Fewer people are getting married because there’s a shortage of economically-stable single men

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That's what I'm asking, what now. If the traditional relationship is dead where do we as a society go from here?
Learning to compromise to make the traditional models work better. I think relationships need reform not to be trashed.
People with common sense who ain’t trying to engage in psychological warfare to control their partners will prosper so long as they choose up on like minded people.

Others ain’t gon make it.
 
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I think women have a few hard lessons to learn. Them being relegated to the status of overgrown children in the past and told they couldn’t make their own decisions came with drawbacks and benefits.
Women took lemons and made the best of it while capitalizing on the helpless female act. Some of my foreign female friends would tell me right now to STFU. Lol! Because they say the dumb shyt men believe about them benefits them. They will regale u with tales of the thousands of dollars they’ve scammed out of men from other countries who actually think they are submissive little puppets.
But the jig is up for the most part. Now that the world has been forced to acknowledge how capable we are, many have to stop playing both sides of the fence.
It’s okay to want a man to meet u halfway financially, but don’t expect him to be the sole provider, especially if he genuinely doing the housework and taking care of the kids 50/50.

As men are becoming more reticent about approaching due to increased scrutiny of male sexual transgressions against women, women need to be more proactive in the courtship process. I mean damn, at least meet dudes halfway. Start approaching more. Be a bit bolder. Men can’t take all of the risk.

Women also have to come into their newfound empowerment, not out of resentful reaction to men fukkkng them over, but figure out their authentic selves. Currently many women are doing a lot of self-harm trying to prove their self-worth to the world by copying men’s vices. All the size queens, over emphasis on casual promiscuity, being a hoe is empowerment is ridiculous. They cutting their noses off to spite their faces. One of the most idiotic parts of feminism is women thinking they have to mimic men to prove their value. A grape doesn’t need to become an orange to be just as sweet. Two objects can look different but have the same mass.

Women also can’t deny their biological realities. I will give men hell all day for irresponsibly nuttin up in dumb bytches and leaving their seed to be raised in horrid conditions. But women are the other half of that equation. With more opportunity comes more responsibility. Take precautions and love urself instwad of playing urself for a dude who doesn’t love u.

Women also have to stop being silent sufferers. Some chicks love being victims. They can’t claim
to be superior to men at communicating feelings but go years without getting an orgasm in a relationship. Women have to stop being afraid to tell men the truth. Lying to ya’ll doesn’t help.

Men for their parts are facing an entire paradigm shift. Women are flexible and adaptable. But men have to shift their entire worldview. It’s going to be tough for them b/c our entire world is predicated on allowing men to basically do whatever they want while shaming women. For men, accountability is anathema. But the world can’t sustain male excess and it’s pushed society to the edge. Entire civilizations with shortages of millions of women due to ignorant patriarchy, a worldwide sex slavery trade, women initiating majority of divorces damn near everywhere. Some European countries have a majority of single mothers b/c they view men as liabilities. Men gotta take ownership that under their watch, they fukked up. They also gotta stop believing alternate facts about women to appease their ego. Blowing out women’s candles don’t make the male ones shine brighter.

In short, we all gotta do better or we go the way of the dinosaurs.


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The school system caters to women more than ever and it starts in kindergarten

They are so smart and educated but wonder why there’s a “shortage” of “quality” men

Because it’s BY DESIGN to limit the social mobility of working class men. It is not because “Well men are just trash”

Go in much deeper into this......
 

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It’s not necessarily about hoing around. It’s about being able to express and be urself outside of shame and being dogged for universal human traits that traditionally only 1/2 of the world get to express without fear of censure.

One curious aspect of patriarchy is female dehumanization. Do all humans fart? Do all humans shyt? Do all humans have body hair? Get jealous? Cry? Get emotional? Have sexual urges?

Whoever is in power can literally arbitrarily assign characteristics that are universally human traits solely to one group and socially punish other human beings for doing the same shyt even if it’s completely natural.

Think about that for a second. Women can’t even shyt in peace without being made to feel nasty. I’m serious. Think about how absurd that is.

The world has a collective mental illness when it comes to how we perceive women. We assign shame to women for doing shyt that all humans inherently do. Or we lie and say what they are incapable of to make 1/2 of the world feel stronger.

I had a professor ask his students to think about how much further the world would have advanced if they capitalized on the brilliance of 1/2 of the worlds population that spent the better half of the century being suppressed from contributing intellectually to the advancement of civilization. How many geniuses were told to get back into the kitchen, or laughed out of universities.

Scientists keep comparing male and female brains and intelligence and are now finding that they both equally smart but social conditioning negatively impacts female productivity.

Under those constraints, which are now being lifted, it’s not that women just wanna hoe like men. It’s that they wanna explore themselves for better or worse. Some women might find that they like domesticity. My mother has a 142 IQ that was tested back in the 60s, but she L O V E S being a housewife. Ain’t nothing wrong with that. But if my dad was an a$$hole who told her that her intelligence didn’t matter, that her ability to take dikk and make him a sammich was more important, that she needed to get back in the kitchen, that he didn’t even like her outside of sex, that she was inferior—she probably would have done anything except what he wanted her to do.

Luckily I was raised by a smart ass father who did nothing like that, but u get my drift.
When u told ur whole life what u can’t do, it makes u wanna test the waters to find out. Men after a millennia still haven’t grasped this concept...but we will either adapt or die.

I’ve said it before but this gender shyt is natural selection in the making. All this lone wolf shyt is really determining who reproduces and who doesnt. Without some compromise and understanding, the human population could see a mega drop in numbers very soon.
Tell your professor not much. For every 1 female genuise there's is anywhere 10 to 17 males on the typical iq curve. You have more male retards but more male genuises.
 

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Tell your professor not much. For every 1 female genuise there's is anywhere 10 to 17 males on the typical iq curve. You have more male retards but more male genuises.
(Sigh) u don’t have to be a genius to be an innovator or contributer.

And social conditioning and testing bias plays a role too.
#exactlytheshytimtalkingabout
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:jawalrus:so you think what if I told you monogamy was a fairly new concept? Monogamy isn't as old as many may think ....

Well I’d believe you

Lot of us AA’s are descended from polygamous nobles via Dahomey/Benin

At the same time, vassal state rulers to Dahomey had to answer to Dahomey women

Wealth disparity tho, only wealthy people got laid and married

We don’t want an Afghan wealth disparity where men literally turn gay because they’ve been away from women so long
 
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I seen the thread a couple of females have been talking about the matriarchy in the patriarchy but what you haven't talked about which is overlooked is the....Gynocracy . One of my many mentors explains it perfectly during a women's hangout that he normally host on his channel to help women ....



-Black women have ALWAYS been in charge of the black community - BGS

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