Father on the phone don't want to deal with his kids anymore after being put on child support

[Rockstar Mom]

who paying 400
you around broke nyggas

nikka. The AVERAGE child support payment across the board is $400. Across all ethnicities. That is literally the American average. Y’all be living vicariously through celebrities, that’s why you think everybody’s paying $10,000 a month in child support

 

[In The Zone '98]

Anger in the moment. But he'll find clarity, hopefully.

 

[Pool_Shark]

Man he should be grateful he even has the privilege of talking to his kids.

But everything on the internet is fake. Video is probably fake

 

[Diyhai]

nikka. The AVERAGE child support payment across the board is $400. Across all ethnicities. That is literally the American average. Y’all be living vicariously through celebrities, that’s why you think everybody’s paying $10,000 a month in child support

nobody talking 10k
but 800-1200 for someone with a decent job
them nyggas paying 400 gotta be broke that wouldn't annoy me at all

 

[Rockstar Mom]

nobody talking 10k
but 800-1200 for someone with a decent job
them nyggas paying 400 gotta be broke that wouldn't annoy me at all

Mine sends me around 1k each month(NOT court ordered). He doesnt ask me for no itemized list . The kids always clean , hair always cut , fly , do sports/ extracurricular activities . I wish a nikka would ask me for a list

And when they’re with him, he still buys them extra if they ask for it. I just can’t relate to the petty shyt y’all talking about in this thread.

 

[Mordith]

Mine sends me around 1k each month(NOT court ordered). He doesnt ask me for no itemized list . The kids always clean , hair always cut , fly , do sports/ extracurricular activities . I wish a nikka would ask me for a list

And when they’re with him, he still buys them extra if they ask for it. I just can’t relate to the petty shyt y’all talking about in this thread.

at $1000 a month for more than one kid breh got off easy that's why he isn't asking for itemized list.

 

[Umoja]

-It's looked at as a weapon because it's often used as a weapon. My BM took me to court over payments because she wanted me to give her cash instead of buying what the kids needed myself. Women want this money to do what they want with it & it often doesn't go to the kids.

Do you split custody?

Isn't always as easy as saying "I'll buy what the kids need". You need to factor in rent, time ans utilities.

-You don't know if he was a bum before this or why he got put on the hook. fukk formalizing things, it can directly interfere with your ability to spend time with your kids.

Why bother formalise things? Again, it is only a problem if he is contributing less than what is required.

And he is a bum. His character is clearly lacking if he thinks it is acceptable to cut his kid off because the mother took him to court for child support. He has the heart of a bum.

 

[beenz]

That man is a bytch

I agree. child support sucks. I know first hand. but it's the cost of doing business when ya'll split up and have kids.

 

[Rockstar Mom]

at $1000 a month for more than one kid breh got off easy that's why he isn't asking for itemized list.

Trust, our teenager runs his fathers pocket faithfully because my favorite response is “ask your dad to get it”

 

[beenz]

at $1000 a month for more than one kid breh got off easy that's why he isn't asking for itemized list.

I'm paying more than that for just one kid.

on top of that, I give both of them money and I pay for them to fly back and forth between here and texas the majority of the time.

only 5 more years left

 

[beenz]

I don't have children, but fukk, man - that pops is foul for communicating that to his son. He would've been better not saying anything. Now his children will know that daddy, rather than go back to court if he thinks the ruling was unfair, will bounce on his responsibility. And the son learns to be a man from who?

I hate it when adults use children to communicate thru them. it's bullshyt.

 

[Mordith]

I'm paying more than that for just one kid.

on top of that, I give both of them money and I pay for them to fly back and forth between here and texas the majority of the time.

only 5 more years left

I pay $1200 for 1 and the only other expense I come out of pocket for is airfare to fly to get him and take him back. I don't have a problem paying my financial obligation as outlined in my divorce decree, but I'll be damned if I pay anything outside of our agreement.

 

[AllHolosEve]

Breh it looks like you’re going through it and as long as you legit take care of yours the. I wish you the best.

With that being said unless your bum was your wife and she pulled some out of left field shyt then your situation was totally avoidable. Please speak to the young brehs about how to avoid this type of deal…

-My youngest about to be 18 so I'm almost done with this, me & my BM good now. I'm just speaking cause I had to go through this & it was bad blood for a while.

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

Child support can be real funny. A man if either pay peanuts or an amount high enough where he has trouble taking care of himself. It sounds like he was already involved and the mother still put him on child support. Considering the mother recorded and posted it on TikTok tells me a lot.

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

Honestly, whats so scary about child support? People keep looking at it as a weapon, when really it’s money that you were going to be spending on your child anyway. Or SHOULD be spending anyway. Which is really what the problem is. The non-custodial parent usually wants to lowball the custodial parent. And in those cases, child support is necessary.

Anyway, the average child support payment across-the-board is $400. If you getting mad over $400, you probably need a better job.

He ain’t shyt. He sounds mad that he’s actually being held accountable to helping carry the financial cost of raising a child as he should be.

No disrespect but you sound a little closed minded on the issue. Once child support has been established the courts can direct the non-custodial parent how often they can see their child. That is something two grown adults should be able to establish. Also the non-custodial parent could give extra money and according the the courts, that is considered a gift and no bearing on payments evens if a job is lost. There are a lot of issues with child support when people ask the government to play daddy. I will there are cases where it is needed from a dead beat parent.