Fewer people are getting married because there’s a shortage of economically-stable single men

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The pressure on many women is overwhelming regarding marriage and family, esp, in certain demographics, with strong religious and familial influence. But, it's a complex socio/psychological/economical influence. For a single woman, who comes from a lower/lower middle/middle background, working on a salary of lets just say 35k or so, the future WITHOUT a husband seems pretty grim, given biological and financial realities, right? You won't even stabilize economically, (give wages and inflation) and you will be stigmatized for growing older, single, without children, even in your own social circle. It's near imperative that a woman ( from a certain socioeconomic position, a very wide one) look for stability when she picks a partner. Look at all research about millenial generation and finance, and we are way behind, due to the Recession, and other factors.

:hhh: nikka what the hell is this nonsense
 

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:mjlol: this article was pure comedy

Women fail to realize no matter how financialy stable and educates they are

They still fail to realize ITS A MAN'S WORLD AND WE DO THE CHOOSING
Regardless how broke or sorry we may seem..

SO THEY HAVE TO WAIT AND DESIRED TO GET "CHOSE" (cuffed..wifed up..married)

For example as I was reading this I just got a text from a 23 year old college graduate with no kids and a Bachelor's in social work ..

Who is having trouble finding work in her field and a man to marry her cause she fails to realize she is BROKE AND LIVES WITH HER PARENTS

resorting to selling Recyclable Goods to get by today till she goes to her second shift manager job at @Wendy's

SO AINT NO REAL MAN WITH HIS SHYT TOGETHER CHOOSING HER

The game done changed N1GGAS AINT WIFING WOMEN UP JUST CAUSE U LOOK GOOD AND GOT AMAZING PUZZY

gotta bring more to the table than a WET THOT BOX

A GOOD CREDIT SCORE AND A GREAT ATTITUDE SURE WOULD HELP ALOT
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The end of the article is something I’ve been noticing lately. More women are making a higher salary than their significant others. I remember a few guys at my last job had spouses that made significantly more than them and a couple of them wouldn’t have minded being stay at home dads, lol. They were all in their 30’s and all made pretty good money.
 

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Women are the same way.. We mindfukked them into believing they need us when actuality.. They really don’t I’ve always said that when women realize their power. We are fawkeddd. they’re realizing marriage is fruitless, at this point they’re making more than us on average financially and have better access to dikk, money and status because society place a lot more value on them. df they trying to get married for.. Women are not naturally submissive like that. Social norms of the last millennia beat that into them over the centuries. Women are just as primal and impulsive as we are. There’s about to be a tip in the scale and the patriarchal template that we’ve been born into is slowly but surely eroding away. It gives us anxiety, but..
Somebody listen to this man!!!!! b/c when I say it ya’ll get mad at me and call me a feminist bytch for pointing out the wetness of water.
Jesus Christ do u know how refreshing it is to hear a MAN finally admit this shyt. How exhausting it is to have to deconstruct this nonsense on the daily.

I hope u get the sloppiest of head somewhere in the near future and I mean that.


The only thing I will add is that men and women do need each other...but not for the superficial, manipulative shyt that made us fukk over and dehumanize each other for survival in the past.
I’m hopeful that when the smoke clears male/female interactions won’t be based primarily off trying to make one gender feel inferior or control...but based on two people actually genuinely liking one another and wanting to learn and grow together.
Dude u deserve all the rep.

Thank you for this.
 

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Interesting take on this breh.

I feel like there is an innate need in females to want to be protected though and because everything is based on emotion with them they admire male rationality and yearn for it. Every woman is willing to submit to the right strong man. So in that sense I feel like they do need us and will go crazy by themselves sooner than a man will crazy by himself.

I might be wrong but hey...[/Q
Dumb nikka no dad in life babble :camby:

nikka don't quote/alert me about the bullshyt you talking righ now. Scroll past or talk to me like you go some sense.:stopitslime:
 

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Dudes just do not understand the world of women. I keep telling ya’ll more and more women are waking up and starting to see marriage for what it has always been for most women who aren’t rich: stress.

