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[Kyng]

I read this thread while on the phone

@fre$h

1. You have anxiety issues. That's the biggest issue you have. You might need to get some counseling. I did it before, it really helps and it's free if you are a college student on that campus. They can discover shyt you really didn't know about yourself.

2. You aren't productive. You know it. You play games all damn day outside of school and work. Change your interest like the cacs do. Start creating games and learning code instead of always playing them. Start signing up for organizations around your interest so you can build up a peer group. Start seeking out internships. Start looking for Blacks in the crowd who can hook you up. All of this is vital to your success.

3. Confidence. #2 will give you a lot more confidence but that's what you truly lack. But that's not as easy as buying new clothes for your personality. You need to be productive. That might be why you feel you aren't worth a woman because you know deep down inside, you aren't.

Follow one and two ASAP and three should come. Girls usually come with 3.

You right

 

[Kyng]

You're 23, 6'4", in "decent shape," but you can't get p*ssy?

Something ain't adding up here.

I'm lame and socially awkward

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

I'm lame and socially awkward

You could also be ugly, normal, or of an average income. Those are also turn offs to women.

 

[Born2BKing]

Technology happened.


I went through my teens without social media and high speed internet (80s baby, 90s kid)

Porn was around but it wasn't really accessible like it is today therefore if you wanted to see what a girl looked like naked you were gonna have to approach one in *gasp* real life and finesse her in real time.

These kids don't know what it's like to post up at the mall and approach women asking for thier digits. Rejection was part of the game but when one would say yes it felt good walking to the nearest store to get a pen and paper.


They'd rather browse IG and facebook and send friend requests. That may sound like a sweet deal but you really can't build any confidence with that approach because 1.) your intentions aren't front and center with a friend request and 2.) You don't build a tolerance for rejection.

Also texting. Cellphones weren't common in my teen years so we actually had to talk to girls on the phone which is a huge part of attraction.


These things were lost on this new generation. All this pick up artist stuff was just shyt we did during our formative years.

Holy shyt, this is one of the best posts I ever seen on here.

 

[Kyng]

@fre$h what state/city are you in?

Nyc

 

[Family Lives Matter]

Read the art of seduction by robert greene bigot

Shut up feminist.

YOURE A fukkING BIGOT

Coli niccas are so easy to troll

I see you politically correct casual

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

Coli niccas are so easy to troll

I see you politically correct casual

Shut up whore.

 

[Charlie Hustle]

Go for it breh! Pick up a streetwalker, go raw and then demand for a refund. Its about time you start experiencing life!

 

[JudgeJoeForilla]

@Based_Beazy claims to be a troll but doesn't like being called a whore

 

[Kyng]

this fresh kid is trying so hard to look mature

I've thought about this for a long time now

 

[jwonder]

Maybe cuz I'm older, but I could never understand why a young dude in his 20's and early 30's would buy p*ssy or go to a strip club. shyt baffles me. Social network is off glass in that time of your life. Even if you are a dork, I mean social media has so many people with your likeness. If you go to college, so easy to meet chicks.

I see how older guys buy it. Divorced and bitter. Or the ones that just want a dime without paying more for it by dating. The traveling business man. But could never understand how one could want something like a crack addicted hooker or a non dime one.

 

[TheArchitect]

Yes I love myself very much. I just don't have faith in myself or abilities. I don't think I'm as good as other dudes my age. I mean why would a girl like me when there are better guys with more to offer out there?

This was/is one issue with me. I hate feeling like I'm competing with others on some bullshyt...and getting turned down for others, on some bullshyt...

then...do something different every day and be patient

you're gonna meet some woman you like who likes shy guys and laugh at all this anxiety you have now

I always wanted one like that growing up. But she never came.....

It is.
Women get probably dozens if not 100s of messages.
Be a dude on those sites and you're lucky if a woman replies back.

Just meet women in real life. It's not that hard.

yeah its better in real life. Ive met a couple pff the internet, none of it really worked out it my favor...

I gave this thread a 5 star rating because paying for sex is just about as wrong as casual sex with someone you're not married to. That being said no. I hate to see young men pay for sex for their first time. It's your first time you shouldn't have to pay for sex. That's for older cat's who don't feel like playing pointless games, using mouthpiece(lying) and humping and dumping women and dealing with the hurt feelings you might have on your mind later. Just find a girl that's attractive and that you like and make sure your first time is with someone just as young and important as you.

I wanted my first time to be "special" but it turned out to be the complete opposite. Complete disappointment l...I think that shyt jaded me feom the dating game l in general, so I lost a shytload of morale...

I read this thread while on the phone

@fre$h

1. You have anxiety issues. That's the biggest issue you have. You might need to get some counseling. I did it before, it really helps and it's free if you are a college student on that campus. They can discover shyt you really didn't know about yourself.
I think growing up I had very bad anxiety and or neurosis. Ive gotten over most of it, but ive been trying to get it out on a subconcious level nowadays...

 

[neverchipsin4weed]

I read this thread while on the phone

@fre$h

1. You have anxiety issues. That's the biggest issue you have. You might need to get some counseling. I did it before, it really helps and it's free if you are a college student on that campus. They can discover shyt you really didn't know about yourself.

2. You aren't productive. You know it. You play games all damn day outside of school and work. Change your interest like the cacs do. Start creating games and learning code instead of always playing them. Start signing up for organizations around your interest so you can build up a peer group. Start seeking out internships. Start looking for Blacks in the crowd who can hook you up. All of this is vital to your success.

3. Confidence. #2 will give you a lot more confidence but that's what you truly lack. But that's not as easy as buying new clothes for your personality. You need to be productive. That might be why you feel you aren't worth a woman because you know deep down inside, you aren't.

Follow one and two ASAP and three should come. Girls usually come with 3.

for this guy's situation, looks like 2. is the key point here. get productive, involved (in anything), throw yourself out there more. that gets you to 3 (confidence), and girls will NOT be a problem after that.

 

[AldavisAlbundyAllah!]

You got to lose your virginity going raw.

So I vote no.

 

[#1 pick]

You right

You gotta start thinking about your future. Them coding skills or skills period is what ppl pay top dollar for or you can start your own business. But without the skill or right mentality, you are going to grad and head right back home.

Don't quit when you try to change. It's never easy but it's rewarding and everyone notices it when you think they don't.