Fewer men attending college is leading toward "mating crisis", says NYC professor

[NinoBrown]

Man I had to go back to school this semester because this retail jobs ain’t going to cut it. And also every freaking job post is asking for a degree damn near . I don’t know if my friend was lying or not but he told me this Coffee barista job he needed a bachelors

We have the most educated retail staff in history, if you don't have a gameplan for college, you will be stifled with dead-end jobs....

Whatever your major is, do a freelance gig along with your major. Once you hit 4 years, boom....You got 4 years of practical work and academics to back up your degree.

 

[RareHunter]

This isn’t men’s problem. College is designed mainly for women as they are easier to brain wash with propaganda. It’s a sham. Also the professor no this was done on purpose through socialization.

 

[MoneyTron]

This isn’t men’s problem. College is designed mainly for women as they are easier to brain wash with propaganda. It’s a sham. Also the professor no this was done on purpose through socialization.

The fukk are you talking about? Something is wrong with you people.

 

[Scustin Bieburr]

Its up to the men in charge to give men more funding options to get into college, and classes that don't tolerate casual misandry and ignore the role women play in systems of dominance against them. You can't call yourself someone who cares about gender liberation whilst refusing to start a family with a man you cannot see as dominant. It doesn't work.

You see these hard-core feminists still settling down with men who out earn them and don't take their values and concerns seriously at all, because if they have to choose between that and a househusband they will choose the financially and socially dominant man. Its mixed messaging. Women have to take responsibility for the generation of men they raised. The 1970s onward showed a steady rise in single mother households. They raised their boys to be appealing to a woman who has been burned by several relationships, can't compete for the same men as her younger counterparts, and who are looking for a simp for a security and a side nikka to make em feel like they did in their 20s. Problem is, a boy going through puberty who has been raised to be captain save a ho will be treated with disgust by young women or outright ignored.

This continues until he's in his 20s and he develops a heightened resentment for women especially when he attends college classes dominated by women where they make casual "men are trash" comments around him. He's either going to lash out and be like one of these online women haters, or he will withdraw to porn, videogames, tv and sexworkers to fill the void that meaningful experiences with a partner would've given him.

Women need to admit they fukked up trying to raise their sons without a consistent male father figure, they fukked up by letting their resentment of their boys fathers ruin the relationship he may have developed with him, they need to admit that just because they are women, does not mean they know what women want when they are looking for a man. Women have a habit of acting like what they want is simple, but then when it is offered they admit that they want more and its far more complicated. When this is pointed out, the man is told that it isn't true and its actually sexist to say women are more complicated than men. Its a bizarre gaslighting that needs to stop.

 

[Neuromancer]

Its up to the men in charge to give men more funding options to get into college, and classes that don't tolerate casual misandry and ignore the role women play in systems of dominance against them. You can't call yourself someone who cares about gender liberation whilst refusing to start a family with a man you cannot see as dominant. It doesn't work.

You see these hard-core feminists still settling down with men who out earn them and don't take their values and concerns seriously at all, because if they have to choose between that and a househusband they will choose the financially and socially dominant man. Its mixed messaging. Women have to take responsibility for the generation of men they raised. The 1970s onward showed a steady rise in single mother households. They raised their boys to be appealing to a woman who has been burned by several relationships, can't compete for the same men as her younger counterparts, and who are looking for a simp for a security and a side nikka to make em feel like they did in their 20s. Problem is, a boy going through puberty who has been raised to be captain save a ho will be treated with disgust by young women or outright ignored.

This continues until he's in his 20s and he develops a heightened resentment for women especially when he attends college classes dominated by women where they make casual "men are trash" comments around him. He's either going to lash out and be like one of these online women haters, or he will withdraw to porn, videogames, tv and sexworkers to fill the void that meaningful experiences with a partner would've given him.

Women need to admit they fukked up trying to raise their sons without a consistent male father figure, they fukked up by letting their resentment of their boys fathers ruin the relationship he may have developed with him, they need to admit that just because they are women, does not mean they know what women want when they are looking for a man. Women have a habit of acting like what they want is simple, but then when it is offered they admit that they want more and its far more complicated. When this is pointed out, the man is told that it isn't true and its actually sexist to say women are more complicated than men. Its a bizarre gaslighting that needs to stop.

People gonna hate you for this breh.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

If men ain't going to college that don't necessarily mean it's bad. Maybe men understand more than the debt ain't worth it. Could be going into tradeschool where you 23 yes old making $50/hr.

And there's a lot of incel talking points about educated women going only for top tier men. Dudes that complain are just weak, that's all it boils down to. Even Walmart nikkas getting p*ssy from bad bytches with jobs. If you make $55k you're basically matched with 96% of women. Not everybody graduating college making $125,000

 

[MoneyTron]

If men ain't going to college that don't necessarily mean it's bad. Maybe men understand more than the debt ain't worth it. Could be going into tradeschool where you 23 yes old making $50/hr.

