This is the real problem with the black community...jesus christ.
Get married brehs...seriously
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This is the real problem with the black community...jesus christ.
Henri Christophe
Son Of Afrika
I notice that only simps & women encourage young men to get married
Real OGs that have wives, dont encourage marriage to young men
My parents told me to avoid marriage unless I run into a six-figure boss type chick
Even real OGs that are happily married, will keep it 100 with young nikkas & be like "this shyt aint for everybody... I wouldn't encourage it for everyone... It just worked for me"
Only women & simp ass nikkas encourage young men to enter marriage for no reason.
Literally no benefits.
In fact, you actually LOSE benefits.
Yall dont have our best interest in mind. Stop encouraging marriage.
Marriage is a business with a pathetic failure rate.
Real OGs that have wives, dont encourage marriage to young men
My parents told me to avoid marriage unless I run into a six-figure boss type chick
Even real OGs that are happily married, will keep it 100 with young nikkas & be like "this shyt aint for everybody... I wouldn't encourage it for everyone... It just worked for me"
Only women & simp ass nikkas encourage young men to enter marriage for no reason.
Literally no benefits.
In fact, you actually LOSE benefits.
Yall dont have our best interest in mind. Stop encouraging marriage.
Marriage is a business with a pathetic failure rate.
Did you miss the part where I said a real one? A real woman that has your back 100% no questions asked from the jump? Like I said, it's few and far between. A lot of people talk in here like they never been in a serious/loving relationship with a person without having dealing with cheating/jealousy/paranoia she's on some sneak shyt. Ya'll sound hurt...damaged even.
These nikkas can’t answer you Breh.
Except people can change like the wind breh, take it from me I was engaged just last year then blindsided, happens every day to men in marriage.
People can have your back 100% today and then tomorrow not wanting to be with you its human nature.
I'm not against marriage but getting on the pulpit and talking about a real woman that has your back bla bla most men marry with that intent, people and feelings change, just that a marriage you can't make a clean cut without $$$
Just look at your own relationship right now, your chick prob thinks you have her back 100% but your plotting to get back with your ex
I agree with finding a good chick that's in her 20s. By 30 if she's single chances are she's damaged goods (bitter about past relationships, stuck on an ex, has a legit mental illness, etc). 
Field Marshall Bradley
Veteran
wolves settle down to youngin.... and i’m referring to the animal... be careful about always comparing yourself to an animal only in regards to certain aspects in life..
You can’t be a wolf/savage in this lane and then turn around and be a GOD/diplomat in the next
Henri Christophe
Son Of Afrika
You didnt answer my first question tho breh, lets discuss
For context: I'm 23 with my own business generating great money.
And I will be inheriting equity in property & the family business when my OGs die.
Now tell me why I should get married and give away access to these resources?
Most women cant match what I bring to the table.
Women give me all the benefits of a marriage already..... Companionship.... Sex..... Home cooked meals... Emotional support..... Etc
And I have my own spot so I dont gotta be with her all day or see her every day... I can tell her ass to go home.
Now tell me whats the benefits of entering marriage?
What new benefits will I get that should convince me to allow her to have access to my cash, my house, my business?
Why should I do that? Tell me
DamienWayne
Superstar
A real one, yes. Thinking about going back to my old thing and locking it down...she hold it down harder than my new (current) thing... She's my angel.
I agree with finding a good chick that's in her 20s. By 30 if she's single chances are she's damaged goods (bitter about past relationships, stuck on an ex, has a legit mental illness, etc).
I'm 33 and I'd say any women over 28 falls in that category. I've canoodled adn cavorted with a decent amount of chicks 28-34 in the past 5 months and its the same script, bad relationships, infidelity, molestation/raped or almost raped, wasted time on "worthless guys", break from dating or a relationship now want something "real". Can't wait to have kids and hopes to get married asap, so interested in what I do for a living, wants to text and talk to me all day long, want to know about my family, my 5 year plan
Flawed logic leads to flawed conclusions.
Y'all bitter Barrys won't get married so long as y'all are sour....
No good woman wants to be around y'alls negativity... you attract what you are
Y'all bitter Barrys won't get married so long as y'all are sour....
No good woman wants to be around y'alls negativity... you attract what you are
Henri Christophe
Son Of Afrika
I know they cant.
I got a king size bed that I move around in endlessly
I wake up to a peaceful house every morning.
I deal with my girl when I feel like dealing with her.
I get meals... I get sex.... I get encouragement and support... I get everything a married man gets.
And I have my freedom, privacy and peace of mind.
Im winning.
They losing.
Thethirdpew
Banned
Breh you really from Auburn
. I used to play soccer on that campus during the summers as a kid (the intramural fields located right beside all those frat houses).Alot of women learn how to present themselves as more "eligible" as they get older because they are trying to get wifed.The more they open up and the more their so called friends reveal though
? Its much better to be a teacher to a woman who hasn't had many teachers. You need to put alot of energy into finding a good woman you can help mold and build with while you are young. Not only does the pool of hurt,undamaged women get smaller as you age,but you as well as the woman only become more skeptical of the opposite sex which causes problems and constant doubt. The background check just gets longer,and possiblities increase that their will be something on there you won't like.
Don't think about the ones you let get away acting stupid in your youth though breh. May have to acknowledge you were a fukk up and be forgiving of these womens past too,at least cut slack where you can