Get married brehs...seriously

[Jerz-2]

Your willing to sign a marriage certificate? And give a woman all that power over you? A woman who could change at any time?

See, this right here is the problem...the PERCEPTION of what marriage entails.

People got the institution of marriage fukked up, f'real....

 

[Jerz-2]

Ya'll sound hurt...damaged even.

Yeah...they'll never admit that though, breh.

 

[Entropy Fan]

See, this right here is the problem...the PERCEPTION of what marriage entails.

People got the institution of marriage fukked up, f'real....

Explain what I said that was wrong


Edit: at unmarried women dapping u. Y'all want so bad for marriage to stay as it is and for men to just agree to an unfavorable dynamic. Y'all are single for a reason

 

[Entropy Fan]

Why do women try and shame you when men point out of how disadvantaged they are in modern marriage? Y'all are trifling bloodsuckers to want it to stay that way.

May y'all stay eternally lonely

 

[Entropy Fan]

Yeah...they'll never admit that though, breh.

Most men and women in this country are damaged yet women still want marriage and men don't.

Wonder why

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Most men and women in this country are damaged yet women still want marriage and men don't.

Wonder why

Women want marriage because of commitment,emotional bonding .Most of times happy family for kids all that other stuff .......but real reason they want marriage is for status to brag and compare to homegirls .Most importantly women want a man to take care of them.I might catch flack for this but there is a reason you never see a Groom magazine in a man's bathroom.Have you ever heard a man say "I can't wait to wear that tux on my wedding day"

 

[Cynic]

I agree, especially having worked across the world and seen the elite of many different cultures. Marriage to them is as much as a transaction and a means to solidify wealth, power, and allegiance as some lovey dovey ceremony.

Next time we have a Coli topic on the Black wealth gap or the lack of intergenerational mobility, I am going to call out you "marriage is for idiots" dudes who start spouting about only WS as being the sole and only problem. Doubtless WS is a huge issue but we aren't helping ourselves by having no family level social organization. If you aren't getting married your baller money is going to your favorite charity, greedy relatives, baby mama's kids, or the State.

I wouldn't tell anyone to get married before their late 20s since they need to build a foundation, see the world, etc. though. @CorporateTrapper has at least 5-7 years before he even considers it.

You can garner wealth then adopt/have surrogate children if that is of importance to you.

 

[TaxCollector13459]

Study the moms and aunts physic and you will get an idea.But it is scary in how women can pile on weight easily,minus child birth.
Even whey they lose weight at some point they will go back to their bigger size.I could never wifey a chick that is built like ghetto barbie.
And if you wife turns flabby you vowed to stick around breh[/QUOTE]








Fukk all that. You think they sticking around when you get flabby and them tattoo sleeves start looking like eczema ?
Who you think started that no fault clause shyt?

She get fat, bushed

 

[Carlton Banks]

Same age as me...

i guess.. i have been thru so many bytches.. and so many situations.. i can see where OP is coming from.. and you gotta realize too.. while you coo chiiling and playing house with shorty.. what happens when shes like..

wdf im doing here... im cooking.. cleaning.. being a therapist and all the other shyt for this man.. i DESERVE more.. then what?

u jus say fukk it and on to the next?
i have lost ... (and yes i have counted).. 4 REAL REAL REAL good women doing that... jus .. letting it be what it is.. and playing the role..

So.. my point of view is maybe diff from alot of people on here.. no one is saying be dumb go mary a thot so u not alone..

im saying.. when YOU get to the point where you want one chic to fly to Jamaica with and the same chic to hit up the club with.. then you find her and lock it down.. thats all

You gotta keep in mind that all women have an expiration date. So when it reaches a point she start bugging you about marriage, that's the countdown clock to when you gotta cut her loose. Thats why you gotta have a team of hoes and not just one chick, no matter how good she is

 

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Sooner than later, all hoes is gonna have to choose from is other hoes. Keep thinking hoes is being picked up by the “good” people. Good people deal with it, but the wisen up eventually. Always seems like things will lay forever but

all hoes burn like hell

 

[TaxCollector13459]

You gotta keep in mind that all women have an expiration date. So when it reaches a point she start bugging you about marriage, that's the countdown clock to when you gotta cut her loose. Thats why you gotta have a team of hoes and not just one chick, no matter how good she is

Bruhhh facts


Hit her with that better luck next time

 

[Super Future Luther King Jr.]

I stay out of a lot of threads on the Coli

Cuz I have a lot going on in my world 24/7

And a lot of shyt I just don’t care bout to comment on like that...

But maybe I should just go head n make that “I’ve been with my woman for 9yrs, married for 6yrs, still just 29yrs old, and we happy and successful, AMA brehs” thread...

But I’m really not that type of man

All I’ll say is. To each his own mane. A lot of the worries and fears and insecurities y’all have are WARRANTED. A lot....are not.

Careful who you select in this lifetime
It means EVERYTHING

 

[BunchePark]

11 years in legally 19 total nikka get you a real one

My first baby girl just won athlete of the year and got her braces off today lol

Love your life my nikka whatever it may be

I ain't been down yet not even in prison you nikkas whine like hoes stop it already

 

[semicko82]

11 years in legally 19 total nikka get you a real one

My first baby girl just won athlete of the year and got her braces off today lol

Love your life my nikka whatever it may be

I ain't been down yet not even in prison you nikkas whine like hoes stop it already

Congrats you lucked up, everybody doesn't have luck on their side.

 

[BunchePark]

Congrats you lucked up, everybody doesn't have luck on their side.

I feel you bruh but humans disloyal as fukk every one is about the NOW