Do ya’ll know women back in the day used to run off to join fukking convents to avoid getting married?

There are psychological disorders associated with female anxieties and marriage.
It literally has taken CENTURIES of social shaming orchestrated to make women feel like shyt if they avoid the institution. That’s why men will dap each other up if they talk shyt about marriage but still insult a woman if she single.

Marriage as an institution was ALWAYS for men. Primarily so. Men literally went from living with his parents and having his domestic needs taken care of by his mom, to living with a woman and having his domestic needs taken care of by a woman.
When women were afforded economic opportunities outside of being barefoot and pregnant, all over the world women showed dudes EXACTLY how they felt about traditional “I’m da man. I run dis shyt” marriages.

These bytches out here marrying their pets, living Netflix and chill rich auntie lives, divorcing when they got one damn foot in the grave...remember when I told ya’ll about silver divorce?!

When a woman makes a break with her natural biological instinct to seek comfort and stability in her most VULNERABLE years to live on her own, THAT should tell u something.

The something is this. Back in the day, women were socially pressured to get married and left damn near no other choice. They were also pressured to keep a man no matter WHAT the nikka did to her. Ya’ll don’t wanna admit to how badly ur grandfathers shytted on your grandmothers but when u talking that shyt about “the good ole days” chicks know that code for “back in the day when men could cheat, smack a bytch, make a family halfway across town” with impunity because options were limited for most women.

Now a days, while ya’ll mad at women being hoes and trying to court em with vinegar or pretending like u don’t care, can ANYBODY tell me what the incentive for women would be in todays society to do the following:
1.) Choose a man she not attracted to b/c society don’t care about her actual desires as long as she got a man and don’t become a “spinster” or “old cat lady”.
2.) Wait on him hand and foot AND do half of his role as a provider AND be the primary caretaker of any children.
3.) Forgo sexual satisfaction and get dikk from a Man U not even attracted to for the rest of your life.
4.) Put up with whatever nonsense he brings to the table JUST to say u got somebody whether he is cheating or beating ur ass or just plain trifling.

THATs what traditional women did. Not because it made them happy or what was best for them. But b/c society pushed them to and followed up with few economic opportunities otherwise.

Today’s woman outside of the ones with legit mental issues that ya’ll keep nuttin in b/c it’s easy p*ssy ain’t gone put up with that bullshyt.

Why would they?
Peace> nonsense and stress ANYday, even if that means divorcing a nikka when u been married too for decades when u got one foot in the grave.

Until we get it right as a species and everybody’s needs are regarded, women aren’t willing to take one for the team collectively anymore. Women will groan, complain, bytch and moan—but watch their actions. They really do not want marriage the way it has been defined since it’s inception...they just pay lipservice to it.

Yes, yes I know. I know. Too long. Feminist bytch.

:angry::angry::angry:
:hubie::snooze:
 

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You have to be brave to think you’ll have a “traditional” marriage in today’s climate. Partnership will always be valuable, even necessary, but patriarchy is not sustainable.
Not without excessive violence, lies about the nature of women, psychological manipulation, entire mythos created about females, and heavy psychological shaming and just all out gender discord and resentment.
 

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Dudes just do not understand the world of women. I keep telling ya’ll more and more women are waking up and starting to see marriage for what it has always been for most women who aren’t rich: stress.

Do ya’ll know women back in the day used to run off to join fukking convents to avoid getting married?

There are psychological disorders associated with female anxieties and marriage.
It literally has taken CENTURIES of social shaming orchestrated to make women feel like shyt if they avoid the institution. That’s why men will dap each other up if they talk shyt about marriage but still insult a woman if she single.

