Dudes just do not understand the world of women. I keep telling ya’ll more and more women are waking up and starting to see marriage for what it has always been for most women who aren’t rich: stress.
Do ya’ll know women back in the day used to run off to join fukking convents to avoid getting married?
There are psychological disorders associated with female anxieties and marriage.
It literally has taken CENTURIES of social shaming orchestrated to make women feel like shyt if they avoid the institution. That’s why men will dap each other up if they talk shyt about marriage but still insult a woman if she single.
Marriage as an institution was ALWAYS for men. Primarily so. Men literally went from living with his parents and having his domestic needs taken care of by his mom, to living with a woman and having his domestic needs taken care of by a woman.
When women were afforded economic opportunities outside of being barefoot and pregnant, all over the world women showed dudes EXACTLY how they felt about traditional “I’m da man. I run dis shyt” marriages.
These bytches out here marrying their pets, living Netflix and chill rich auntie lives, divorcing when they got one damn foot in the grave...remember when I told ya’ll about silver divorce?!
When a woman makes a break with her natural biological instinct to seek comfort and stability in her most VULNERABLE years to live on her own, THAT should tell u something.
The something is this. Back in the day, women were socially pressured to get married and left damn near no other choice. They were also pressured to keep a man no matter WHAT the nikka did to her. Ya’ll don’t wanna admit to how badly ur grandfathers shytted on your grandmothers but when u talking that shyt about “the good ole days” chicks know that code for “back in the day when men could cheat, smack a bytch, make a family halfway across town” with impunity because options were limited for most women.
Now a days, while ya’ll mad at women being hoes and trying to court em with vinegar or pretending like u don’t care, can ANYBODY tell me what the incentive for women would be in todays society to do the following:
1.) Choose a man she not attracted to b/c society don’t care about her actual desires as long as she got a man and don’t become a “spinster” or “old cat lady”.
2.) Wait on him hand and foot AND do half of his role as a provider AND be the primary caretaker of any children.
3.) Forgo sexual satisfaction and get dikk from a Man U not even attracted to for the rest of your life.
4.) Put up with whatever nonsense he brings to the table JUST to say u got somebody whether he is cheating or beating ur ass or just plain trifling.
THATs what traditional women did. Not because it made them happy or what was best for them. But b/c society pushed them to and followed up with few economic opportunities otherwise.
Today’s woman outside of the ones with legit mental issues that ya’ll keep nuttin in b/c it’s easy p*ssy ain’t gone put up with that bullshyt.
Why would they?
Peace> nonsense and stress ANYday, even if that means divorcing a nikka when u been married too for decades when u got one foot in the grave.
Until we get it right as a species and everybody’s needs are regarded, women aren’t willing to take one for the team collectively anymore. Women will groan, complain, bytch and moan—but watch their actions. They really do not want marriage the way it has been defined since it’s inception...they just pay lipservice to it.
Yes, yes I know. I know. Too long. Feminist bytch.
As a human being, if learning makes somebody unwilling to do something—that indicates that something is wrong with what u are trying to get them to do.
look at our women. The more us that gets locked up/killed and broken down by hard work labor the more they are grabbing degrees and promotions, starting businesses and holding off kids (our poor birthrate) they have normalized thottery so no one's shaming them anymore for sexual freedom.. shyt changing breh
