Fewer people are getting married because there’s a shortage of economically-stable single men
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Less people are getting married, because a majority of women aren't submissive anymore. Simple
As a woman, you can't reject patriarchy and then expect to be married. Water and oil don't mix
As a woman, you can't reject patriarchy and then expect to be married. Water and oil don't mix
I’m actually not a feminist. I think the world would be JUST as barbarous if women primarily ruled it. It would be the same monster with a different flavor and anybody who says otherwise is full of shyt.
Women with absolute power are susceptible to the same corruption as men. That sweet nurturer shyt would fly right out the same window as the honorable man shyt given the right circumstances.
I’m not a feminist for pointing out that men fukked. up. U don’t have to be a feminist to point out obvious shyt. An alien from outer space could take a look at the history of humanity and be like...
“DAYUM! Ya’ll can’t stand them humans that don’t have extra appendages between their legs...” Crying “feminism” is just a shaming tactic that dudes default too when they don’t wanna admit to fukking up the world with their lack of self-control.
I’m a pragmatist. We can’t fix the world by taking all power away from men, claiming they are evil and giving it to women. We’d just be exchanging one monster for another one wearing red bottoms.
Instead men and women need to work together, learn from each other, and help each other grow.
Not tear each other down so that we can feel strong, not destabilize one another to make humans easier to control.
Men wanna deny that shyt is getting bad under their watch and play false bravado machismo on some “YEAH GMB!” But they show their true colors when women start agreeing with them.
The same dudes who were talking that shyt about the ole ball and chain instantly become incensed when women don’t wanna play the game either.
Worldwide women are opting out of the bullshyt.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/m.huffpost.com/us/entry/us_5b0725cfe4b0568a88097feb/amp
When the Japanese prime minister gotta tell females to start poppin out babies u know shyt is going down.
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.in...population-pregnancy-ageing-a8952116.html?amp
But men aren’t talking to women. They don’t want to listen. And there are other factors in here too like a highly patriarchal capitalist system that fukks over EVERYBODY who isn’t a white male
But them jokers are smart as fukk to get the average guy to be incensed at everybody else to distract them from the economic dildo the top wealthiest MEN are fukking everybody with.
I love men. I really do. But all that “superior logic” ain’t doing shyt to help ya’ll avoid the oldest trick in the book. The advent of alt-right, nationalist, neo conservative, racist, misogynistic tactics is nothing more than a bunch of old white men using dumb ass poor dudes to do their dirty work.
“Control those bytches! They won’t give u sex Mr. Alt-right! Go shoot em I mean fight for ur manhood!” (And while ur busy doing that I’ll take ur money!)
“Oh don’t worry about me—-look an IMMIGRANT!” (I’ll just be over here fukking up the environment.)
“Those ******s are jeopardizing our beautiful white country!” (Focus on them, while I take away middle class wealth and make u vote for shyt that ensures u will remain impoverished!)
Fukkin foot soldiers in a war that don’t even benefit u. Meanwhile as men get incensed at women for taking advantage of fairly new economic opportunities previous generations could only dream of in the past, chicks outchea trying to live their best life putting their own well-being first.
Black Female Founders Face Constant Rejection. They're Thriving Anyway.
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BlaqkSpliffin
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So basically capitalism, debt, and fear along with a shift in gender rolea that neither side has completely bought into or rebuked is the cause for lack of marriage across ALL GROUPS. And here I thought it was jusg black people who didn't wanna get married...ain't that what they been saying?
Less people are getting married, because a majority of women aren't submissive anymore. Simple
As a woman, you can't reject patriarchy and then expect to be married. Water and oil don't mix
Lol this mentality is how the seeds of feminism got planted. Marriage will be worlds better when patriarchy is out of the picture. The whole traditional marriage ideal needs to die, especially among black people.
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This was a problem in the black community before it became a problem in mainstream America.So basically capitalism, debt, and fear along with a shift in gender rolea that neither side has completely bought into or rebuked is the cause for lack of marriage across ALL GROUPS. And here I thought it was jusg black people who didn't wanna get married...ain't that what they been saying?
Blacks in America are just ahead of the curve when it comes to societal trends, similar to the Japanese but on opposite side of the spectrum.
Like I always said "all the problems of the black community coming to a white community near you". They didn't fix the sickness in the black community and now they're panicking because they're catching it.
"chickens coming home to roost"
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UpAndComing
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Does the idea of traditional marriage really exist among black people actually looking to get married?
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I like you as a poster but this anti-patriarchy talk is really really silly, and make me think you don't understand how serious and real war is.
Thousands of years of human existence has shown that non-patriarchal societies cannot compete with patriarchal societies. And the west is facing serious competition from China right now which is gunning for the spot of top patriarchy.
