Father on the phone don't want to deal with his kids anymore after being put on child support

[Sterling Archer]

Yea, that takes a divorce tho. I’m talking about the men with baby mamas

You can still be on child support even if you are still married breh.

 

[Sterling Archer]

The parents deserve each other. The kids deserve better parents.

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

-Fair enough, but if you need cash shouldn't you be working? Name a child related necessity that you can't get without the other parent literally handing you cash. Food, bills, clothes, etc. don't require me giving you cash.

i mean.... you choose who you choose to be the parents of the child. if you knew they have a hard time in the workplace or made significantly less than you it is what it is.
but if you are not there with the child every single day, then there is occasion for all of those needs to arise and a need for cash. if you dont have the kids 7 days a week, a situation might come where they are somewhere and need food. a situation might come where they need to be transported somewhere, etc. should a parent have to call the other parent to come take the kid to get food everytime that occasion arises just because you feel some way about just giving cash in hand? that seem a bit overbearing which is weird because you all like to claim that women do this to keep a leash on you. but you seem to want to involve yourself in every transaction (like... do you seriously pay your child's mothers bills instead of just giving her part of the money? that doesn't seem awkward to you to be that involved?)

maybe that's why parents involve the system. maybe some don't want to have to wait or ask or depend on the other person to come around and "go shopping" in order to have sufficient care for the kid. maybe they'd rather just get the monthly, bimonthly payment and go on about their business.

maybe a way to feel better about it and move forward would be for people to see it how it actually is, you are giving them cash for the KID, not "giving them cash"

 

[DPresidential]

How do you feel about women who kill their babies or abandon them through adoption?

That's so ironic.

I recently found out I was adopted after my father died in 2021.

Connected with my birth mother and absolutely understood her reasons for why she needed to give me a chance at a better life.

It worked out for her and me.

We are now talking everyday.

 

[CashmereThoughts]

if she knew what the deal was...

why put him on child support?

then film the reaction that she knew was going to happen?

Sound like you defending this bytch ass nikka.

we know nothing about the situation and why it may have been necessary to arrange child support in court. The fact that you automatically placed blame with the mom when the dad is acting like a bytch and shytting in his own children is telling.

 

[$cam-U-Well_Jack$on]

Dysfunction.

 

[Yaboysix]

Double

 

[Yaboysix]

Hhh

-It's looked at as a weapon because it's often used as a weapon. My BM took me to court over payments because she wanted me to give her cash instead of buying what the kids needed myself. Women want this money to do what they want with it & it often doesn't go to the kids.

-No it doesn't. It only lowers if you go to court & they approve an adjustment.

-You don't know if he was a bum before this or why he got put on the hook. fukk formalizing things, it can directly interfere with your ability to spend time with your kids.

"No it doesn't. It only lowers if you go to court & they approve an adjustment."

Well yeah, that's the first step. I did it and the shyt got lowered DRASTICALLY. We did mediation and the moms were cool long as i was paying SOMETHING.

 

[Rawtid]

Typical deadbeat mentality. Want to slide you money when they feel like or god forbid you have to call them, then get mad when mom chooses a more stable/consistent way to get money, that dad should be forking over regularly anyway.

Lol imagine a mom telling her kids, “I foot the financial part so look elsewhere for your physical and emotional support. I did my part”

 

[Rawtid]

-When me & my BM separated I had all 4 kids & took care of them by myself without a dime from her. She only filed for custody because the state ordered her to pay me support, it was a spite play over money. In the end 2 live with me again. You're not telling me anything special here.

Baby, the way I would have paid you. On time, every month, and more of whatever they needed. Non custodial parenting my ass off. The money is the EASIEST part of parenting.

 

[3rdWorld]

The child support laws need to be reevaluated.

Paternity must be conducted by the State at birth.

I feel bad for the kids, but women routinely use kids as weapons againt the dad and no one gives a shyt.

 

[Ohene]

So we never going to give women any accountability, this is all on the man right

You know how it is
Lot of hoe ass nikkas in here

 

[King Poetic]

That nikka had no problem saying oh baby I love u, this p*ssy mine, we will be a family

And she had no problem saying I love u Tyrone and all that love me we a couple shyt

Then the 3 WORDS nikkaS AND WOMEN HATE reality /accountability/ responsibility kicks in and u have this outcome

 

[Giselle]

-Nah. One's 24, the other's gonna be 18 & we settled our differences. I never asked her for anything the entire time we were going through it.

It sounds like you picked trash women tbh, bc why don’t they have custody? And is what you’re doing vs what they’re doing documented just in case they try to take you to court? Does the court know you have primary custody so they won’t come back later and try to take the kids?

 

[Giselle]

I can’t comprehend this logic. If I was paying child support, my child can still call me and ask me for whatever they want. Like what? Lol. Just like in the video, this just makes it seem like you’re mad at the mother so you take it out on the kid.

The parent who pays CS is actually getting off easier. You spend way more money when you’re the custodial parent. This is just a fact

How does the custodial parent spend more money outside of groceries & water bill?