(Finally) Accept applications for a Black boyfriend, brehettes

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Coli won’t agree but if she is flying 3,000 miles to visit you then surely a coffee machine isn’t much to ask for. It’s a rather flimsy reason to break up sure and probably highlights the relationship was doomed to last. I only read the bolded to be honest so don’t know if there is more to things.
 

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"Non-white guys may submit their applications" now that she's been used up and rejected by her first choice? :hhh:

Coli won’t agree but if she is flying 3,000 miles to visit you then surely a coffee machine isn’t much to ask for. It’s a rather flimsy reason to break up sure and probably highlights the relationship was doomed to last. I only read the bolded to be honest so don’t know if there is more to things.
I would say it is. Didn't read the whole thing but seems like they had only seen each other twice.

Different story if we're talking about a serious relationship but until it gets there, you're still a guest in my home. Yes, as a host and gentleman, I should be as hospitable and accommodating as I reasonably can be but asking me to spend money on something that may only be used once or twice a year is a stretch. If you feel so pressed about it, you can send me the money and I'll glady take the time to go out and buy it.
 

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"Non-white guys may submit their applications" now that she's been used up and rejected by her first choice? :hhh:


I would say it is. Didn't read the whole thing but seems like they had only seen each other twice.

Different story if we're talking about a serious relationship but until it gets there, you're still a guest in my home. Yes, as a host and gentleman, I should be as hospitable and accommodating as I reasonably can be but asking me to spend money on something that may only be used once or twice a year is a stretch. If you feel so pressed about it, you can send me the money and I'll glady take the time to go out and buy it.

The cost of the flight could be seen as a form of her commitment to the potential relationship. I am sure a coffee machine costs less than flying out 3,000 miles. You can get some pretty decently priced ones.
 

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The cost of the flight could be seen as a form of her commitment to the potential relationship. I am sure a coffee machine costs less than flying out 3,000 miles. You can get some pretty decently priced ones.

breh said fukk a coffee maker that I will NEVER use when she’s not here regardless of the symbolism.

he prolly peeped how corny/lame she began to revel herself as and said “fukk it” and hit the sabotage button
 

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The cost of the flight could be seen as a form of her commitment to the potential relationship. I am sure a coffee machine costs less than flying out 3,000 miles. You can get some pretty decently priced ones.
He had already done the trip himself. It was simply her turn to visit him.

As a broader point however, lonely people will go to extreme lengths for companionship, so a 3000 mile trip doesn't register as firm enough sign of commitment for me. Her willingness to compromise would have meant a lot more to me.
 

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She 100% looks and sounds like the type of wench that lets demonic white boys give her the ghetto gaggers treatment. :scust:
unfortunate but I'd agree:scust:

trash upbringing clearly led her down this path

Coli won’t agree but if she is flying 3,000 miles to visit you then surely a coffee machine isn’t much to ask for. It’s a rather flimsy reason to break up sure and probably highlights the relationship was doomed to last. I only read the bolded to be honest so don’t know if there is more to things.

he really wasn't into her the whole time, and let her know it, and she was trying and trying regardless, so the coffee machine probably pushed her over the edge of feeling like it was one sided
 
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Coli won’t agree but if she is flying 3,000 miles to visit you then surely a coffee machine isn’t much to ask for. It’s a rather flimsy reason to break up sure and probably highlights the relationship was doomed to last. I only read the bolded to be honest so don’t know if there is more to things.

It wasn’t about the coffee maker. It was about boundaries and the coffee maker was just the latest of her attempts to push the boundaries and make the relationship something that it wasn’t. He told her from the jump it wasn’t going to work; breh sounded like he was content to just enjoy it while it lasted. She was still chasing her romcom worthy romance tale trying to force progression of the relationship into something more. I’m sure he could sense every time she tried; from the forced PDA to trying to leave stuff at his spot and he wasn’t with it. She probably played the “I fly 3,000 miles” card all the time too.
 

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"Up to that point, the vast majority of my relationships had been with white men, the predictable result of years spent in a Maryland prep school and at a Massachusetts liberal arts college"

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