Get married brehs...seriously

[semicko82]

This is why we can't waste time explaining benefits to getting married to nikkas who have no conscience.
Obviously women are just props in your life at the moment.
And I've been there,I only become a more righteous man in the last few years.
Once you actually love a woman,have instilled your knowledge,taught her the things you like and don't like,you yourself actually want to see her graduate.
Having a conscience now,I can't in good conscience have my woman/childs mother out there in the wind like she's just another one of these women who don't deserve to be wifed.
This is based on my own conscience,definitely not saying every woman who is married is a good woman or probably deserves it.
You guys only wan't benefits that benefit you,and are not thinking about the woman involved at all,or like the guy you quoted mentioned his daughters.
This only means you are not in love and are not ready to get married.
But if you are planning on having kids there is no kind of about it,it is the same thing but worst,and should be taken more seriously.
Its crazy to me people don't mind having kids,but are dead set against marriage


You dudes need to begin to allow your brains to make the shift into caring about good women. A woman who doesn't mind being a prop needs to be questioned as to why and what the underlying issue is. She probably is insecure and doesn't think she is good enough for you,which means she probably is not. These are the main type of women who will set you up for the finesse and cause problems. I see resentment and desperate messures in my crystal ball for you guys out here like this

 

[semicko82]

Good thread OP, the folks that know, know.

You ain't really going to convince anybody one way or the other especially on this board.

All this thread is going to attract is young nikkas that don't have a clue and old bitter nikkas mad because they couldn't make their situation work.

Or smart dudes who know women are fickle as fukk

 

[Sonic Boom of the South]

To each his own

I had so much fun being single

When I wanted a relationship I got in one

No legal documents


No kids


Imagine being 24 n married

Like u closed off a whole portion of life at that age




I traveled the globe
Been with women of many races
Have so many interesting stories





Still handsome
And doing well


Marriage is cool but I wouldn't advise doing it until after u fully experienced life

 

[Gonzo]

that all there is? I feel sad for you if your whole life revolves around wife and kids like that, its literally the same shyt everyone else is doing, nobody or like 90percent of people feel like life has no meaning and you think doing some shyt everyone else is doing is gonna work? foh if anything once you do that, youre done, any dreams you had ? gone. you gotta support them.

What's the alternative? Just chasing money and material things? Thats more important than building a legacy? How embarrassing to think as you do.

 

[#1 pick]

I agree with finding a good chick that's in her 20s. By 30 if she's single chances are she's damaged goods (bitter about past relationships, stuck on an ex, has a legit mental illness, etc).

Most women and men have some damage by their late 20s. Damaged goods should only apply to chick with zero wife qualities

 

[jadillac]

A real one, yes. Thinking about going back to my old thing and locking it down...she hold it down harder than my new (current) thing... She's my angel.

Wait.....so you made this thread, but you're NOT actually married?


So what really happened is you're just emotional right now and made this thread.

 

[Buckeye Fever]

Meh. I been married almost 9 yrs. It is what it is

 

[AquaCityBoy]

how bad did you fukk up in life to not be able to pull decent women at 30?

But The Coli told me that it's impossible to get a decent woman after 30, and the only people who believe it's not are incels trying to make themselves feel better.

 

[SNG]

I find once you accept being alone and valueing your own time. Then women start gravitating to you more. The minute you start forcing yourself to find someone because your getting old you'll never find what your truly looking for. I'm 32 years old and have accepted that there's a possibility that I could be alone forever. Yes I would love to have the picket fence and a family of two kids. But there's is absolutely no way i'm settling to do it. Now to all the brehs that want to get married do you. But marriage is overrated if you fukk around and aren't with the right one for you.

 

[#1 pick]

same ol same ol.
They don't really want marriage, they just want what their friends have...
shyt is a bragging rights competition to many of these women.

They want marriage but you right, their clock is ticking. There is far more to marriage to me than just love or food. It's a family business and a community union.

 

[the bossman]

Yall supposed to be OGs and I feel like I got more game than all y'all nikkas.

 no disrespect but you need to sit down young breh. You got the typical early 20s I "know it all/got it all" pump my chest-mindset. You only 23. You're doing well for yourself with the little business and all but you still have a lot of life to experience and learn.

Once you get some more life experience under your belt and exposure to different social circles your mindset on how you look at relationships and marriage will probably change.

Like it was mentioned earlier. The richest and most powerful families in the world dont look at marriage/relationships in the simplistic way you do. It is a very important foundational structure for them for a reason

When you begin to understand how real wealth is built and maintained you'll start to look at things differently.

 

[#1 pick]

Its over for marriage and Western society. Its completely over. America in particular is a cancerous place for things like that. The toxic capitalistic me first attitude that is the norm is not congruent with a happy home in the traditional sense. Its just too Damn risky, aint no telling who this girl is or what out of this crazy society has influenced her. Its all this new weird type of relationships that are thriving. fetish hookups. sugar mommas and poppas. Weird stuff.

But. Come on down to Nigeria buddy or any old school non new age cultural environment.

We got you fam.

I was happy single but when I got marrried I really felt silly for not doing it sooner. Its like having an extra set of arms!

Yeah you do reminisce on the wolf life. I mean how can you not, going out every week scalping new chicks every weekend.
And there is always that one chick from the past that was that you may day dream about but it passes and you learn to live with it and over time the respect and trust builds through her actions to where you know you made the right choice. Worst case scenario if you need a reminder of the old life, get the reminder and then re understand why you got married in the first place. All that running around,moving from broad to broad is a waste of time and resources(your youth,money,time etc).....resources that you should be using to BUILD yourself up......but yeah its fun though.

Im not even gonna talk about the feeling of a happy little kid(happy because you AND mommy are ALWAYS around to spur her on) looking at you like you're a superhero and copying everything you say and do because she thinks you're the best thing ever. What that does to your self esteem is crazy. Its boosts everything. Your're drive, you're passion for work.......low key i think my daughter is the love of my life. Its different from moms, sister or even the wifey.

While you a bytch ass nikka in terms of Biafra-Nigeria talk, you right in this case. Eat

 

[Firefly]

tell my people all the time you don't want to wake up at 40 and look around at your people enjoying their families and getting on in life and you at the crib t\asking where the hoes at noticing your circle getting younger and younger.







Unless you really happy and that's what you want out of life.

 

[#1 pick]

I'm not marrying an american harlot. I'm getting a wife straight from Africa. I don't have time to play these stupid games with these self absorbed thots anymore

If you dont know what you doing, they can fukk you over even worse.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

Some people don't like being alone. Do you



I love my space and freedom too much.


If my one right now wants marriage, I can't be mad if she decides to throw me in a bush but she knows where I stand


Everyone has a choice