For the brehs in relationships, do yall give out monthly "girlfriend allowance"?

[Still Benefited]

If you are going to be doing all that extra shyt, you should marry her and make it official.

Spending those kinds of resources on a woman who is not legally tied to is hustling backwards.

Im righteously attached. Getting married under the European construct can turn what ended up being a short term investment into a long term nightmare. Im saying its an investment,but im not guranteeing its going to work out. You can put as much time,effort,money,and energy into an investment that you deem suitable. For the time and space yall are in in your relationship. The investment in year one probably shouldnt be the same as year 3.

But you should be allowed to walk away from an investment at any time. And not be forced to hold,and keep investing.

 

[Canon]

fukk you talking about mane

 

[Braman]

I feel sorry for you younger cats. Bc social media, the culture, etc is run by women. And they are slooowly slowly seeping into your DNA from how people talk, how people post online (cough), to how people view dating.

People are far more impressionable than you think…feminine-based social cues got MEN wondering if they doin things right. Sad

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

I do nice things from my wife, as she does for me but I don't give her an allowance. Lol,WTF

 

[Koli_Kat]

Thread got trick energy written all over it.

 

[CreepyMcCreeperson]

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

Wait…. “Allowance”? You mean money you give to your children for completing chores, since they legally can’t work or pay taxes? That kind of allowance? To my woman?

nikka!

Let her try and sit on her ass and bring in no income. I don’t care if she’s on the webcam getting it in from OnlyFans… I’ll be dammed if an able bodied woman gets an “allowance” from me.

You dumb ass nikkas who think you’re “a boss” because she doesn’t have to lift anything but the credit card you pay for are destined for failure. You’re nothing but a mark ass trick to her.

I don’t care if that’s your wife, boo, or whatever. I’ll put her ass on the corner and put that mouth to work. No way in hell is an able bodied woman under my roof getting an “allowance”.

This man right here must be a preacher in real life, because every word spoken here is the GOSPEL. You backwards thinking, desperate ass nikkas better listen to what this man says. He’s one of the fortunate few who gets it. Rep pending, soon as we’re able

 

[UWasntThere]

Men already get the short end of the stick when it comes to relationships now I’m supposed to pay for it as well?



Simp culture.

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

Wait y’all really don’t give y’all gfs/wives money.

Every serious bf I’ve had has given me money for hair/nails/clothes/daily coffees. My husband and my ex both paid my rent in addition to that. Do y’all even like y’all gfs/wives? Y’all really don’t give them anything?

bytch, what do you give besides attitude and recycled, regifted p*ssy/throat that multiple nikkas done already ravaged?


The entitlement and lack of self awareness these hoes have is mind numbing sometimes. Glad I’m over that dating/looking for love bullshyt stage of my life. That shyt came with more heartache, headache, and stupid ass quarreling over nothing to last me a lifetime. Trying to make an ungrateful ass bytch happy that is ALWAYS gonna find some shyt to complain or be unhappy about, even when you’re doing your best. I will NEVER do that shyt again. Completely worthless and pointless…

 

[Ashley Banks]

Ain’t you with an Indian? Them nikkas used to trickin. You the exception not the standard.

lol he’s not Indian

My ex is black though and he did it too.

Some guys get used Ashley. Are you really this dense?

Pls don’t call me dense. Thanks.

I was assuming as grown adults we’d be able to understand that I only mean this should be done for women you love/do the same or similar in return for you.

 

[Ashley Banks]

bytch, what do you give besides attitude and recycled, regifted p*ssy/throat that multiple nikkas done already ravaged?


The entitlement and lack of self awareness these hoes have is mind numbing sometimes. Glad I’m over that dating/looking for love bullshyt stage of my life. That shyt came with more heartache, headache, and stupid ass quarreling over nothing to last me a lifetime. Trying to make an ungrateful ass bytch happy that is ALWAYS gonna find some shyt to complain or be unhappy about, even when you’re doing your best. I will NEVER do that shyt again. Completely worthless and pointless…

Sounds like you date shytty people and hoes too. I’ve only fukked one person in my life. I literally said I do the same for them but clearly you just wanted to be mad and let your emotions spill all over the thread. Tighten up breh.

 

[CouldntBeMeTho]

 

[InkosiYe]

Paying a woman for her time has a special name, I keep forgetting..

I’m legit shocked at this thread. Even in the most traditional places where men pay a dowry to the woman’s family, money exchanges hands only after a marriage has taken been agreed upon.

nikkas are actually out here financing the lifestyles of girlfriends? Not wives, but gfs?

From some of these posts, you are in a sugar daddy/sugar baby arrangement, you just don’t know it.

That's literally called "the girlfriend experience"

smh.

I applaud women on the way they've been able to finesse dumbass dudes with this selective damsel in distress act. .

They're not hearing it though


These dudes out here will use all kinds of mental gymnastics to pretend they're not just tricks/sugar daddies at the end of the day. Let's just call it what it is fellas

And these very same dudes will then turn around with a straight face and tell you they never pay for p*ssy . And they'll actually believe it .


You can't make it up

 

[DatLBCGuy562]

Sounds like you date shytty people and hoes too. I’ve only fukked one person in my life. I literally said I do the same for them but clearly you just wanted to be mad and let your emotions spill all over the thread. Tighten up breh.

It seems you have reading comprehension problems. I don’t “date” anyone. Because entitlement and expectation from gold digging twats like you have ruined the sanctity and purity of the experience for me. I ain’t paying a bytch to stick around. Either she likes me for me, or she can kick rocks with open toed sandals on. Just call it what it is. Prostitution. Stop coming up with all of these little cute names for shyt like “allowance“ and just come right out and say “I trade my fish box for cash, gifts and trips and I’ll shame and degrade any breh who ain’t stupid enough to bow to my every whim like my desperate, simp, no balls having husband“. But you whores can’t shame me because I don’t give AF

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

No
I just take care of the necessities like
Car maintenance
Gas for her vehicle
She takes care of her own grooming and lady needs
It’s been like that even in our dating phase
If anything she spends too much money on me
But I always find a way to put the money she spent back into her savings account
Then she gets mad at me for doing it
She’s ridiculous sometimes