Marriage as an institution was ALWAYS for men. Primarily so. Men literally went from living with his parents and having his domestic needs taken care of by his mom, to living with a woman and having his domestic needs taken care of by a woman.
When women were afforded economic opportunities outside of being barefoot and pregnant, all over the world women showed dudes EXACTLY how they felt about traditional “I’m da man. I run dis shyt” marriages.

These bytches out here marrying their pets, living Netflix and chill rich auntie lives, divorcing when they got one damn foot in the grave...remember when I told ya’ll about silver divorce?!

When a woman makes a break with her natural biological instinct to seek comfort and stability in her most VULNERABLE years to live on her own, THAT should tell u something.

The something is this. Back in the day, women were socially pressured to get married and left damn near no other choice. They were also pressured to keep a man no matter WHAT the nikka did to her. Ya’ll don’t wanna admit to how badly ur grandfathers shytted on your grandmothers but when u talking that shyt about “the good ole days” chicks know that code for “back in the day when men could cheat, smack a bytch, make a family halfway across town” with impunity because options were limited for most women.

Now a days, while ya’ll mad at women being hoes and trying to court em with vinegar or pretending like u don’t care, can ANYBODY tell me what the incentive for women would be in todays society to do the following:
1.) Choose a man she not attracted to b/c society don’t care about her actual desires as long as she got a man and don’t become a “spinster” or “old cat lady”.
2.) Wait on him hand and foot AND do half of his role as a provider AND be the primary caretaker of any children.
3.) Forgo sexual satisfaction and get dikk from a Man U not even attracted to for the rest of your life.
4.) Put up with whatever nonsense he brings to the table JUST to say u got somebody whether he is cheating or beating ur ass or just plain trifling.

THATs what traditional women did. Not because it made them happy or what was best for them. But b/c society pushed them to and followed up with few economic opportunities otherwise.

Today’s woman outside of the ones with legit mental issues that ya’ll keep nuttin in b/c it’s easy p*ssy ain’t gone put up with that bullshyt.

Why would they?
Peace> nonsense and stress ANYday, even if that means divorcing a nikka when u been married too for decades when u got one foot in the grave.

Until we get it right as a species and everybody’s needs are regarded, women aren’t willing to take one for the team collectively anymore. Women will groan, complain, bytch and moan—but watch their actions. They really do not want marriage the way it has been defined since it’s inception...they just pay lipservice to it.

Yes, yes I know. I know. Too long. Feminist bytch.

:angry::angry::angry:
:hubie::snooze:

Those same ones will be in their 40s wishing they had children. Wishing they had someone to go home to at the end of the day. They all do it. You get my drift.
 

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It's crazy because there's people out here on fixed income etc getting married with ease so I don't understand this article...if poor individuals can find love and get married with ease, why is it so hard for people who're making good money etc to commit to each other...that's just something I just don't understand.

It seems like individuals with less have more success than those who have more when it comes to relationships/marriage.
It’s also the types of mates they are trying to get and the lifestyles they are trying to sustain.
 

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Women are the same way.. We mindfukked them into believing they need us when actuality.. They really don’t I’ve always said that when women realize their power. We are fawkeddd. they’re realizing marriage is fruitless, at this point they’re making more than us on average financially and have better access to dikk, money and status because society place a lot more value on them. df they trying to get married for.. Women are not naturally submissive like that. Social norms of the last millennia beat that into them over the centuries. Women are just as primal and impulsive as we are. There’s about to be a tip in the scale and the patriarchal template that we’ve been born into is slowly but surely eroding away. It gives us anxiety, but..

My dude....the stuff you see on the internet is not a representation of the average individual.If you understood the psychology of men and women that has existed for thousands of years.You would understand that you cannot uncondition years of social evolution that has led to the modern dynamics between both genders.Despite the fact that monogamy is man made but it is backed by primal desires.Women get married because of security and men are tasked to provide security and to be the provider.
The fact that women still subscribe to hypergamy is a testament that women still want to benefit from patriarchy.
 
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