Update: It isn’t looking promising. Lol
Fewer people are getting married because there’s a shortage of economically-stable single men
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Shaming tactic 75786544433: Youse gon be lonely!Yeah I'm sure you'll skip having childrenTill you see yo friends in successful marriages
shyt just doesn’t work. U can’t court chicks with vinegar. This ain’t the 50s.
I got married friends who literally on their way out. Marriage is a crapshoot these days as 50% end in divorce, so trying to scare chicks into the nonsense is ridiculous.
I’ve turned down two proposals in my life. I don’t want the shyt unless it’s right when it’s right and not b/c I’m listening to somebody else on what they think I should do for me.
To be honest it’s beautiful that I live in a time and place where I’m afforded that opportunity.
Birth rates are only down in western countries
Africa, India and south america are having population booms
Lol what are u talking about?
Youseenmywork
KING
Some of our black women are being feed that black men have oppressed them for years ....lmao oh boy 
. It amazing how some of our sisters don't know your just a pawn .
. It amazing how some of our sisters don't know your just a pawn .
Ezekiel 25:17
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Shaming tactic 75786544433: Youse gon be lonely!
shyt just doesn’t work. U can’t court chicks with vinegar. This ain’t the 50s.
I got married friends who literally on their way out. Marriage is a crapshoot these days as 50% end in divorce, so trying to scare chicks into the nonsense is ridiculous.
I’ve turned down two proposals in my life. I don’t want the shyt unless it’s right when it’s right and not b/c I’m listening to somebody else on what they think I should do for me.
To be honest it’s beautiful that I live in a time and place where I’m afforded that opportunity.
Of course it ain't the 50s. But let's not pretend marriage isn't down because of women. Y'all standards are crazy. A man making $100,000 would take in a woman who works at TGI Fridays, tell her to go to school, buy her a car, pay off her loans, etc. Doctors and Gangstas buying everything you want. Now tell me, is a woman doing that? Hell naw
Dude making $65,000, but y'all telling him he needs to step it up and work harder so you can spend it on more worthless things keeping up with the joneses
But If you want to know, I'm as equal as they come. I do wish both sexes could get along better
Youseenmywork
KING
Of course it ain't the 50s. But let's not pretend marriage isn't down because of women. Y'all standards are crazy. A man making $100,000 would take in a woman who works at TGI Fridays, tell her to go to school, buy her a car, pay off her loans, etc. Doctors and Gangstas buying everything you want. Now tell me, is a woman doing that? Hell naw
But If you want to know, I'm as equal as they come. I do wish both sexes could get along better
First there is no such thing as equal it dosent make what a women is less thoe.
Second it want get better majority of black have bought into a lot of bs with this whole woman's movement etc
Third is many of them will have to date down since they claim to make so much more money . The higher they climb the lighter the skin tone gets ...unless a women is into that .
Fourth it will ALWAYS be tension between the black male and the black female .
Fifth I could prove black women have been doing what they want for a long time ...but that would take an dissertation and I would need to be paid for that . I started a mini one back when I was attending a all black University actually I started a few weeks after I got kick out of women's studies
. Even back in 04/05 women's studies was on some bullshyt. I was refuting that shyt that was said with straight logic and facts ....I believe that's what got kicked out of that class.Some of our black women are being feed that black men have oppressed them for years ....lmao oh boy
Black Men and women have real issues with one another and diminishing anyone’s experience is part of the overall problem.
NPR Choice page
Japan shrinking as birthrate falls to lowest level in history
Mothers, your country needs you!
Literacy leaves its mark as fertility rate goes south
“Indian women are choosing to have fewer children — the total fertility rate (TFR) declined to an all-time low of 2.2 in 2017 after being stable at 2.3 for the four years from 2013 to 2016, according to the Sample Registration System (SRS) compiled by Registrar General of India (RGI) for 2017.”
