Fewer people are getting married because there’s a shortage of economically-stable single men

Eddy Gordo

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Non of what you posted disproves what I said lol

Birth rates are only on the decline for western countries

Populations in africa, asia and south america on the rise

That whole women arent having kids BS isnt true lol
especially not for women of color

You're cherry picking data from developed countries to prove a point lmao

the global pop is gonna hit 10 billion by 2050 :dead:
What happens when Africa, southeast Asia, and south America become developed? :jbhmm:
 

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Lies. Typically women have ALWAYS contributed more to a marriage. ALWAYS.

Only a very few number of women worldwide historically have been able to live the sit at home while a nanny takes care of the kids life. That’s a rich woman’s lifestyle that u are projecting onto other women that is completely unrealistic.

MOST women have always been the PRIMARY caretakers of children AND the home AND supplemented family income with jobs AND worked to raise food or farm.

The myth of the lazy woman that men have in their heads is a lie from hell. On average 43% of farmers worldwide are WOMEN, and they don’t stop having babies, taking care of whiny ass husbands, cooking and cleaning at the end of the day.
One chick from the Philippines said her mother used to wish SHE had a wife at the of the day.:mjlol:

Black Women in America have ALWAYS participated heavily in the workforce. Our asses were strapping babies to our backs and heading out to the fields.
I don’t know where men get this idea that women have just been twiddling their thumbs in marriages while dudes do everything.

Especially now a days when women are working just as much as men are, AND still double burdened with traditional roles b/c dudes too lazy to knock back some dishes after they both get off from work:deadmanny:

Who. Has. Lied. To. Ya’ll?! Please make it make sense.

Double burden - Wikipedia

“A double burden (also called double day, second shift, and double duty[1]) is the workload of people who work to earn money, but who are also responsible for significant amounts of unpaid domestic labor.[2] This phenomenon is also known as the Second Shift as in Arlie Hochschild's book of the same name. In couples where both partners have paid jobs, women often spend significantly more time than men on household chores and caring work, such as childrearing or caring for sick family members. This outcome is determined in large part by traditional gender roles that have been accepted by society over time.”
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Maybe ur family is apart of the Kardishians or some shyt but everybody in my family WORKS and I don’t know many other blk women who don’t IN ADDITION TO holding down the housework.

“Compared with other women in the United States, black women have always had the highest levels of labor market participation regardless of age, marital status, or presence of children at home. In 1880, 35.4 percent of married black women and 73.3 percent of single black women were in the labor force compared with only 7.3 percent of married white women and 23.8 percent of single white women. Black women’s higher participation rates extended over their lifetimes, even after marriage, while white women typically left the labor force after marriage.”:mindblown: I love u but I’m just not speaking ur language....we not just gon make shyt up today.

I don't think that's fair to say. I believe in doing equal work, if not more and I don't believe in my future wife working full time.
 

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What happens when Africa, southeast Asia, and south America become developed? :jbhmm:
:manny: depends on the culture

Countries tend to decrease in population and birth rates when wealth increases

But that has more to do with people just having easier lives and less of a need for children

also people have more options. It has nothing to do with that women "empowerment" shyt books is talking about because the simple facts is women have biological drives just like men.
They want sex, babies and love too lol

But as for Africa, SEA and south America. Depending on the religion and culture of the groups in the country it may increase or decrease.
Rural people always gonna have hella kids and religious people

Hell that whole premise books have is a western way of thinking
Every woman on the planet doesn't want to say fukk men or kids
 

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Non of what you posted disproves what I said lol

Birth rates are only on the decline for western countries

Populations in africa, asia and south america on the rise

That whole women arent having kids BS isnt true lol
especially not for women of color

You're cherry picking data from developed countries to prove a point lmao

the global pop is gonna hit 10 billion by 2050 :dead:
I said birthrates were down worldwide and posted stats from countries in addition to the West (in the world) to demonstrate that.

And lowered birthrates are directly proportionate to increased educational opportunities for women. (And a worldwide conspiracy to blame climate on all da brown folks even tho the rich white ones use the most shyt and waste the most but that’s another thread...)
I even included stats from India even tho in ur original post u wrongly stated otherwise.

I mean...i don’t know what else to tell u.
As women get the opportunity to live better lives, they tend to pump brakes on marriage and having babies. The big question is why?
 

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Tough for women too. Which is the sole reason to partner up. Two incomes/heads are better than one. We are communication and partnerships away from winning.
It is attractive that’s holding that up. They know this but they’re being patient and waiting to be rescued by some baller from their financial and life ruins.
 

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yup lipstick alley is black men aint shyt central, they put all other races of men on a pedestal. They refuse to look inwards and and blame us for all their problems, its not a good look and men of means will look past that negativity and find that feminine spirit in other women. But this is mainly about western influenced BW. African women seem to know their place and respect their men.

Never take the babble that is spewed on said sites seriously brehs.
 

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Y'all worried about marriage when the world isn't even gonna be stable enough for marriage in 20 years :dead:

Lost people thinking that the key to saving the black community is marriage :dead:

Y'all better start lobbying congress and worry about these predatory oligarchs
Marriage is the best way to strengthen our financial position. Marriage isn’t the issue the way we relate to one another is.
 

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I don't think that's fair to say. I believe in doing equal work, if not more and I don't believe in my future wife working full time.
Then this is a completely different situation. I’m of the belief that if she has the privilege of being a stay at home mom, then why the fukk would she NOT do that stuff?

It’s not drudgery if that’s ur primary job as a female. But most women worldwide have always worked in some way in addition to being in the household and taking care of kids. Most people aren’t rich.

