Fewer people are getting married because there’s a shortage of economically-stable single men
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I'm not seeing it. They talking a big game but any time shyt gets slightly uncomfortable they start blaming men. You can't be in the driver seat talking about what the person in the back should've done to prevent you hitting the curb.I think a lot of women are actually yearning for the chance (a seat if you will) to have a share of that responsibility and influence over society the way men have had from the beginning of time. Just look around you, shyt is changing and this feminism empowerment that has these new-age women literally buzzing is going to have lasting affects that'll finna shift shyt a bit. We probably won't live to see it, but..look at our women. The more us that gets locked up/killed and broken down by hard work labor the more they are grabbing degrees and promotions, starting businesses and holding off kids (our poor birthrate) they have normalized thottery so no one's shaming them anymore for sexual freedom.. shyt changing breh
I just feel that it’s interesting that feminism is driving a revolution it seems completely unprepared to handle the results of. What I’ve learned in life is most people in general want and desire power, even going as far as to say what they’d do better if they had it, but in the end, most people aren’t ready to manage real power and responsibility.
With this issue, I think many women don’t understand that men value different things in a partner than they do. We don’t care about their degree or money or status, yet many new age women anchor themselves so deeply to those things that they develop a sense of entitlement. The problem with that is the attitude that is derived from that is intolerable for a lot of men who want someone to feel at home and loved by, not someone to compete with. A lot of women these days seem to be in competition with men, which is okay in the boardroom but not in the bedroom. It doesn’t work for men.
I’m happy that as a society we continue to move more toward equality. I just hope we can find that balance in make-female relationships.
With this issue, I think many women don’t understand that men value different things in a partner than they do. We don’t care about their degree or money or status, yet many new age women anchor themselves so deeply to those things that they develop a sense of entitlement. The problem with that is the attitude that is derived from that is intolerable for a lot of men who want someone to feel at home and loved by, not someone to compete with. A lot of women these days seem to be in competition with men, which is okay in the boardroom but not in the bedroom. It doesn’t work for men.
I’m happy that as a society we continue to move more toward equality. I just hope we can find that balance in make-female relationships.
i feel both men and women blame each other for a lot of shyt that they thenselves cause. You see it coming from women in echochambers like buzzfeed articles (piggyhopping on the profitable feminist agenda), theshaderoom and LSA.. we do it here at thecoli, reddit, Kanyetothe and in vladtv comments.. we’re literal inverses of each other when it comes to that sort of thing
It’s decades of trauma and inferiority that’s been beat into them that transformed into bubbling resentment, anger and envy for men.. once society gave them that inch, women are ready to run a marathon and prove ‘men’ wrong. To them we are the oppressors, thats why their response to more power and control is so.. aggressive.
This whole post was beautiful dude."I feel like there is an innate need in females to want to be protected though and because everything is based on emotion" -
"they admire male rationality and yearn for it. Every woman is willing to submit to the right strong man. "
I try to step outside myself and bias as a man when I try to understand women.A lot of women are so smart sometimes that they use these outdated tropes that we have about them against us ourselves, man..
(I think that’s the crazy part about a lot of men. They built a society where they told lies on women to manipulate them. But when u trying to lie on somebody to control them, the worst thing u can do is start believing the lie urself. These dudes been listening to lies men have told other men about women and they actually take that shyt to heart.)
There are certain social boxes that we shoehorned all women into. With my experience with women and my own studies, It took me a while to realize (and I have a lot more learning to do) to see that these ideas aren't really linear in that sense, with the whole..
women
supple/sensitive/passive/over-emotional/naive
vs
men
discipline/strength/logic/safety/provision/power
It's comes from the social conditioning that we kinda categorize and typecast people as a monolith because of certain norms going on at a particular point in time. I would have said that maybe a few decades ago, these traits seemed to be true because during those times women literally depended on men for survival and just received the right to vote in, what.. a 100 years ago? we benefited from a patriarchal worldview from the very beginning ..cmon they were like 2nd class citizens up until recently.They adopted certain behaviors personality traits to help them survive over time. Did they receive benefits from it, yes ofcourse, but for the most part I believe both women and men have the capacity for any of the character traits I named. We are in the midst of a modern women sufferage movement today. They're starting to care for self in 2019. The media, economy social climate is catering to them and with this empowerment this changes their mindsets, women are just as logical/reasonable than men (IMO) and this isn't negated by the fact that they're also natural empaths. Women do want security and stability, however their p*ssy gives them the access to personal lapdogs that'll stay the night or a boo to chill with to scare off angry robbers. We no longer value marriage and legacy and community the way we used to.. daughters today are taught to be independent, ambitious and free. ..birth control. Choosing the right one at the right time etc. Do women want us. Yes! All humans crave interaction and comfort, it's just that marriage isn't as big of deal and made out to be a necessity anymore.
