Fewer men attending college is leading toward "mating crisis", says NYC professor

[Ashley Banks]

Correct and in the Black community there's already college educated women having kids with non grads. Evander Holyfield is married to a Medical Doctor.

True. I just don’t understand the need some men have to try to “scare” women, if the odds are in your favor what do you need the “you’re gonna die alone” boogeyman for? Especially when they’re just gonna die alone anyways? All the women in my facilities die alone whether they’re married or not. Same as the men.

Why not give good reasons why they should get married?

 

[Bossino]

I don't know how to word this.

At some point the idea of compromise needs to be introduced or women just need to keep going after that hail Mary.

There are enough men with degrees and/or well paying jobs in the world. The problem is different considerations at different points in the relationship.

When they're looking for a good time, degree, career etc. is not at the top of the list. The result is spending time with men who they're not compatible with in the long run.

Social media pulled back the curtain for regular men the consistent sexual attention women give men they find sexually attractive. There are several other factors, but a lot of men in the middle are realizing that if she didn't want to fukk you off GP, trying to convince her to see value in you in other aspects, won't ever win you her true desire. She might be with you, but she has lust for men of a certain ilk. Attraction physically varies in terms of individual taste, but it's safe to say women share similar phenotypical preferences the same way men do.

If the women you end up with doesn't have strong desire for you, you're always at risk, and more and more guys are trying to mitigate risk in dealing with women

 

[AAKing23]

gotta love the old “you’ll die alone” scare tactic people use against women.

Most men die before their wives so you’ll still more than likely die alone if you get married.

It's not meant to be taken literally @Ashley Banks

We all die alone to be technically honest

It's just another phrase "you're never gonna find anyone"

 

[Kasgoinjail]

I dont think we both need to be college educated

I got the book smarts
He got the street smarts
Imo that would be a deadly combo

 

[Ashley Banks]

It's not meant to be taken literally @Ashley Banks

We all die alone to be technically honest

It's just another phrase "you're never gonna find anyone"

That makes sense but it’s better to stay single then to be with someone you don’t want to be with. Not fair to the other person or you.


People have to get over the fear of being single, that’s how they end up in miserable relationships, shaving years off their lives.

 

[Wiseborn]

True. I just don’t understand the need some men have to try to “scare” women, if the odds are in your favor what do you need the “you’re gonna die alone” boogeyman for? Especially when they’re just gonna die alone anyways? All the women in my facilities die alone whether they’re married or not. Same as the men.

Why not give good reasons why they should get married?

The reason the "Die Alone" theory is so popular is because the Settle for my Love theory didn't work.

Shaming tactics don't work generally not even If she can't use your comb don't bring her home and Those Brazilian women don't love you all they want is your money shaming tactics.

People are gonna do what's in their best interest.

 

[Wiseborn]

That makes sense but it’s better to stay single then to be with someone you don’t want to be with. Not fair to the other person or you.

This isn't true on a marco level. No one would say that Single motherhood by choice is good for society in general and although it's not fair for the individual to be with someone they don't want to be with, It's fair as hell to me. They have a 4% COLA on the table I can't get that if Incels decide to be incels.


The idea that one person is supposed to make you happy forever is kinda wierd, People don't like their siblings they don't "divorce" them.

 

[Wild self]

We need free college. Learning needs to be decoupled from money making potential. We have a nation of dumbasses because its its not worth it to go to school

Decrease the tuition pricing, and that will happen. Anything else, you just talking gibberish.

Not decreasing pricing and not eliminating high-interest loans will plunge America into Afghanistan.

 

[MoneyTron]

- Business and IT/Computer Science can be accomplished without an Advanced Degree or even a Degree at all. Know plenty of people in the IT/Computer Science field with just a Bachelor's or No degree at all making 85k + easily

- Engineering does not need an Advanced degree at all to make great money

Any more examples?

In no where did I say they couldn't make money without a college degree.

I said they are much more likely to make more money with an advanced degree. Engineers will advanced degrees are more likely to make more money than those without. Same with IT and business. People with business degrees and an MBA are more likely to make more money than those with a Bachelors' or just a HS diploma.

The numbers are irrefutable. If you are an HS grad with no secondary education, your career income is likely to be nowhere near that of someone with an advanced degree. Period.

 

[EffYou]

Lol

 

[Wild self]

its educated hoes out here dating fraudmans, party promoters, rappers and dopeboys
education dont mean shyt to them. all most care about is money, clout and having "fun". especially black women

Yep

A lot of breh s forego formal education and do dirt, for attention with women.

 

[Ashley Banks]

This isn't true on a marco level. No one would say that Single motherhood by choice is good for society in general and although it's not fair for the individual to be with someone they don't want to be with, It's fair as hell to me. They have a 4% COLA on the table I can't get that if Incels decide to be incels.


The idea that one person is supposed to make you happy forever is kinda wierd, People don't like their siblings they don't "divorce" them.

Im talking about him saying lower your standards just to be in a relationship. If they have kids together then they already did that and should choose based on what’s best for their kids.

 

[Wiseborn]

I dont think we both need to be college educated

I got the book smarts
He got the street smarts
Imo that would be a deadly combo

College like Marriage is status symbols, Generally Men don't care about degrees but a Plumber would be happy to know that his wife knows Trigonomentry mainly so he can explain to her how he bends pipes.

 

[Wild self]

Aside from the fact that people with college degrees tend to make more money, college also teaches critical thinking and expands your worldview. When people lack critical thinking skills and are in their own intellectual bubble they gravitate towards radical and toxic beliefs and conspiracy theories.

College isn't just about earning a degree to make more money. Its about opening your mind and becoming a more well rounded person.

This is going to be very bad for society...

Lower the fukkING price for tuition. Didnt that ever come across your mind?

 

[Wiseborn]

Im talking about him saying lower your standards just to be in a relationship. If they have kids together then they already did that and should choose based on what’s best for their kids.

I agree but if you're a chick and you're not getting sweated at the club maybe she should accept the holla of the 40 year old 40 thousand dollar 40 pounds overweight guy.