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Why is it that so many young people, (I'm speaking late teens to early twenties seem to be virgins now a days??)

I know I'm an elder breh, but this shyt wasn't such a norm back in the day. Whats going on? :dwillhuh:


Technology happened.


I went through my teens without social media and high speed internet (80s baby, 90s kid)

Porn was around but it wasn't really accessible like it is today therefore if you wanted to see what a girl looked like naked you were gonna have to approach one in *gasp* real life and finesse her in real time.

These kids don't know what it's like to post up at the mall and approach women asking for thier digits. Rejection was part of the game but when one would say yes it felt good walking to the nearest store to get a pen and paper.


They'd rather browse IG and facebook and send friend requests. That may sound like a sweet deal but you really can't build any confidence with that approach because 1.) your intentions aren't front and center with a friend request and 2.) You don't build a tolerance for rejection.

Also texting. Cellphones weren't common in my teen years so we actually had to talk to girls on the phone which is a huge part of attraction.


These things were lost on this new generation. All this pick up artist stuff was just shyt we did during our formative years.
 

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Why is it that so many young people, (I'm speaking late teens to early twenties seem to be virgins now a days??)

I know I'm an elder breh, but this shyt wasn't such a norm back in the day. Whats going on? :dwillhuh:

Because of Social Media and Music has manipulated the female mind so bad to a point where they are even harder to attain if you're not of a certain status or standard physically.

Dudes try to out swag other dudes.

Females trying to out status other females.

There is no "love" any more. No more having fun or dating. Folks now are sex and money crazed narcissists. Everyone seems to be out to gain something.

Women feel as if their wack ass lil sex should have a price on it.

Thus leaving the average joe and young men just starting out in life, with no other option, but to cut the bullshyt games and just pay for it.

Around 2009-2011 is when I really started to see the dating scene go down the shytter.

I have alot of female friends and have been on a ton of dates in my adult years. I meet new chicks almost every weekend. I can game one here and there, but only if nikkas who have no game knew how the scene has changed. These females are a serious mindfukk and headache. I seriously think some are slick retarded.

My brehs in college got it good. That's going to be the grandest time of your life. College is a p*ssy buffet.

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Instead of asking why and criticizing how about helping out. This goes for all of you making these same type of comments on these threads.

Virginity is nothing sacred to Men. Why are people acting like it's important - It's really not.

The nikka needs to get his dikk wet - Is that so complicated? This is not a moral argument - It should never be in 2015 or beyond.

How about you suck a dikk I can't help this p*ssyless recluse over the Internet you fukk boy
 

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Oppressivr chaunvinist fukk BRO
HUH WHATS UP BRO YOU A BIGOT BRO
WHY THE fukk U WANT TO KEEP THIS OPPPRESIVE SYSTEM ON WOMEN BY SUPPORTING PROSTITUION BRO
YOU A SEXIST fukk BRO
YOU WANT THIS MONKEY OFF YOUR BACK
THEN BE RESPECTFUL OF WOMEN YOU fukkING PUNK YOU WANT TO THRO NDOWN ILL BEAT YOU PC BLACK AND BLUE

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There was always a section of the population who couldn't get no ass. This idea that every nikka in 1987 was eating is laughable, there just wasn't online forums

Never every nikka

I said most


And in todays time
Its flipped

Most of ya not getting any hoes while the others are

Iv grown up and seen the shift in times

You don't grown men who grew up in the 80s 90s crying about they cant get women on the net(aka kent,swavvy,jamil elliot)

You dont see men shooting up schools because he couldn't get p*ssy:mjlol:


Stuff like that Never happened back in the days


Ya dudes these days just low confidence squares

Thats why more and more chicks checking for the real older men
 

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honestly women intimidate me. I don't approach them and if they show interest towards me I get away from them as fast a possible. I actually walked away from a chick last year when she was flirting with me at the mall. My nerves got the best of me and for some reason I don't think I'm good enough for women.

:merchant: Dude, I was combing through this thread and I saw this shyt and had to just respond right away. Sit and THINK HARD as to why you're like this and work to change that shyt. 'Cause it sounds like you want sex but ain't willing to go through the normal channels (Meeting/befriending females and getting it) and about to fall neck deep into being a John once you get your first vaginal nut and look to chase that high again.

Plus I'm guessing you don't live in Europe where the stimga and risk ain't there for frequenting a lady of the night, so you got bigger hurdles trying to scratch that itch if you do decide to become a punter and start paying for it exclusively. If you just trying to lose your Virginity like as if doing that will validate your life/status in some new profound way, I'll let you know that it won't....but if you trying to become sexually active dude....try to fix that hang up you got, running away from chicks that are interested in YOU.

Best of luck moving forward man.:salute:
 
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