Get married brehs...seriously

[the bossman]

And it's widely known amongst high status professional types (i.e. lawyers, bankers, political figures, etc.) that there are advantages to being married as it relates to professional relationships and endorsements. It's a better image overall in these circles to be married. It gives off the appearance to clients, investors, etc. that you're more stable and able to make better decisions in general. nikkas can keep shunning marriage all they want but at the end of the day, the real money in this world is run by the conservative population. Marriage is a foundation for them. They stay focused. That's how they get rich. They're not running around fukkin random hos all day long.

While meeting new chicks and smashin is fun, ultimately it's a completely waste of time and energy if you really trying ot make moves in life.

You are more likely to get invited to that Christmas party at the CEOs house where real networking and life-changing deals go down, as a married man than as a young single cat. Again marriage is not a requirement to get that success, but it can make shyt a lot easier.

 

[wtfyomom]

try reading my post again because you're all over the place and didn't really get it. where in my post did I say you need to be married or have kids to travel?

Look at many of the most current influential black people right now:
Obama
Lebron
Ryan Coogler
David Steward (founder of one of the biggest IT companies in the world)

The role Michael Jackson's mom played in her marriage. All married. It's not a coincidence. Marriage gives you a certain level of foundation or structure from which you can build a legacy on. Sure you can be single and still do your thing, but let's not act like marriage is some type of roadblock or obstacle to making a major impact in society. In fact it's like the opposite.

its not an obstacle but i dont think its necessary. i feel its almost like a step below having to be religious to succeed, let one of these politicians be married with a family etc everything perfect but get up there and say hes an atheist and see what happens. its not marriage itself that makes you successful or makes those people successful. i just think the appearance of a happy marriage makes society turst them more. but most people at the top do not have normal marriages at all. they be cheating etc. obama had to be squeaky clean cause hes black in a cac supremacist country but look at trump, being a player and a douchebag didnt hurt him did it?

 

[wtfyomom]

And it's widely known amongst high status professional types (i.e. lawyers, bankers, political figures, etc.) that there are advantages to being married as it relates to professional relationships and endorsements. It's a better image overall in these circles to be married. It gives off the appearance to clients, investors, etc. that you're more stable and able to make better decisions in general. nikkas can keep shunning marriage all they want but at the end of the day, the real money in this world is run by the conservative population. Marriage is a foundation for them. They stay focused. That's how they get rich. They're not running around fukkin random hos all day long.

While meeting new chicks and smashin is fun, ultimately it's a completely waste of time and energy if you really trying ot make moves in life.

You are more likely to get invited to that Christmas party at the CEOs house where real networking and life-changing deals go down, as a married man than as a young single cat. Again marriage is not a requirement to get that success, but it can make shyt a lot easier.

see but this is a diff argument. so I should get married just so I can appear more trustworthy in this dumb ass society ? thats not a good enough reason for me. this is why people get fukked. marriage should be if you want to live with someone etc not a practical descision because if were going by practicality its not practical. all those CEOs youre talking about all fukking chicks on the side or most of them, they just show up to cocktail parties with their wives.

 

[the bossman]

i just think the appearance of a happy marriage makes society turst them more. but most people at the top do not have normal marriages at all. they be cheating etc. obama had to be squeaky clean cause hes black in a cac supremacist country but look at trump, being a player and a douchebag didnt hurt him did it?

bingo. that type of appearance matters when you are trying to make moves in certain circles. Trump is the complete opposite of what you're advocating tho. He's a billionaire. #GMB crew says he should be traveling the world, fukking random hos all day. giving them nothing but dikk and bubblegum. Instead he is married with kids. He will probably be dead in 15-20 years but he's made his mark and already has things lined up to pass the empire down to his kids. His impact will forever be left on the world as much of a racist piece of shyt as he is

 

[the bossman]

see but this is a diff argument. so I should get married just so I can appear more trustworthy in this dumb ass society ? thats not a good enough reason for me. this is why people get fukked. marriage should be if you want to live with someone etc not a practical descision because if were going by practicality its not practical. all those CEOs youre talking about all fukking chicks on the side or most of them, they just show up to cocktail parties with their wives.

people get married for all types of different reasons. you should get married only IF you want to breh. if you don't then don't. it's really that simple. you seem to only focus on the negative aspects of it, so it probably wouldn't work for you anyway

 

[semicko82]

And it's widely known amongst high status professional types (i.e. lawyers, bankers, political figures, etc.) that there are advantages to being married as it relates to professional relationships and endorsements. It's a better image overall in these circles to be married. It gives off the appearance to clients, investors, etc. that you're more stable and able to make better decisions in general. nikkas can keep shunning marriage all they want but at the end of the day, the real money in this world is run by the conservative population. Marriage is a foundation for them. They stay focused. That's how they get rich. They're not running around fukkin random hos all day long.

