Feelings on being a Stepdad?
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i considered it once and then realized im not a fukking moron. sucks i had to let the p*ssy go tho. she was awesome 
I could, but I'd be very hesitant.
It's hard to know just how much to involve yourself in someone else's child.
In a lot of ways, it's a no-win situation unless you're there from a young age and if you're with that child (and child's mother) for a lot of years.
Last thing a man wants to deal with is trying to school someone else's child and have them throw that "You aint my daddy" shyt in your face.
I'd say avoid most of those situations.
It's hard to know just how much to involve yourself in someone else's child.
In a lot of ways, it's a no-win situation unless you're there from a young age and if you're with that child (and child's mother) for a lot of years.
Last thing a man wants to deal with is trying to school someone else's child and have them throw that "You aint my daddy" shyt in your face.
I'd say avoid most of those situations.
I could, but I'd be very hesitant.
It's hard to know just how much to involve yourself in someone else's child.
In a lot of ways, it's a no-win situation unless you're there from a young age and if you're with that child (and child's mother) for a lot of years.
Last thing a man wants to deal with is trying to school someone else's child and have them throw that "You aint my daddy" shyt in your face.
I'd say avoid most of those situations.
Yeah, that's how I feel. Once that child hit you with that, you ain't my daddy shyt. It's really no comeback to that
It would be real hard to raise another man's child. I don't think I could do it. If it ain't mine 
This is one of the reasons why I don't fukk with single moms. It's one of my absolute requirements. (1) She can't have kids and (2) she can't be religious
This is one of the reasons why I don't fukk with single moms. It's one of my absolute requirements. (1) She can't have kids and (2) she can't be religious
Axum Ezana
Driving in the fast lane
well you cant beat they bad ass....and the mom always think you treat your biological kids better.
Nope.
Couldn't be in a relationship with a bytch with a family already.
Couldn't be in a relationship with a bytch with a family already.
I might find a chick do it for a few months as a test run.............and to kick over a lil nikkas pillow fort and give him and his friends the "Guns and Butter" speech 
I could deal with being a stepdad if she has one child i'm not sure about more than that. Two or three might end up being some Bébé's Kids shyt i ain't ready for all that especially when the "you ain't my daddy" shyt starts. Plus it depends on the woman too because if i can't see myself ever settling down with her and having biological kids with her then it's not happening anyway.
Detroit Wave
Veteran
Nope.
SpacelySprockets
Veteran
I don't think i'd be able to do it if I didn't have a kid(s) of my own(I don't have any but hypothetically speaking). If we're in similar situations we'd be able to understand each other better and we'd both get used to raising another persons kid together. But if i'm just straight up being thrown into that fire with no prior experience all over some vagina? plenty of other fish in the sea without that baggage.
plenty of other fish in the sea without that baggage.
onelastdeath
Banned
As a nikka who had a stepdad. This is accurate
For me to do it, he can't be some over 14 nikka. He gotta be a baby.
I might have to pull a fukking BabyBoy on that lil nikka