Get in here & tell us why u ain't/are shyt [self-realizations] [Daps/Rep 4 Honesty]

[The 2020 New Member]

I ain't shyt because I do the bare minimum but I'm getting better with that. I am the shyt because I'm up front with people about my flaws. Not a lot of surprises from me. You might be shocked at my life choices but I'm big on not leading people on.

 

[jdubnyce]

I seriously do stupid shyt on purpose like an idiot.

I never experienced the childhood I wanted, so im making sure my daughter gets to live hers the way she wants to. I want her to be one of the kids who wasnt like me who didnt go on family vacations, didnt do anything exciting over any breaks, didnt get to participate in any sports, but she atleast has the opportunity, no matter how crazy or outlandish it is, she's only be a kid once and i want her to live it up.

Im not the perfect husband or father and far from it, but fukk it, im doing my best that I know and an and wont stop until I am.

Sacrificing for your family sucks, but its honestly worth it to see them be happy

If you're going to be weird, dont do it half-ass, its better be all out and happy and not and miserable.

Marry someone who's going to help you become a better person, not the opposite

Be creative high/drunk, but edit sober

Everything is better with music

my first child due in the fall I know exactly how you feel

had to bold the whole post

 

[Zach Lowe]

Anything can be forgiven and only God can judge you.

Might as well be demonic then, friend

 

[jdubnyce]

You gon' regret that. Lock the porn or something with an app, limit your usage. Because when you relapse again, there'll be some scenes you'll hate yourself for deleting if you can never find them again. But such is life.

Deletion is a bad strategy you might relapse worse. Just stop watching and keep the stash hidden away. Burn it to DVD, password protect it, and store it in a box somewhere. Maybe even put a porn filter on your browser. But don't delete the whole stash.

nah breh...went kamikaze and deleted my secret folder that was hidden in my 'cisco systems' folder (wifey wouldnt have a reason to click that one)

hard drives? deleted and burned in the backyard (literally)

I feel like such a new good man

 

[onelastdeath]

I used to be ashamed of my struggle. Childhood was rough, really rough and finished off with the death of my mom

I appreciate my struggle now. I'm cold but efficient. Prepared for the world

 

[no.]

I realized sometimes I have the nerve to take my bad moods out on my parents, who love me and support me like nobody else, but never on random acquaintances.

When I'm having a bad day, the pressure to be socially acceptable pushes me to stay chill in public, but when I get home I sort of crumble and burst and sometimes act like a little shyt to people who are absolutely not to blame. And I really shouldn't just bottle in all my frustrations and wait to sulk when I'm home, because the people I'm closest to are the ones who should have me at my best and my most helpful.

 

[SemiEnlightenedBum]

i could write a dissertation but for now this will suffice:








live,learn,burn,discern,love,and for heavens sake Read A fukkin Book or 50..

 

[CashmereThoughts]

I'm an a$$hole particularly to woman and it's ruined a few relationships I wish I could get back.

 

[jdubnyce]

I'm an a$$hole particularly to woman and it's ruined a few relationships I wish I could get back.

that regret

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

_ i got a gap between most teeth
_ I'm shaped like a teenager
_ I only make $8.18 an hour
_ I stay with my grandma
_ I can't pull hood bytches

 

[Turbulent]

I realized sometimes I have the nerve to take my bad moods out on my parents, who love me and support me like nobody else, but never on random acquaintances.

When I'm having a bad day, the pressure to be socially acceptable pushes me to stay chill in public, but when I get home I sort of crumble and burst and sometimes act like a little shyt to people who are absolutely not to blame. And I really shouldn't just bottle in all my frustrations and wait to sulk when I'm home, because the people I'm closest to are the ones who should have me at my best and my most helpful.

i used to do that. and i'd feel a lot of guilt afterwards. one trick i'd give you is to check the people who upset you/deserve it, right away and not to care too much about how it will be perceived. checking them doesn't mean being mean with them. just means being fair with them. you can do this while still being tactful

I ain't shyt because i can be very prejudice at times and yet i always hope people aren't that way with me...

 

[hotbeezie]

I think I owe @cfountain money from a few years back....

Not really sure but...

But I never bring up the conversation.


I bet he somewhere reading this like:

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I'm an a$$hole particularly to woman and it's ruined a few relationships I wish I could get back.

I THOUGHT Thats what they liked

 

[cfountain]

I think I owe @cfountain money from a few years back....

Not really sure but...

But I never bring up the conversation.

I bet he somewhere reading this like:

not that I can think of
.....
I had no more use for that iPod nano anyway. but for real I was going to toss that thing eventually anyway.

you helped me get my 1st job bruh(for real tho, I appreciate it) that was worth so much

 

[hotbeezie]

not that I can think of
.....
I had no more use for that iPod nano anyway. but for real I was going to toss that thing eventually anyway.

you helped me get my 1st job bruh(for real tho, I appreciate it) that was worth so much

.........