Get married brehs...seriously
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Why wouldn't you get married again?I can only say I seriously hope it works out for OP.I like to see strong married black couples as it gives me hope out there.
but I would never get married again.
T'krm
Superstar
You if see no advantage, then why waste time begging to be convinced..especially not even being mature enough to even understand?
Besides, like someone else Barack, and others as an ex: Who'd take a perpetual bachelor seriously as a stalworth, respected leader of Black cocommunity?
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Ya Sinning Mane
Superstar
i feel where you coming from OP but nah
unless you find the 1 and its no red flags for you then do you.
unless you find the 1 and its no red flags for you then do you.
Good thread OP, the folks that know, know.
You ain't really going to convince anybody one way or the other especially on this board.
All this thread is going to attract is young nikkas that don't have a clue and old bitter nikkas mad because they couldn't make their situation work.
You ain't really going to convince anybody one way or the other especially on this board.
All this thread is going to attract is young nikkas that don't have a clue and old bitter nikkas mad because they couldn't make their situation work.
This is why we can't waste time explaining benefits to getting married to nikkas who have no conscience.
Obviously women are just props in your life at the moment.
And I've been there,I only become a more righteous man in the last few years.
Once you actually love a woman,have instilled your knowledge,taught her the things you like and don't like,you yourself actually want to see her graduate.
Having a conscience now,I can't in good conscience have my woman/childs mother out there in the wind like she's just another one of these women who don't deserve to be wifed.
This is based on my own conscience,definitely not saying every woman who is married is a good woman or probably deserves it.
You guys only wan't benefits that benefit you,and are not thinking about the woman involved at all,or like the guy you quoted mentioned his daughters.
This only means you are not in love and are not ready to get married.
But if you are planning on having kids there is no kind of about it,it is the same thing but worst,and should be taken more seriously.
Its crazy to me people don't mind having kids,but are dead set against marriage
You dudes need to begin to allow your brains to make the shift into caring about good women. A woman who doesn't mind being a prop needs to be questioned as to why and what the underlying issue is. She probably is insecure and doesn't think she is good enough for you,which means she probably is not. These are the main type of women who will set you up for the finesse and cause problems. I see resentment and desperate messures in my crystal ball for you guys out here like this
Sounds simpish, but good luck
Henri Christophe
Son Of Afrika
13 pages & still no convincing arguments or benefits
I sit in meetings everyday and pitch/sell products and advertisement
& All I see in this thread is a bunch of emotional manipulation tactics and empty statements. I know the game.
"She hold you down"
"When its real, you just know"
nikkas out here sounding like my aunties... And most of yall older than me.
Yall too grown to be sounding like my sisters & aunties.
No one can give me any actual real benefits that I'm not already getting in my current relationship. Yall basically encourage marriage because its "normal" like working a 9-5
Yall just encourage it for no reason LOL
Yall arent very good salesmen..... Keep your day jobs. Seriously.
I sit in meetings everyday and pitch/sell products and advertisement
& All I see in this thread is a bunch of emotional manipulation tactics and empty statements. I know the game.
"She hold you down"
"When its real, you just know"
nikkas out here sounding like my aunties... And most of yall older than me.
Yall too grown to be sounding like my sisters & aunties.
No one can give me any actual real benefits that I'm not already getting in my current relationship. Yall basically encourage marriage because its "normal" like working a 9-5
Yall just encourage it for no reason LOL
Yall arent very good salesmen..... Keep your day jobs. Seriously.
the bossman
Superstar
quoted for emphasis! As a man love/sex shouldn't have shyt to do with the reason you're marrying this woman. How does this broad enhance your life or get you closer to your mission or goals? If she can't do that then leave her ass where she at or just keep it as a fukk buddy situation. If you legit out here with a dream of building a successful business, she better be able to show you how she can help in that dream. If you know you tryna have kids, how would she fare as a mother
As a married man I can only co-sign this if YOU FIND THE RIGHT ONE!
But finding the right one is like finding a unicorn in the north pole
Best you can do is find a good one and don't think about marriage for at least 5-7 years of good time and bad.
But finding the right one is like finding a unicorn in the north pole
Best you can do is find a good one and don't think about marriage for at least 5-7 years of good time and bad.
Ya Sinning Mane
Superstar
you da goat for this.repped for legit laughter
I'm not marrying an american harlot. I'm getting a wife straight from Africa. I don't have time to play these stupid games with these self absorbed thots anymore
talk to em breh
nikkas cant tell you one single benefit
"She sucks dikk more frequently"
Stops after a while in a long relationship
"The meals taste better"
Uhh, maybe?
"She gets sexier"
Until she stops caring 1 year into the relationship and gets fat and disgusting
"You get more sex"
Stops after a while in a relationship
"She becomes more submissive"
Stops after a while
"She gives you back rubs"
...
nikkas didnt even bring out the obvious "second income means more money"
One of the only somewhat redeeming factors
5 pages in and the only benefits I see are "shes down for you"
