Do a bit of research when you see narratives that are bandied about. Just because they sound great, do not mean they are really the truth. Instead, look up information to see if it is actually
corroborated with hard evidence, not just feelings. Example:
"An underreported demographic story of recent years has been the emergence of
vast birth-rate differences across the nation’s red state-blue state political map, as
City Journal senior editor Steven Malanga
explored recently. One rejoinder to the argument that red states have more babies is that they tend to be less urban. But
even if we compare big cities only, stark differences persist. Fertility rates have fallen much further in deep-blue metros like Boston, Minneapolis, and Seattle than in red-state metros like Dallas-Fort Worth, Houston, and Nashville. Based on estimates derived from Census data, the average woman in the city of Seattle will have 0.96 kids over her lifetime if 2022 patterns continue, for example, while her Dallas counterpart will have 2.23 children."
Instead what you are actually seeing is a possible shift of former Liberal White men turning Conservative, because of their dearth in access to the LIberal women around them. The Conservative men do not seem to be having that problem, if you look at the differences in reproduction rates.
"Young 'White' men are turning to conservatism—in politics and in Christianity
They didn’t see this coming. Liberals in America are scratching their heads trying to explain what happened in November’s election and the closer they look, the stranger it seems. There was a decided shift to the right among young men in America, crossing ethnic lines and shocking the political class. They shouldn’t have been shocked."
If you limit yourself to only looking at what the side you support are saying, you will never see the entire picture. You will end up being confused on what is going on among those you do not align with, because bothsides practice a form of propaganda and obscuring information from the masses.
The only way to truly deal with an enemy effectively is to understand the enemy's motivations. You can't do that, if you never actually listen to what they are saying and watching what they are doing. You wonder why White people are always paying attention to what we are doing? Well, they understand they have to know us well enough to counter us. That is just basic military strategy.