Feelings on being a Stepdad?

[Chris.B]

These lil kids usually have smart mouths...when you try to check 'em you will hear the inevitable "you aint my daddy" line

 

[Smoke]

Yup.

All he has to do is pop up on some I changed and you'll be getting the, your a great guy and its so hard tear drop tear drop but little trey Jr loves you this is why IRS so hard, but me and treyvathian are going to give it another go.

Exactly, that's why I feel like I could only do it if the pops was dead or like waaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy out of the picture

 

[Food Mane]

I'am a step dad unfortunately :-(
I don't gotta deal with the BD drama because homeboy died so I'am good.
I raised the little fukkker from 3-8 so far,so good. I have my off days where I'am like this is not even my kid,but I feel like if I leave this little Nikka is going to turn into another fatherless statistic. I been stressing math on little man and he has won math awards since pre-k and even got into the smart class two times in a row. Bottom line it's not for everyone though.

Message board dudes named HIVAIDS are out here raising children and having second thoughts after 5 years

 

[MikelArteta]

There's a gazillon females out there without kids

Settle brehs

Exactly, that's why I feel like I could only do it if the pops was dead or like waaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy out of the picture

 

[daboywonder2002]

listen im a stepdad. ive seen the good and ive seen the bad. ive some guys who wanna go all in. meaning the kids call him dad, he takes 100 percent care of them no matter what. i know one guy who got mad because the bio dad was paying support. no for me, i wish the dad would get more involved. i dont care what anyone says a child needs their parents. whether they are together or not. My only issue with being a stepdad is financial. its even harder making the most money. see my belief is that i take care of the basics. A house to live in, food to eat, etc. now all the extra stuff(college education, private school, day camp, swimming lessons, buying a car, band camp, just any thing extra). that stuff is for bio mom and bio dad to handle. i may be wrong but listen i have 2 kids i have to save for their education. im not gonna take away from my kids to pay for stepkids. that money could be going to my own kids. do ya'll think i'm wrong if i start a college fund for my bio children and not stepkids? i dont. i feel they have a mom and dad who can pay for their college if they save money. Now if i adopt them then all bets are off. According to common law, stepparents do not have a direct financial responsibility for the health, education, or welfare of their stepchildren

 

[detroitwalt]

Big difference between a broad who was .married and her husband died of cancer or in war.

Than some single mom Thot who spread her legs for a deadbeat.

[ b]But you know what in both situations as a scholar on sohh once said "fukk them to"[/b]

I want my own seeds, not some nukka that looks like his deadbeat father.

Screw all that stress and unruly spoiled kids that ain't mine for what? A pat on the back?

I wish I could remember that quote exactly. shyt was hilarious

 

[KobeTho]

I dated a woman with a kid, was not for me. Was 19 dating a 23 year old with a 3 year old kid back in my simp days.

Couldn't go out as often.
Used to wake up early on weekends.
Dirty looks from the baby daddy family (funny enough he never gave me any shyt, he probably felt sorry for me )
Time spent doing things I enjoyed were replaced with activities that the kid enjoyed.
Asking for a baby sitter to go out.
Kid was spoilt too so she was very bratty and manipulative.

These things seem selfish, but to be frank I don't have kids and therefore have no reason to deal with the lifestyle changes kids come with. The woman wasn't even a dime .

To answer the question OP, hell no. Shyt would be awkward as fuk

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

im should start saving nikkas post when they admit to coming from a single parent home\


and when nikkas admit to being broke


and when nikkas admit to not getting hoes


and when nikkas admit to being depressed and on medication






nikkas talk real big on here but be in another thread ready to commit that





that's why when someone talks about some good shyt in their life the majority of u hoe nikkas claim it's ducktales



i swear i hate people gawd

 

[AlwaysLurkin]

The problem is the baby dad probably still has an all access pass to her p*ssy so naw fukk that

 

[Steve Piffler]

i'm a stepdad. i have had no problems at all. he was 1 when i got with my wife and he's 16 now. that said, i'd NEVER do it again nor do i suggest anyone else do it...

 

[the artist known az]

This eventually happens "You're not my real dad"

 

[Steve Piffler]

This eventually happens "You're not my real dad"

that has never happened to me. my stepson knows that i will smack fire from him and send him to live with his punk ass daddy if he ever pulls that card with me. he knows what's up....

 

[Jone2three45]

Raising another person kid(s) can be very expensive. Not to mention that the child's father could always have "easy acess" when it comes to your woman.

 

[the artist known az]

that has never happened to me. my stepson knows that i will smack fire from him and send him to live with his punk ass daddy if he ever pulls that card with me. he knows what's up....

Well you said he knew you since he was 1 but if you aint come in the picture til they was like 8 or something like that they might try it

 

[Steve Piffler]

Well you said he knew you since he was 1 but if you aint come in the picture til they was like 8 or something like that they might try it

maybe so. but he has told me that he has more love and respect for me than his deadbeat dad that lives 5 minutes away and hasn't seen his son at all this year....