While meeting new chicks and smashin is fun, ultimately it's a completely waste of time and energy if you really trying ot make moves in life.

You are more likely to get invited to that Christmas party at the CEOs house where real networking and life-changing deals go down, as a married man than as a young single cat. Again marriage is not a requirement to get that success, but it can make shyt a lot easier.

Yep get married for business reasons not emotional bs

 

[Taadow]

...there's nothing else out there.

ROFL, there's literally a WHOLE WORLD FULL OF OTHER THINGS out there...

 

[YouGots2Chill]

Im actually trying to leave my girl right now and we live together! Not even thinking about getting married. Im 35 and I just wanna fukk girls till im 50 and maybe will see about a real one haha

 

[Balla]

Girls wait until they out they prime to settle down, why not us? Not our fault we have longer primes.

What made you wanna get back in the game anyway?

Im actually trying to leave my girl right now and we live together! Not even thinking about getting married. Im 35 and I just wanna fukk girls till im 50 and maybe will see about a real one haha

 

[SeveroDrgnfli]

I'm 30...find you a real one...and hold her the fukk down...

It's fukking horrible out here...these females are nothing but pretty packages.

Again if you find a real one...hold her down and marry her. This player shyt...it gets old...and the game gets lonely and cold .

Do not wait too long to get married .There's a reason a girl is 30 and not married.

Life is not about money...it's about loving your Earth and your seeds. It's about family. It's about REAL friends.

I've gone on too long but the short of it is don't wait to be married, don't wait to have kids...there's nothing else out there.

I'm 30 and I co-sign this message.

 

[Voice of Reason]

A man's best years are in his 50's and it's only getting better - don't let women driven publications fool you.

Stay. Away. From Marriage.

What

 

[QuintessentialMan]

Its over for marriage and Western society. Its completely over. America in particular is a cancerous place for things like that. The toxic capitalistic me first attitude that is the norm is not congruent with a happy home in the traditional sense. Its just too Damn risky, aint no telling who this girl is or what out of this crazy society has influenced her. Its all this new weird type of relationships that are thriving. fetish hookups. sugar mommas and poppas. Weird stuff.

But. Come on down to Nigeria buddy or any old school non new age cultural environment.

We got you fam.

I was happy single but when I got marrried I really felt silly for not doing it sooner. Its like having an extra set of arms!

Yeah you do reminisce on the wolf life. I mean how can you not, going out every week scalping new chicks every weekend.
And there is always that one chick from the past that was that you may day dream about but it passes and you learn to live with it and over time the respect and trust builds through her actions to where you know you made the right choice. Worst case scenario if you need a reminder of the old life, get the reminder and then re understand why you got married in the first place. All that running around,moving from broad to broad is a waste of time and resources(your youth,money,time etc).....resources that you should be using to BUILD yourself up......but yeah its fun though.

Im not even gonna talk about the feeling of a happy little kid(happy because you AND mommy are ALWAYS around to spur her on) looking at you like you're a superhero and copying everything you say and do because she thinks you're the best thing ever. What that does to your self esteem is crazy. Its boosts everything. Your're drive, you're passion for work.......low key i think my daughter is the love of my life. Its different from moms, sister or even the wifey.

 

[Atlrocafella]

My uncle,who’s been married, divorced and currently married again, keeps telling me that I got the keys and to not let any woman pressure me into marriage. The power dynamic really shifts as a man gets into his 30s vs when a single woman creeps into her 30’s.

 

[Chrishaune]

There's nothing on the other side of the state breh. Montgomery is in central Alabama, Birmingham, Huntsville, and Madison are North. Mobile is down South. Phoenix city and Auburn are east.... You live in the backwoods of Alabama or something man.

I live in Huntsville.... I'm from Demopolis... What do you need to know?

 

[Flywin Lannister]

A real one, yes. Thinking about going back to my old thing and locking it down...she hold it down harder than my new (current) thing... She's my angel.

Have no loyalty

Aspire to be married