I’m teaching my daughters to go to med school and marry a doctor or someone in an equally respected field whose money, lifestyle, goals and parenting/upbringing matches theirs.
Fathers of the Coli: Are you teaching your daughters to be INDEPENDENT or to Marry a Man that can provide Security and Stability?
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The Prince of All Saiyans
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37 and no kids 
The Fade
I don’t argue with niqqas on the Internet anymore
Marry a man with a good relationship with his family who will adopt them. Marry the man’s community so they are safe and looked after. Marry a man from legacy that he has to take over. When you marry someone, that should be your family as well. If you’re with someone who cut off his parents you just lost power and are gonna run in place
Individualism doesn’t work. We did 60 cycles around the sun trying all the backwards things and it’s not working. Try something that actually works. Being a vagabond makes you vulnerable.
Individualism doesn’t work. We did 60 cycles around the sun trying all the backwards things and it’s not working. Try something that actually works. Being a vagabond makes you vulnerable.
The Connoisseurs
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*Some Good Men may have cut off their family because their “family” members are toxic.
I’m teaching my daughters to go to med school and marry a doctor or someone in an equally respected field whose money, lifestyle, goals and parenting/upbringing matches theirs.
We have some wise dads on TheColi
Ezekiel 25:17
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The Fade
I don’t argue with niqqas on the Internet anymore
True.
That man better be resourceful and have his path planned out then.
For myself, my father-in-law gotta see me as one of his successors and a piece of his legacy. Like my maternal grandfather did my dad. Marriage is supposed to be like a company merger in my opinion. Creating new pathways and possibilities for everyone related.
A family oriented 6 figure man from a 2 parent home.
Was your dad a womanizer? Kids can see their father cheating on their mother and believe thats the way you supposed to trea
Pure Water
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Most women aren't being taught by their fathers.
Shell be stronger then most these bytch ass n1ggas out here which means shell gravitate to alphas which means she's in for a world of pain.
Unless she finds a strong alpha, who's in Christ, frfr.
Shell be stronger then most these bytch ass n1ggas out here which means shell gravitate to alphas which means she's in for a world of pain.
Unless she finds a strong alpha, who's in Christ, frfr.
Just keep
with her about how “alphas” operate. It’s worse when your daughter gets blindsided and realizes that all that shyt you taught her as a kid ain’t really how the real world operates, and that the church is gonna look the other way when you run to them about your hubby’s infidelity
Women think life works the way it does in their imagination so no amount of teaching is really going to prepare them for what's out there. You just have to give them enough teachings so they have something to come back to if they have strayed off the path. When you're gone they'll need something they can pass on to their children knowing that what their parents told them was all true
Just keep
It’s worse when your daughter gets blindsided and realizes that all that shyt you taught her as a kid ain’t really how the real world operates, and that the church is gonna look the other way when you run to them about your hubby’s infidelity
Literally watching this shyt play out in my family. Girls think the way we do because ppl fill our heads with fairytales. That is how girls are socialized, especially in the West. I’m one of the few younger women in my family that the men have real conversations with.
If ppl kept it all the way real you’d see way more women getting what they want and not being crazy emotional about things men do. We’d also be a lot more shrewd and not dumb enough to engage in casual sex
