Fathers of the Coli: Are you teaching your daughters to be INDEPENDENT or to Marry a Man that can provide Security and Stability?

[KidJSoul]

The right answer should be "both".

Get you a daughter that can do both.

Independent but also aware and respectful of the family unit.

I’d be damned if I teach my daughter to be subservient and to have to live off another person.

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You don't have to pick one. A woman can be smart, have a good job/skills, be able to support herself, but still have the qualities of a wife and know how to cook, be cleanly, understand a man, etc.

You should also help guide her into marrying the right man. That also plays a big role in her ability to do both

 

[Kurt off them percs]

This sounds like a wise man.

Something I learned from my father.

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

This nikka obsessed with underaged girls

 

[L2014]

No, my daughter @LezJepzin is addicted to cac dikk. We gon throw her away and try again

 

[WaveWhisperer]

 

[HarlemHottie]

@Gloxina Come talk to em, sis.

 

[Gloxina]

@Gloxina Come talk to em, sis.

Whew.

On my way to the gym.
I’ll be back for this one lol

 

[analog]

I'd ensure she felt loved, safe, and supported as a child so she can develop the tools to succeed in whatever she wants to do as an adult.

 

[97Pac]

Teaching her to cook and clean so she don't end up living with me.

We'll see if I regret teaching her Brazilian Jiu-Jitsu.

What would be the potential con to having a daughter that can defend herself?

 

[ItsPeople]

Independent but also submissive.

 

[Gloxina]

Independent but also submissive.

A lot of men will have an issue with this answer. Why independent?

 

[Bolzmark]

What do we mean when we say independent exactly? That she has marketable skills and can make a living for herself?

 

[ItsPeople]

A lot of men will have an issue with this answer. Why independent?

So she doesn’t have to rely on a man for her survival because brehs can be just as skiddish. leaving her pregnant or just walking out one day.

 

[Gloxina]

So she doesn’t have to rely on a man for her survival because brehs can be just as skiddish. leaving her pregnant or just walking out one day.

^^^^^^^^


Just wanted a man to clarify. If a woman says this, it’s the end of the world.

I agree. As long as she’s taught what to look for and value in a good guy, that’s a win/win

 

[The Connoisseurs]

Wrong question … security and stability doesn’t mean she found a Good Men.