Thanks again for this discourse.
Men say a woman’s natural instinct (as if they know) is submissiveness, all while discounting that the lengths to which men in every single society around the world had to go to in order to get women to act “naturally”.Chicks getting their clits knocked off with rocks. Very little economic opportunities until a few decades ago in most countries for women. Sexual assault and harassment. Shaming tactics. Being told they are inferior, ignorant, like children, incapable, rape, abuse, discrimination. If u gotta do all that to somebody to get them to act a certain way...they not acting naturally.
And then dudes will legit sit there and scratch their heads wondering what the problem is. That’s the most dangerous part to me. To see all this shyt go down and not wonder that maybe women haven’t been allowed to be their true selves. And the same men will wonder why some chicks are duplicitous.
Well hell! When we try to tell u the truth, u see what happens! “Stupid feminist bytch!”
Dudes really scratch their heads thinking like this.
“Well golly, why wouldn’t the best looking women not wanna suck my dikk, swallow my nut, cook and clean for me, not even mention her dreams and aspirations b/c outside of cooking and taking my dikk they don’t matter, risk her life having my children, and be denigrated by me as being inferior and worthless. I mean I don’t even like her, but why wouldn’t she wanna jump for joy at that chance...”
Because unfortunately that’s what a lot of these dudes want...and they think women evil or ridiculous if we even think to consider a different path for ourselves.
I won’t even get into the “sure men can lie, cheat, be sexually irresponsible” entitlement shyt. Marriages have a 50% divorce rate initiated primarily by women...many don’t want to believe this but a lot of chicks are tired of the bullshyt.
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Real shyt, proves my point exactly. Women don't want that marriage bs. They want to ho around like men. It's nothing wrong with that, who wants to live with another person who makes you miserable because of societal pressureDudes just do not understand the world of women. I keep telling ya’ll more and more women are waking up and starting to see marriage for what it has always been for most women who aren’t rich: stress.
Do ya’ll know women back in the day used to run off to join fukking convents to avoid getting married?
There are psychological disorders associated with female anxieties and marriage.
It literally has taken CENTURIES of social shaming orchestrated to make women feel like shyt if they avoid the institution. That’s why men will dap each other up if they talk shyt about marriage but still insult a woman if she single.
Marriage as an institution was ALWAYS for men. Primarily so. Men literally went from living with his parents and having his domestic needs taken care of by his mom, to living with a woman and having his domestic needs taken care of by a woman.
When women were afforded economic opportunities outside of being barefoot and pregnant, all over the world women showed dudes EXACTLY how they felt about traditional “I’m da man. I run dis shyt” marriages.
These bytches out here marrying their pets, living Netflix and chill rich auntie lives, divorcing when they got one damn foot in the grave...remember when I told ya’ll about silver divorce?!
When a woman makes a break with her natural biological instinct to seek comfort and stability in her most VULNERABLE years to live on her own, THAT should tell u something.
The something is this. Back in the day, women were socially pressured to get married and left damn near no other choice. They were also pressured to keep a man no matter WHAT the nikka did to her. Ya’ll don’t wanna admit to how badly ur grandfathers shytted on your grandmothers but when u talking that shyt about “the good ole days” chicks know that code for “back in the day when men could cheat, smack a bytch, make a family halfway across town” with impunity because options were limited for most women.
Now a days, while ya’ll mad at women being hoes and trying to court em with vinegar or pretending like u don’t care, can ANYBODY tell me what the incentive for women would be in todays society to do the following:
1.) Choose a man she not attracted to b/c society don’t care about her actual desires as long as she got a man and don’t become a “spinster” or “old cat lady”.
2.) Wait on him hand and foot AND do half of his role as a provider AND be the primary caretaker of any children.
3.) Forgo sexual satisfaction and get dikk from a Man U not even attracted to for the rest of your life.
4.) Put up with whatever nonsense he brings to the table JUST to say u got somebody whether he is cheating or beating ur ass or just plain trifling.
THATs what traditional women did. Not because it made them happy or what was best for them. But b/c society pushed them to and followed up with few economic opportunities otherwise.
