FEATURED: it cost $4,882.52 per year to date an Black female

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So if it costs that much then where are the dudes who say "You don't pay for it" at?

You would think they'd have made the first page already.

These magical negros that somehow have so much game they never shell out a dime, but when they do "It ain't trickin if you have it" and "No sweat off my back" or some other bullshyt like "Broke nikka problems", "It's only 1% of my monthly income, I'mma baller nikka" :mjlol:

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Some posters will use this logic and turn to backpage. Don't encourage them :ufdup:
 

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it's all about the standard you set when you start dealing with the woman. if you want to be a provider, be a provider. if you want her to contribute to the cause, lead her to understand that. if you want her to be the sole provider, then lead her to that mindset. whatever you want to do and however you want to lead your relationship, there's probably a girl like that out there. the problem is, too many dudes try to turn one type of girl into another type. sure, sometimes, you gotta motivate people to act a certain way but you gotta learn to recognize the signs that it's not in her and move on to the next one.

share your goal with the woman you choose and if she wants to share the accomplishment with you, if she feels like it's the life she wants as well, then most of the job is already done. all you gotta do is discuss with her what her role in all of this is.if she feels like it's to accomplish something great, she will volunteer on her own money, energy, time, sweat and tears to the cause. if not, respect her choice. This can be used to accomplish good or evil. whichever you choose, do it right and respect the game. Hell, even if you don't have a goal (which a lot of people don't) you still gotta make up one to get her to surrender the control. do that and the 4000$ you "pay" to date her will be chump change compared to the amount of devotion and dedication you get from her. and she's doing it all for a common goal (your happiness). most of y'all just want a cyborg/bio-android to do whatever you want it to do. and even then y'all would complain about the maintenance. figure out what your goal is, choose a girl that either has similar goals or that has no goals and open to your goals, sell the vision, eat. Dudes need to get their fukking mind right.
 
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