And there's a lot of incel talking points about educated women going on for top tier men. Dudes that complain are just weak, that's all it boils down to. Even Walmart nikkas getting p*ssy from bad bytches with jobs. If you make $55k you're basically matched with 96% of women. Not everybody graduating college making $125,000

Dudes aren't even going to trade school though.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Dudes aren't even going to trade school though.

I'll refute my point, dudes are just incel bums.

I love videogames too, but money feels indefinitely better

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

If men ain't going to college that don't necessarily mean it's bad. Maybe men understand more than the debt ain't worth it. Could be going into tradeschool where you 23 yes old making $50/hr.

And there's a lot of incel talking points about educated women going only for top tier men. Dudes that complain are just weak, that's all it boils down to. Even Walmart nikkas getting p*ssy from bad bytches with jobs. If you make $55k you're basically matched with 96% of women. Not everybody graduating college making $125,000

Ain't no one starting the trades making $50 starting off

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Ain't no one starting the trades making $50 starting off

If you start at 18, you definitely making $50/hr by age 23. Journeyman is typically 4 years.

 

[Piff Perkins]

I’ve been talking about this for a year and the Coli claimed I was lying. The problem is that we’re seeing societal norms stay the same while the country’s economic situation shifts. Men have been coddled for decades, if not more. I call it the AJ Soprano theory: families are lenient on their sons while demanding excellence from their daughters, in order to (hopefully) avoid her becoming a single parent. The result is we raise soft men who don’t have standards.

In the past this wasn’t a problem because that same man didn’t have to go to college. He could be a factory worker at the auto plant, get amazing insurance, be paid very well and raise a family. Those jobs have disappeared, and now men find it harder to fall into success. In short the education gap wouldn’t matter as much if men were making 70-90k at auto plants, postal service, construction etc like they once did (with inflation taken into account).

Instead many men are failing. They have no standards, they can’t deal with competition and they’re content to exist. Go to work at a warehouse or retail, go home, and play video games all night. And complain online that women won’t fukk them. This is bad. And I don’t think the blame is women having standards. The problem is we’ve allowed our middle class to be decimated, our unions to be destroyed, etc. Flip side with sit back and watch men get raised to be bums.

Not just single mothers. Look at how men are raised. Across multiple cultures…not just black or white. This is why the “good old boy” network exists…so dad can call in a favor and get knucklehead junior a decent job at the port, factory, whatever. But when those jobs disappear…

 

[Jekyll]

So I think the professor contradicts himself in this article (unless its taken out of context, which I don't think it was). He first cites a reason why men aren't attending college is that they have more options to make money than women, but then later in the article he says that a broke and lonely man is the most dangerous thing in the world and we are producing too many of them. So young men are making decent money doing construction work, they wouldn't be broke now, would they?



Could you elaborate?



Not gonna lie, I had a similar comment, but I wanted to actually have some decent discourse in this thread.

Nah he’s saying that those jobs aren’t attracting college educated women. Likely because of the pay difference. More choices doesn’t mean more money. Men just are more able bodied.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

I’ve been talking about this for a year and the Coli claimed I was lying. The problem is that we’re seeing societal norms stay the same while the country’s economic situation shifts. Men have been coddled for decades, if not more. I call it the AJ Soprano theory: families are lenient on their sons while demanding excellence from their daughters, in order to (hopefully) avoid her becoming a single parent. The result is we raise soft men who don’t have standards.

In the past this wasn’t a problem because that same man didn’t have to go to college. He could be a factory worker at the auto plant, get amazing insurance, be paid very well and raise a family. Those jobs have disappeared, and now men find it harder to fall into success. In short the education gap wouldn’t matter as much if men were making 70-90k at auto plants, postal service, construction etc like they once did (with inflation taken into account).

Instead many men are failing. They have no standards, they can’t deal with competition and they’re content to exist. Go to work at a warehouse or retail, go home, and play video games all night. And complain online that women won’t fukk them. This is bad. And I don’t think the blame is women having standards. The problem is we’ve allowed our middle class to be decimated, our unions to be destroyed, etc. Flip side with sit back and watch men get raised to be bums.

Not just single mothers. Look at how men are raised. Across multiple cultures…not just black or white. This is why the “good old boy” network exists…so dad can call in a favor and get junior a decent job at the port, factory, whether. But when those jobs disappear…

I disagree. You don't need society to tell you what to do, especially as a grown man. A shyt low paying job and a depressing life of videogames is more than enough motivation to do better.

Dudes just weak.

 

[King Kai]

broke men who aren't getting p*ssy leads to revolution and war

I don’t know why this is making me laugh so hard but it read like some shyt from ancient coli scripture.

 

[Neuromancer]

I'll refute my point, dudes are just incel bums.

I love videogames too, but money feels indefinitely better

How do you buy video games without money? That was the first reason I got a job.