Ummmmm....sir
In fact, Africa’s birthrates support my point b/c they are inextricably tied to poorer communities and girls having a lack of resources
What Fertility Rates in Africa Tell Us About Global Development
“High fertility is also viewed as a global problem, because as the whole of humanity continues to become wealthier, high birth rates in the poorest parts of the world’s countries make poverty, increasing school enrollment, and combating disease infinitely more difficult to address or solve. The poorest places on the planet also have the highest fertility rates, the highest rates of maternal and child mortality, and the highest unmet need for contraception. Children (girls, in particular) born in a resource-scarce environment are inherently more at risk of remaining poor, suffering from lack of education, malnutrition, and economic opportunity. In this way, high fertility rates and low economic status virtually institutionalize poverty.”
As women gain better opportunities and in better economic circumstances, birthrates drop.
Youseenmywork
KING
What are these experience that you speak of about either that have been diminished . I will do plan on doing a thread about this when I ready to leave the coli . Im give facts thoe HISTORY facts . I'm finish what I started in college ....in 03
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Shaming tactic 75786544433: Youse gon be lonely!
shyt just doesn’t work. U can’t court chicks with vinegar. This ain’t the 50s.
I got married friends who literally on their way out. Marriage is a crapshoot these days as 50% end in divorce, so trying to scare chicks into the nonsense is ridiculous.
I’ve turned down two proposals in my life. I don’t want the shyt unless it’s right when it’s right and not b/c I’m listening to somebody else on what they think I should do for me.
To be honest it’s beautiful that I live in a time and place where I’m afforded that opportunity.
Why did you turn down the proposals? Were they both long time relationships? Did anyone of those men ever get sexual access to you? Just curious
Ezekiel 25:17
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First there is no such thing as equal it dosent make what a women is less thoe.
Second it want get better majority of black have bought into a lot of bs with this whole woman's movement etc
Third is many of them will have to date down since they claim to make so much more money . The higher they climb the lighter the skin tone gets ...unless a women is into that .
Fourth it will ALWAYS be tension between the black male and the black female .
Fifth I could prove black women have been doing what they want for a long time ...but that would take an dissertation and I would need to be paid for that . I started a mini one back when I was attending a all black University actually I started a few weeks after I got kick out of women's studies
Truthfully speaking I don't have any issues with black women, I just separate myself from the fukkery. If they want to make it harder on themselves, then that's on them. Money doesn't make you a better person, and making more won't make you a better person. I'm not about to break my back just to buy more material possessions. If anything I'd rather be my own boss
The biggest problem for our PROFESSIONAL black women in terms of finding marriage is 2 things
1.. Attitude
And
2. Controlling behavior
Many brothers I have talk to who got good jobs nothing spectacular but they bills are paid, come across women who has this controlling behavior and attitude because I guess all their prior relationships they was doing everything and paying bills and dealing with dirty dikk Eddie cheating and pawning her shyt , so the next brother who she sees , she will want control of the relationship and the brother like
look why u telling a brother who has not that much debt, work pays bills what to do but u never demanded that shyt from dirty dikk Eddie
get the fukk outta here
1.. Attitude
And
2. Controlling behavior
Many brothers I have talk to who got good jobs nothing spectacular but they bills are paid, come across women who has this controlling behavior and attitude because I guess all their prior relationships they was doing everything and paying bills and dealing with dirty dikk Eddie cheating and pawning her shyt , so the next brother who she sees , she will want control of the relationship and the brother like
look why u telling a brother who has not that much debt, work pays bills what to do but u never demanded that shyt from dirty dikk Eddieget the fukk outta here
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Youseenmywork
KING
Yeah I can go there even wit Mrs Obama
Youseenmywork
KING
The biggest problem for our PROFESSIONAL black women in terms of finding marriage is 2 things
1.. Attitude
And
2. Controlling behavior
Many brothers I have talk to who got good jobs nothing spectacular but they bills are paid, come across women who has this controlling behavior and attitude because I guess all their prior relationships they was doing everything and paying bills and dealing with dirty dikk Eddie cheating and pawing her shyt , so the next brother who she sees , she will want control of the relationship and the brother like
get the fukk outta here
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I’m speaking on individual relationships. Back men and women are mistreating one another to say the least and it’s causing serious breakdowns in communication and development of the associations needed to thrive together. Women are less dedicated to men and men are less dedicated to their families and overall responsibilities.