My grandmother was a stay at home mom who also catered to make extra money, cleaned houses, tutored, AND farmed. I’m from the country and that is pretty much the standard.

Most people around the world, PARTICULARLY black people haven’t been able to afford not having their women contribute financially with their husbands to the household in addition to the other duties of a wife and mother across cultures.
 

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I said birthrates were down worldwide and posted stats from countries in addition to the West (in the world) to demonstrate that.
You cherry picked western and developed countries because everybody knows the wealthier a country becomes the birth rate decreases. That has been consistent across time and culture.

And lowered birthrates are directly proportionate to increased educational opportunities for women. (And a worldwide conspiracy to blame climate on all da brown folks even tho the rich white ones use the most shyt and waste the most but that’s another thread...)
I even included stats from India even tho in ur original post u wrongly stated otherwise.
Decling birth raes in the countries are tied to many different aspects lmao
Education, the decrease of religious beliefs and adopting more European standards of living has all contributed to the decrease in birthrates.

But that only happens in mostly white developed countries. The world pop is going up lmao Africa is expected to hit a 2 billion people by 2050
I don't get why you're using data from western countries and japan to prove a point. They aren't a reflection of the totality of humanity.

I mean...i don’t know what else to tell u.
As women get the opportunity to live better lives, they tend to pump brakes on marriage and having babies. The big question is why?

You can show me conclusive proof that the birth rates are declining in every country and show me that women not wanting to have kids is the reason

The lives of men have gotten better to tho. I dont get why you are making it seem like women are the only group whose quality of life has improve over the last few decades
It way more complicated than you saying women are fed
 
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Both genders don’t show any love for one another and you know it.


fukk that not TRUE . How many nikkas is raised by a single mother and swear that mom's is angel and can't do no wrong but when it comes to Dad thoe he is Satan walking ...it more men and women that got love for Mom's than they do they dad . Some understandable some is in between others not so much . Women will ALWAYS get love men not so much.
 

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Marriage is the best way to strengthen our financial position. Marriage isn’t the issue the way we relate to one another is.
No it's not

Education and being active in politics will help us immensely more than marriage. We also need specific governmental policies that will strengthen the black community economically

Cacs have wealth because they passed it down through generations not because they got married and ran up a bag with their spouse
 

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fukk that not TRUE . How many nikkas is raised by a single mother and swear that mom's is angel and can't do no wrong but when it comes to Dad thoe he is Satan walking ...it more men and women that got love for Mom's than they do they dad . Some understandable some is in between others not so much . Women will ALWAYS get love men not so much.

A missing dad IS Satan. :manny:
 

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No it's not

Education and being active in politics will help us immensely more than marriage. We also need specific governmental policies that will strengthen the black community economically

Cacs have wealth because they passed it down through generations not because they got married and ran up a bag with their spouse

We can agree to disagree but MOST financially abundant people are married and have been for a long time. Only in these newer generations is struggling alone and then inviting someone on board once you’ve reached success is the way to move.
 
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Lies. Typically women have ALWAYS contributed more to a marriage. ALWAYS.

Only a very few number of women worldwide historically have been able to live the sit at home while a nanny takes care of the kids life. That’s a rich woman’s lifestyle that u are projecting onto other women that is completely unrealistic.

MOST women have always been the PRIMARY caretakers of children AND the home AND supplemented family income with jobs AND worked to raise food or farm.

The myth of the lazy woman that men have in their heads is a lie from hell. On average 43% of farmers worldwide are WOMEN, and they don’t stop having babies, taking care of whiny ass husbands, cooking and cleaning at the end of the day.
One chick from the Philippines said her mother used to wish SHE had a wife at the of the day.:mjlol:

Black Women in America have ALWAYS participated heavily in the workforce. Our asses were strapping babies to our backs and heading out to the fields.
I don’t know where men get this idea that women have just been twiddling their thumbs in marriages while dudes do everything.

Especially now a days when women are working just as much as men are, AND still double burdened with traditional roles b/c dudes too lazy to knock back some dishes after they both get off from work:deadmanny:

Who. Has. Lied. To. Ya’ll?! Please make it make sense.

Double burden - Wikipedia

“A double burden (also called double day, second shift, and double duty[1]) is the workload of people who work to earn money, but who are also responsible for significant amounts of unpaid domestic labor.[2] This phenomenon is also known as the Second Shift as in Arlie Hochschild's book of the same name. In couples where both partners have paid jobs, women often spend significantly more time than men on household chores and caring work, such as childrearing or caring for sick family members. This outcome is determined in large part by traditional gender roles that have been accepted by society over time.”
:dahell:


Maybe ur family is apart of the Kardishians or some shyt but everybody in my family WORKS and I don’t know many other blk women who don’t IN ADDITION TO holding down the housework.

“Compared with other women in the United States, black women have always had the highest levels of labor market participation regardless of age, marital status, or presence of children at home. In 1880, 35.4 percent of married black women and 73.3 percent of single black women were in the labor force compared with only 7.3 percent of married white women and 23.8 percent of single white women. Black women’s higher participation rates extended over their lifetimes, even after marriage, while white women typically left the labor force after marriage.”:mindblown: I love u but I’m just not speaking ur language....we not just gon make shyt up today.


You know what's fukked about this copy and paste bs you put is that MOST black women don't even CARE Why it is this way and HOW it got this way . It just didn't start with our generation . It's a reason from slavery THAT black women were PUT a head of the men for a reason. Hell during those times it was black women who OWNED black men as well . I could really get into WHY white people would rather deal with a black women on most jobs than black men . It's a reason why black men have been behind in everything it has always been a plan to have BLACK WOMEN over black men . Black for the most part don't get that because it a psychological thing .
 
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