It's not the fake standards, it's the fact that men are actually believing it and a narrative is forming that isn't true.Woman have fake standards online?![]()
It's not the fake standards, it's the fact that men are actually believing it and a narrative is forming that isn't true.Woman have fake standards online?![]()

I just wanna further expound on this post I made. I have no idea why people are taking many of these women seriously. A narrative is being painted that BW are all looking for HVM or high earners and its not the case.
If you want a high earner or potential high earner all you have to do is date within certain professions. It's really that easy. I have never known exactly what anyone I ever dated made and I'm pretty sure most women don't either.
Women are dating the men they have access to. Most of these women have children with or actively have sex with normal men. That behavior is reflected in their actions which they usually admit after further dialogue.
Saying you date non-HVM or low to moderate earner to women is basically the female equivalent to a man admitting he has a little dikk. Even if it's true they will never admit it.
I see a whole narrative being painted around a premise that just isn't true. That's why women can call in night after night because they know that it's not really something they are pursuing. So when they get talked down to or lectured they can keep it pushing because they know that were lying in the first place.
I hate to say this but many women are happy if you just take them out and throw a few gifts at them every so often. Most women value presentation.
So yes women have a lot of work to do with decisions they make and their overall attitudes. But the VAST MAJORITY of BW are not struggling because they are looking for a HVM or super high earners. We struggle because we weren't taught to make marriage or relationships a priority.
This "I need xyz" attitude is flexing for the gram. If the last few men a woman dated aren't high earners then it's not her reality...and women know this.
It's not the fake standards, it's the fact that men are actually believing it and a narrative is forming that isn't true.
It's not the fake standards, it's the fact that men are actually believing it and a narrative is forming that isn't true.
I said something more compact in the KS thread and with my wife. Most women (not even just black women) have never dated anyone who makes $40k/year. $40k/year as an individual is just below the top third of earners.I just wanna further expound on this post I made. I have no idea why people are taking many of these women seriously. A narrative is being painted that BW are all looking for HVM or high earners and its not the case.
If you want a high earner or potential high earner all you have to do is date within certain professions. It's really that easy. I have never known exactly what anyone I ever dated made and I'm pretty sure most women don't either.
Women are dating the men they have access to. Most of these women have children with or actively have sex with normal men. That behavior is reflected in their actions which they usually admit after further dialogue.
Saying you date non-HVM or low to moderate earner to women is basically the female equivalent to a man admitting he has a little dikk. Even if it's true they will never admit it.
I see a whole narrative being painted around a premise that just isn't true. That's why women can call in night after night because they know that it's not really something they are pursuing. So when they get talked down to or lectured they can keep it pushing because they know that were lying in the first place.
I hate to say this but many women are happy if you just take them out and throw a few gifts at them every so often. Most women value presentation.
So yes women have a lot of work to do with decisions they make and their overall attitudes. But the VAST MAJORITY of BW are not struggling because they are looking for a HVM or super high earners. We struggle because we weren't taught to make marriage or relationships a priority.
This "I need xyz" attitude is flexing for the gram. If the last few men a woman dated aren't high earners then it's not her reality...and women know this.
Women might not come outright and say I want a man with 6 figure's +, but, as you start asking them questions about how much of the household income they'd like to be responsible for and if they would like to work after having children all while living in a decent-sized city it becomes very apparent that they are looking for a high-value man. Even if they don't know it. Because an average or even above average man can t do that.
And you also talk about how women date HVM and can go hang around them; but, that's not what matters. Sure, a HVM might entertain you and fukk you, but Kevin usually judges in marriages.
Here we go...if a woman has a broke baby daddy who never paid all the bills and then you ask her if she wants a man who pays all the bills and she answers "yes" do you HONESTLY believe that is a standard that she ACTUALLY lives by. I already answered the question in the OP. It’s because BW aren't taught to prioritize relationships or marriage.I agree with OP. I believe some of the women ate trolls just to get an reaction out of KS while others want the clout and recognition/exposure from being on his videos.
OP, I have noticed that KS always,mention the stat that says only 1 out of 4 Black women will be married in a lifetime. If that stat is true, then why do you think that is the case? Why are Black men not marrying Black women in higher percentages? BTW, I will not accept the IR argument because that is just an easy excuse people use when it has to be much deeper than that.
I agree.Definitely major keys in the OP..
The problem with relationships, from what I can see, is lack of meaningful goals and vision.. And unrealistic expectations, regardless of what income you make..
Nobody really listen and comprehend what Samuels is really trying to convey.. Thats why people love/hate him..
Thank you. Nor do I. So that's why i don't understand why so many people are running with it further perpetuating the gender war.I don’t know any women in real life who expect their man to make 100k or more lmfao.This gotta be some shyt people just say on the Internet.
Hol up a sec. Who started the can't find a man on my level narrative? No eligible black man around narrative? This ain't on Kevin. He's capitalizing on the fake standards and bs that there's no qualified black men alive.
I think a lot of women are starting to honestly expect these things from men due to overinflated egos and delusions that they can have it all. A lot of them are holding out for this magical 6 figure 6 cert 6-foot+ man to marry and won't settle for less.Here we go...if a woman has a broke baby daddy who never paid all the bills and then you ask her if she wants a man who pays all the bills and she answers "yes" do you HONESTLY believe that is a standard that she ACTUALLY lives by.
People can say whatever they want but actions speak louder than words.
Again I have no idea why you guys actually believe these women. They are LYING! There isn't a woman alive who will say she wants a low earner that doesn't mean they actually live by those words.
Because Black culture is a culture of individualism, materialism and vanity. Ya'll act like BW exists in some sort of vacuum. Why do women not admit they are regular in a culture that uses "basic" as an insult? I mean it's pretty obvious.I remember one show where a 26 y/o woman thought she was an 8 and likened herself to Beyonce.. Samuels said she was an 6 at best which was average.. She got highly upset..
My question is whats wrong with being average dating average men? Why over inflate your appearance, according to a scale set by the media? Average people make a good living for themselves everyday.. But the social condition done to the masses by media is destroying people.. And the clock is ticking on people out here on blank missions..