be spending anyway. Which is really what the problem is. The non-custodial parent usually wants to lowball the custodial parent. And in those cases, child support is necessary.

Anyway, the average child support payment across-the-board is $400. If you getting mad over $400, you probably need a better job.

He ain’t shyt. He sounds mad that he’s actually being held accountable to helping carry the financial cost of raising a child as he should be.

it sounds like she wants the child support and extra
when you pay child support the women can be using it for shyt like rent and gas
you an adult and rent and gas are things you need and should cover yourself
if he paid his child support he not buying no sneakers take that out the child support
he not buying clothes take that out the child support
when you invovle the state thats how nyggas rocking
they are just paying the flat rate dont call me when he need something else take it out what i pay

 

[Rockstar Mom]

Hhh

-It's looked at as a weapon because it's often used as a weapon. My BM took me to court over payments because she wanted me to give her cash instead of buying what the kids needed myself. Women want this money to do what they want with it & it often doesn't go to the kids.

L

Sounds like you were being petty, and it backfired against you tbh. If your kid is not walking around crusty, holey clothes, hair not done, stank, etc.. What was the issue with you just giving her the money.?

 

[Bigblackted4]

So we never going to give women any accountability, this is all on the man right

 

[Rockstar Mom]

it sounds like she wants the child support and extra
when you pay child support the women can be using it for shyt like rent and gas
you an adult and rent and gas are things you need and should cover yourself
if he paid his child support he not buying no sneakers take that out the child support
he not buying clothes take that out the child support
when you invovle the state thats how nyggas rocking
they are just paying the flat rate dont call me when he need something else take it out what i pay

I can’t comprehend this logic. If I was paying child support, my child can still call me and ask me for whatever they want. Like what? Lol. Just like in the video, this just makes it seem like you’re mad at the mother so you take it out on the kid.

The parent who pays CS is actually getting off easier. You spend way more money when you’re the custodial parent. This is just a fact

 

[Jazzy B.]

Dude mad af despite knowing this is the risk that comes with nutting in chicks that ain’t your wife

hung up on his kid after all that venting too damn

Y'all still don't get it.

A lot of these women were jumpoffs and were never meant to continue with the pregnancy and there was never meant to be any real relationship.

The woman was just to get a nut off

 

[Diyhai]

Sounds like you were being petty, and it backfired against you tbh. If your kid is not walking around crusty, holey clothes, hair not done, stank, etc.. What was the issue with you just giving her the money.?

he not tryna finance her lifestyle
he wanted all his money directly given to his kids
if my child needs shoes cool I'll buy them
rather than giving her money and she using it for her nails, rent, or anything not directly for the kids

 

[god shamgod]

Y'all still don't get it.

A lot of these women were jumpoffs and were never meant to continue with the pregnancy and there was never meant to be any real relationship.

The woman was just to get a nut off

Duh nikka , that’s exactly why his dumb ass traumatizing his kids over his bad decision making

 

[Rockstar Mom]

he not tryna finance her lifestyle
he wanted all his money directly given to his kids
if my child needs shoes cool I'll buy them
rather than giving her money and she using it for her nails, rent, or anything not directly for the kids

Y’all have to let that stereotype go. Like I said, the average child support is $400 a month. shyt a lot of people paying less than that. I know somebody that’s getting $25 for her kid. Nobody’s balling out on y’all child support

 

[Diyhai]

I can’t comprehend this logic. If I was paying child support, my child can still call me and ask me for whatever they want. Like what? Lol. Just like in the video, this just makes it seem like you’re mad at the mother so you take it out on the kid.

The parent who pays CS is actually getting off easier. You spend way more money when you’re the custodial parent. This is just a fact

woman not gonna break down how they spending the money
thats the issue men have
were is my money going
if I pay for things direct there is no issue
but randomly giving a women 1200 a month I would never

 

[Diyhai]

Y’all have to let that stereotype go. Like I said, the average child support is $400 a month. shyt a lot of people paying less than that. I know somebody that’s getting $25 for her kid. Nobody’s balling out on y’all child support

who paying 400
you around broke nyggas

 

[Jazzy B.]

Duh nikka , that’s exactly why his dumb ass traumatizing his kids over his bad decision making

Those are not "his" kids