Today’s woman outside of the ones with legit mental issues that ya’ll keep nuttin in b/c it’s easy p*ssy ain’t gone put up with that bullshyt.
Why would they?
Peace> nonsense and stress ANYday, even if that means divorcing a nikka when u been married too for decades when u got one foot in the grave.
Until we get it right as a species and everybody’s needs are regarded, women aren’t willing to take one for the team collectively anymore. Women will groan, complain, bytch and moan—but watch their actions. They really do not want marriage the way it has been defined since it’s inception...they just pay lipservice to it.
Yes, yes I know. I know. Too long. Feminist bytch.
Responses like these are exactly why things will never improve. Feminism is an effect, not a cause. Women have clearly become uncomfortable in the world/lane that men have placed them.
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I'll go in deep on this later its a lot deeper than this article. I will go spiritual as well.
Dudes just do not understand the world of women. I keep telling ya’ll more and more women are waking up and starting to see marriage for what it has always been for most women who aren’t rich: stress.
Do ya’ll know women back in the day used to run off to join fukking convents to avoid getting married?
There are psychological disorders associated with female anxieties and marriage.
It literally has taken CENTURIES of social shaming orchestrated to make women feel like shyt if they avoid the institution. That’s why men will dap each other up if they talk shyt about marriage but still insult a woman if she single.
Marriage as an institution was ALWAYS for men. Primarily so. Men literally went from living with his parents and having his domestic needs taken care of by his mom, to living with a woman and having his domestic needs taken care of by a woman.
When women were afforded economic opportunities outside of being barefoot and pregnant, all over the world women showed dudes EXACTLY how they felt about traditional “I’m da man. I run dis shyt” marriages.
These bytches out here marrying their pets, living Netflix and chill rich auntie lives, divorcing when they got one damn foot in the grave...remember when I told ya’ll about silver divorce?!
When a woman makes a break with her natural biological instinct to seek comfort and stability in her most VULNERABLE years to live on her own, THAT should tell u something.
The something is this. Back in the day, women were socially pressured to get married and left damn near no other choice. They were also pressured to keep a man no matter WHAT the nikka did to her. Ya’ll don’t wanna admit to how badly ur grandfathers shytted on your grandmothers but when u talking that shyt about “the good ole days” chicks know that code for “back in the day when men could cheat, smack a bytch, make a family halfway across town” with impunity because options were limited for most women.
Now a days, while ya’ll mad at women being hoes and trying to court em with vinegar or pretending like u don’t care, can ANYBODY tell me what the incentive for women would be in todays society to do the following:
1.) Choose a man she not attracted to b/c society don’t care about her actual desires as long as she got a man and don’t become a “spinster” or “old cat lady”.
2.) Wait on him hand and foot AND do half of his role as a provider AND be the primary caretaker of any children.
3.) Forgo sexual satisfaction and get dikk from a Man U not even attracted to for the rest of your life.
4.) Put up with whatever nonsense he brings to the table JUST to say u got somebody whether he is cheating or beating ur ass or just plain trifling.
THATs what traditional women did. Not because it made them happy or what was best for them. But b/c society pushed them to and followed up with few economic opportunities otherwise.
Today’s woman outside of the ones with legit mental issues that ya’ll keep nuttin in b/c it’s easy p*ssy ain’t gone put up with that bullshyt.
Why would they?
Peace> nonsense and stress ANYday, even if that means divorcing a nikka when u been married too for decades when u got one foot in the grave.
Until we get it right as a species and everybody’s needs are regarded, women aren’t willing to take one for the team collectively anymore. Women will groan, complain, bytch and moan—but watch their actions. They really do not want marriage the way it has been defined since it’s inception...they just pay lipservice to it.
Yes, yes I know. I know. Too long. Feminist bytch.
If neither gender wants to get married then we should all be happier sooner
Jhoon
Spontaneous Mishaps and Hijinks
When wasn’t this the case?
Let me guess you’re one of those losers who think women had kids because they loved the man.
Loving children and loving relationships are a new phenomenon.
Jhoon
Spontaneous Mishaps and Hijinks
This is a gross simplification of the issue.
The problem is the wheel. We keep using the wheel when in reality we should be working on an alternative method of transportation
And that's all fine when it's not serious shyt.But I'm talking real life shyt. when it comes down to the nitty gritty real shyt somebody has to take some responsibility.
This article is an example of what I mean.
Women wanted equal pay.
Got it.
Now are complaining there aren't enough men making enough to financially provide.
GMB taking no shorts no lossees
