Kyle C. Barker
Migos VERZUZ Mahalia Jackson
Why is it that so many young people, (I'm speaking late teens to early twenties seem to be virgins now a days??)
I know I'm an elder breh, but this shyt wasn't such a norm back in the day. Whats going on?![]()
Technology happened.
I went through my teens without social media and high speed internet (80s baby, 90s kid)
Porn was around but it wasn't really accessible like it is today therefore if you wanted to see what a girl looked like naked you were gonna have to approach one in *gasp* real life and finesse her in real time.
These kids don't know what it's like to post up at the mall and approach women asking for thier digits. Rejection was part of the game but when one would say yes it felt good walking to the nearest store to get a pen and paper.
They'd rather browse IG and facebook and send friend requests. That may sound like a sweet deal but you really can't build any confidence with that approach because 1.) your intentions aren't front and center with a friend request and 2.) You don't build a tolerance for rejection.
Also texting. Cellphones weren't common in my teen years so we actually had to talk to girls on the phone which is a huge part of attraction.
These things were lost on this new generation. All this pick up artist stuff was just shyt we did during our formative years.

idk on this its up too you nikka
Dude, I was combing through this thread and I saw this shyt and had to just respond right away. Sit and THINK HARD as to why you're like this and work to change that shyt. 'Cause it sounds like you want sex but ain't willing to go through the normal channels (Meeting/befriending females and getting it) and about to fall neck deep into being a John once you get your first vaginal nut and look to chase that high again.