I get it, women want to be able to compete with men, problem is men are more focused on competing with other men because the consequences of losing that battle is usually death or slavery.
Women can't understand this because the consequences of losing conflicts aren't the same for them as they are for men.
Remember that time a group got conquered and they killed all the women and kept all the men? Yea me neither.
Off topic, that's why I never could get into the petty African vs. ADOS shyt, because at the end of the day an American black man and an African black man are gonna get thrown in the same gas chamber if blacks as a whole don't get their shyt together.
Even here in America in regards to black oppression, do you think it's by chance that our prison system is mostly black men, and black female incarceration lags behind? do you think it's by chance black men have the highest unemployment rates, when black female employment is healthy? Do you think it's by chance black boys are failing in the school system while black girls perform better?
We're seeing an modern version of "kill the men, keep the women" its just been adjusted to happen over a longer period of time.
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Not angry and I was referencing the latest Dave Chappelle special.Your angry b/c the inconsistencies of a male dominated world aren’t working in ur favor and have resulted in the mess we are currently in.
I get it. Nobody can take u seriously when u can’t even acknowledge the pure and utter shyt women had to go thru just to get basic rights.
U yelling and screaming won’t make reality go away.
Females don’t have bias in the educational system. They have opportunity that entire generations of women prior to them did not have and those same inferior chicks who could be nothing more than homemakers have taken that opportunity and ran with it.
Whoda thunk that when given a chance women could do so much when they aren’t raped, castigated, blamed, shamed, denied opportunity, and told to get back in the kitchen. The fact that those women u mentioned did that shyt in a Mad Men era more than proves the point my professor was making. Chicks were literally painting in the street b/c their husbands would steal their artwork. Many historians credit Einstein’s wife as a contributor to much of his work...
If they were doing all this while under duress, god only know what could have been achieved with a little opportunity instead of countless other contributions lost b/c male ego gets shook anytime a woman wants to do more than cook, clean and fukk.
That all caps yelling ain’t saying much bro. This world is burning down due to the excesses caused primarily by men. Men say they run the world, wanna lead, that women should submit—welp this is where it got us. Worldwide sex slavery supported by and for men. Countless wars waged by men. The possibility of ethnic extinction due to a lack of respect for females as a result of female child fatalities resulting in countries with huge male populations and no females, rape, sexual harassment, extreme wealth disparity, glass ceilings...and u wanna neckyap about FEMALE accountability?!Women don’t take ya’ll seriously with that bullshyt b/c men NEVER wanna be held accountable for shyt. And now women are saying fukk it.
To the point that chicks would literally choose dying alone as a senior citizen than put up with even one more second tied a man society pushed her to get with back in the day.
Yelling and screaming and gnashing of cyberteeth won’t stop this truth.
Adapt or die.
Birth rate in the US just dropped again, hits lowest level in 32 years
Women even sayin fukk it to having kids worldwide.
'Delaying marriage by even 1 year lowers domestic violence against women'
Why a bad marriage is worse for women than men
Marital Status May Impact Women's Health
https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.huffpost.com/entry/his-hers-marriage_b_3129269/amp
There has been decades of these findings.And getting angry Won’t make it go away.
Implicit Bias: Are Schools Ruining Our Boys?
These articles point out my point. Why is it that dysfunctional males are detrimental to women's health when women probably pushed marriage onto those men.
The pendulum swung hard in 80s because I haven't seen this male dominated world you speak off. I see it when I go overseas. Never seen it here.
Your projecting. Women can do whatever the fukk they want to do. If she wants to die alone let her die alone. It's her choice.
Either you gone be a deadbeat or a playboy
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Either you gone be a "single lady" or Margaret Mead
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Either you gone be a "single lady" or Margaret Mead
You do realize that this article puts that on women.
There is a lack of men who can traditionally provide so women don't wanna get married. Why can't yall love a man who ain't providing?
The rest of the stuff is for the birds. Men keep stacking, women kkeep getting degrees. What the problem is lol...the stuff aint go stop or change roll with it or get rolled over, buckle up or get bucked.. .this aint some great mystery get in where you fit in, cause this has been going on for a minute. Its not stopping
Youseenmywork
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You the one bragging about your momma iq. I'm just giving you the facts.
And females have a bias in favor of them in schooling and testing, especially black women. What are you talking about?
Your addittude is the exact problem with modern feminist worldview. You believe dudes been running around forever doing whatever without responsibility. Yet women haven't been given the opportunity to be innovators. Despite the fact that Hedy lemarr came up with the concept for wifi 100 years ago. Katherine Johnson working for NASA in the 60s.
Also in reality, women are the majority of college graduates. Yet men dominate STEM fields FOR SOME REASON.
You modern feminist types just can't take responsibility for your own lives. Go be happy and SHUT THE fukk UP.
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