Found my bio "father's" Facebook (rant)

[Dad]

I honestly think getting in touch with your sister and trying to make a connection with your long lost family (i.s granny, cousins, aunts) would be a good idea. And can you imagine the shame that they'd collectly put on your "pops"?

In all seriousness though, reach out to your sister and try to mend the pieces. Good luck to you, breh. And salute to your moms cuz she sounds like a G.

 

[JackRoss]

I dont know how I would feel discovering my moms was a side piece

 

[Loken]

jesus christ

"I see you living real good and comfortable despite knowing the fact that you have a 22 year old son, hoe ass nikka"

 

[Diddly Drogba]

does your sister look good?

 

[The_Sheff]

Leave that nikka alone. You dont know what happened between him and your mom. It seems from facebook that he is a stand up dude with his family so ask yourself what happened in your household to cause him to bounce.

 

[HabitualChiller]

I'd send the letter. If you're going to reach out I'd do it with how you honestly feel about him.
My dad reached out to me when I was 17 and asked me to come to his church and say a few words. His deadbeat ass had the nerve to introduce me as his "long lost daughter". It ended with a lot of people asking to pray for me and me fighting my 'niece' in the parking lot. I still have no regrets though.

Fight video?

 

[Lweezy]

To give y'all context, I pretty much never knew my father. I only met him once when I was five for like 3 days and that was only because my mom found out that he was claiming me as a dependent on his tax return so my mom gave him an ultimatum to either see me or he couldn't claim me. My ma told me this when I was 13 and I because it took an ultimatum for him to see me but I digress. A couple weeks ago I had a strong urge to find him but it was mainly out of curiosity. After extensive research I managed to find his Facebook page. After scrolling through his Facebook, I found that he was a somewhat successful guy with a whole family of his own with a nice house, cars, etc. This prompted me to want to rant.


Personal rant to "father":

I see you living real good and comfortable despite knowing the fact that you have a 22 year old son, hoe ass nikka

Meanwhile my mother was struggling to raise me and my siblings. We were constantly moving from projects to projects and living in homeless shelters.

Oh I see you got a little son who has your name Ironically my mother almost named me after you except she didn't like your name so she made it my middle name. I wonder if you thought about that when you named him. It was strange seeing all the pictures with you and him knowing that I never had that chance to have a father-son relationship.

I peep that you married to some white woman and taking care of a daughter that she has from a previous relationship like she's yours. That's...interesting, considering that...nevermind, that's how you roll I guess

Personally, I never understood why you never tried to have a relationship with me. If I had a son, I would have done everything in my power to be with my son because that's my flesh and blood who was made by me.

Nonetheless, despite you not being around, I managed to thrive and grow into a man on my own. I became the first person in my family to go to college and I know that I will achieve success, all without you.

Not even on some Will Smith type shyt but I can't wait till the day I have my own kids because I know that I'll be a superior father than you in every way...fukk nikka.

/rant.



If you're wondering, no I haven't contacted him and I likely never will. TBH I'm more interested in getting to know the family on his side. Also I saw a pic of my sister that my mom told me about who's a couple years younger than me. It appears like they don't really have a relationship either. I would like to reach out to her but I am hesitant to do so because she probably never heard about me.

The man your mother chose.

 

[Mordith]

Leave that nikka alone. You dont know what happened between him and your mom. It seems from facebook that he is a stand up dude with his family so ask yourself what happened in your household to cause him to bounce.

That's a little too harsh Breh, but I will say that OP should check his feelings at the door and give his Father a chance to explain his side of the story.

 

[concise]

Clearly one person took responsibility for their actions and the other dipped out and dipped out again on another child. That's pretty pathetic of his dad.

And how are you so sure that the way one person described the situation is the entire truth?

 

[Apollo Creed]

I dont know how I would feel discovering my moms was a side piece

Whats wild is dudes dont want to accept their mom may have been a whore when they are literally doing the same thing to women now, only difference is they havent gotten someone pregnant.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

To give y'all context, I pretty much never knew my father. I only met him once when I was five for like 3 days and that was only because my mom found out that he was claiming me as a dependent on his tax return so my mom gave him an ultimatum to either see me or he couldn't claim me. My ma told me this when I was 13 and I because it took an ultimatum for him to see me but I digress. A couple weeks ago I had a strong urge to find him but it was mainly out of curiosity. After extensive research I managed to find his Facebook page. After scrolling through his Facebook, I found that he was a somewhat successful guy with a whole family of his own with a nice house, cars, etc. This prompted me to want to rant.


Personal rant to "father":

I see you living real good and comfortable despite knowing the fact that you have a 22 year old son, hoe ass nikka

Meanwhile my mother was struggling to raise me and my siblings. We were constantly moving from projects to projects and living in homeless shelters.

Oh I see you got a little son who has your name Ironically my mother almost named me after you except she didn't like your name so she made it my middle name. I wonder if you thought about that when you named him. It was strange seeing all the pictures with you and him knowing that I never had that chance to have a father-son relationship.

I peep that you married to some white woman and taking care of a daughter that she has from a previous relationship like she's yours. That's...interesting, considering that...nevermind, that's how you roll I guess

Personally, I never understood why you never tried to have a relationship with me. If I had a son, I would have done everything in my power to be with my son because that's my flesh and blood who was made by me.

Nonetheless, despite you not being around, I managed to thrive and grow into a man on my own. I became the first person in my family to go to college and I know that I will achieve success, all without you.

Not even on some Will Smith type shyt but I can't wait till the day I have my own kids because I know that I'll be a superior father than you in every way...fukk nikka.

/rant.



If you're wondering, no I haven't contacted him and I likely never will. TBH I'm more interested in getting to know the family on his side. Also I saw a pic of my sister that my mom told me about who's a couple years younger than me. It appears like they don't really have a relationship either. I would like to reach out to her but I am hesitant to do so because she probably never heard about me.

It took me until my mid-20's to realize how blessed I was to have my pops in my life. And not just him, multiple positive male figures in my life. Glad you could get this out and keep it moving. The world is already hard on us, fukk that dude for making it even harder for you.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

And how are you so sure that the way one person described the situation is the entire truth?

Whats wild is dudes dont want to accept their mom may have been a whore when they are literally doing the same thing to women now, only difference is they havent gotten someone pregnant.

None of that has anything to do with the fact that the family unit failed the child. Whore or not...care for your kids. Period.

 

[Mirin4rmfar]

And how are you so sure that the way one person described the situation is the entire truth?

So what's the excuse for creating two broken homes and not have zero relationship to your child....not one, but two.......

 

[Apollo Creed]

None of that has anything to do with the fact that the family unit failed the child. Whore or not...care for your kids. Period.

There is no family unit. Having sex doesnt make you a family.

if you think a trick sleeping with a whore = a family then you probably come from a disgraceful bloodline.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

There is no family unit. Having sex doesnt make you a family.

if you think a trick sleeping with a whore = a family then you probably come from a disgraceful bloodline.

I don't bust nuts in whores so I don't have this issue. Stop bussin nuts in whores and you won't either.
Just like women need to stop sleeping with dudes who are ok with bussin nuts in whores.

Your stance on this is weird.