Let me tell you where you fukking up.
Men and women don't both equally contribute to the above responsibilities on average. Typically men contribute more to those roles.
Secondary, most men don't care about women contributing to the majority of the above.
Lies. Typically women have ALWAYS contributed more to a marriage. ALWAYS.
Only a very few number of women worldwide historically have been able to live the sit at home while a nanny takes care of the kids life. That’s a rich woman’s lifestyle that u are projecting onto other women that is completely unrealistic.
MOST women have always been the PRIMARY caretakers of children AND the home AND supplemented family income with jobs AND worked to raise food or farm.
The myth of the lazy woman that men have in their heads is a lie from hell. On average 43% of farmers worldwide are WOMEN, and they don’t stop having babies, taking care of whiny ass husbands, cooking and cleaning at the end of the day.
One chick from the Philippines said her mother used to wish SHE had a wife at the of the day.
Black Women in America have ALWAYS participated heavily in the workforce. Our asses were strapping babies to our backs and heading out to the fields.
I don’t know where men get this idea that women have just been twiddling their thumbs in marriages while dudes do everything.
Especially now a days when women are working just as much as men are, AND still double burdened with traditional roles b/c dudes too lazy to knock back some dishes after they both get off from work
Who. Has. Lied. To. Ya’ll?! Please make it make sense.
Double burden - Wikipedia
“A
double burden (also called
double day,
second shift, and
double duty[1]) is the workload of people who work to earn money, but who are also responsible for significant amounts of unpaid
domestic labor.
[2] This phenomenon is also known as the
Second Shift as in
Arlie Hochschild's
book of the same name. In couples where both partners have paid jobs, women often spend significantly more time than men on
household chores and caring work, such as
childrearing or caring for sick family members. This outcome is determined in large part by traditional
gender roles that have been accepted by society over time.”
Maybe ur family is apart of the Kardishians or some shyt but everybody in my family WORKS and I don’t know many other blk women who don’t IN ADDITION TO holding down the housework.
“Compared with other women in the United States, black women have always had the highest levels of labor market participation regardless of age, marital status, or presence of children at home.
In 1880, 35.4 percent of married black women and 73.3 percent of single black women were in the labor force compared with only 7.3 percent of married white women and 23.8 percent of single white women. Black women’s higher participation rates extended over their lifetimes, even after marriage, while white women typically left the labor force after marriage.”
I love u but I’m just not speaking ur language....we not just gon make shyt up today.
It's dudes out there making $50,000 and women telling them they need to step it up
to yourself like this bytch making 30k pre taxes, have a kid and baby daddy haven’t paid child support and she struggling but telling u to step your shyt up...
