Get married brehs...seriously

[Crispy]

I'm 33 and I'd say any women over 28 falls in that category. I've canoodled adn cavorted with a decent amount of chicks 28-34 in the past 5 months and its the same script, bad relationships, infidelity, molestation/raped or almost raped, wasted time on "worthless guys", break from dating or a relationship now want something "real". Can't wait to have kids and hopes to get married asap, so interested in what I do for a living, wants to text and talk to me all day long, want to know about my family, my 5 year plan

being a man in his 30's with a good career and a house

is the female equivalent of a fine 21 year old women wit a fat azz

people want something from you but the really don't give a fuk about you as a person

 

[010101]

Wolves mate for life. they are one of the few monogamous animals.

the analogy wasn't referring to their mating habits

it was comparing domesticated dog to the wolf still in it's natural state

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[Quiet Magician]

Op is a goddamn clown jeez. nikka had a mid life crisis, started to panic and made this pathetic thread.

 

[Depreciating Asset]

Really in my fukking feelings right now.

Repped for putting me up on the classical joint

But should neg for not being #gmb for life. It's a movement . Don't disrespect it because you are getting soft in your thirties. Being single sucks sometimes and being married sucks sometimes. Nobody really wins except for your wallet when you stay single.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

I'm 30 too and I'm just trying to fukk these hoes to sleep...

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Biggest bullshyt ever. No man even my father (because he hasn't experienced this) will tell me that when it comes to woman you gotta realize it's either a hit or miss

She either fukks with you or doesn't, and if she doesn't but tags along you are only doing yourself a disservices.

Not to take woman actions and movement personal, realize they stuck in their own shyt and you has a man have no place of comfort to think your shyt matters when it comes to how society views your pain or problems.

There a target on your back has a black man and you have to move in the best interest of you and those around you.

Go out and get it, work consistent, do things that amplify a better you - woman come running.

I was a young breh at 18-19 couldn't get a sister to look me in my eye. Now I'm the one having to break eye contact dealing with other woman in public breh

Too many young nikkas out here moving dumb, trying to save woman who truly do not want you to be the answer to their problems. That's shyt they have to figure out on their own, you aren't the one that caused it


nikka all of that included. Wifing a non working chick or woman who sees her money only has her own. That nikka dealing with her lost regardless

I'm so stern about the shyt, I stopped fukking with woman who didn't have real high levels of education - tech related

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If you cannot get your girl to understand why you need a pre-nup in 2018, I got nothing to say to those man dealing with woman who cannot hold their own in 2018.

There has to be a median of how to do this right, for the my future, hers and possibility future children. I'm in agreement with everyone on here that I'm not signing my life paper away to someone who can potential leave and that person should understand that

Not sure how what you quoted warranted this post.... but uhmmm... do you.....

 

[Neuromancer]

the analogy wasn't referring to their mating habits

it was comparing domesticated dog to the wolf still in it's natural state

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Ah I see.

 

[the bossman]

You didnt answer my first question tho breh, lets discuss

For context: I'm 23 with my own business generating great money.

And I will be inheriting equity in property & the family business when my OGs die.

Now tell me why I should get married and give away access to these resources?

Most women cant match what I bring to the table.

Women give me all the benefits of a marriage already..... Companionship.... Sex..... Home cooked meals... Emotional support..... Etc

And I have my own spot so I dont gotta be with her all day or see her every day... I can tell her ass to go home.


Now tell me whats the benefits of entering marriage?

What new benefits will I get that should convince me to allow her to have access to my cash, my house, my business?

Why should I do that? Tell me

The only reason I plan to get married eventually is because I want to have a family and I'm not about that broken household baby momma life. If I didn't plan to have kids I'd have no reason to get married

 

[the bossman]

I'm 33 and I'd say any women over 28 falls in that category. I've canoodled adn cavorted with a decent amount of chicks 28-34 in the past 5 months and its the same script, bad relationships, infidelity, molestation/raped or almost raped, wasted time on "worthless guys", break from dating or a relationship now want something "real". Can't wait to have kids and hopes to get married asap, so interested in what I do for a living, wants to text and talk to me all day long, want to know about my family, my 5 year plan

cot damn breh. Story if my life right now with women out here
. Plus they all of a sudden rededicating their life to God

 

[Lweezy]

Something's obviously wrong...if while with someone else..she just does not give me the same feeling. It is what it is...

This is the problem right here. Nikkas like this guy ^ here are the problem. All this fukkery started with guys like him


The

 

[Crispy]

& I tell her I dont care if she leaves me cause she wont find better [/

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

why should i cuff a female¿

i understand it's what is commonly done but why¿

Depends on you..... and how you want you to be remembered...

What type of impact do you want to leave on your family, and society as well...

What type of legacy do you want to be the genesis of....

Do you want your life to read like a pamphlet of tweets or a volume of novels?

cause please believe, life is to be lived in chapters, so that a story can be told and evolve you as an entity.... gaining wisdom in the process to pass on to others who need it...

being desirous of an ultimate bachelors lifestyle is kind of weak.... and pointless.... because it only last as long as you have enough wind to keep it up..... staying in a high school mode until you're in your 40s aint the move.....it's also trite, repetitive and empty after a while... and to keep it a buck.... most of us champion that lifestyle because we're too much of a coward to put ourselves out there.... even though the reward of having a loving family can be bliss and put us on a level of living we never dreamed of........ we avoid it for the sake of not risking our hearts broken, and potentially losing some dollars that can be recouped at the end of the day..... white America and capitalism has convinced the black man to place his white American manufactured ego over the welfare and spiritual well being of not just the black community, but his own mental and emotional well being

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

the analogy wasn't referring to their mating habits

it was comparing domesticated dog to the wolf still in it's natural state

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I mean shyt... the fact that a wolf got sense enough to try be monogamous in its savage, natural state in the wild.....?? versus a domesticated house dog that will hump 2 bytches, a lamp, and a house shoe within one hour, yet can't survive on the streets as a stray for more than 3 days.....

which state of mind would you rather possess?

 

[Lweezy]

Except people can change like the wind breh, take it from me I was engaged just last year then blindsided, happens every day to men in marriage.
People can have your back 100% today and then tomorrow not wanting to be with you its human nature.

I'm not against marriage but getting on the pulpit and talking about a real woman that has your back bla bla most men marry with that intent, people and feelings change, just that a marriage you can't make a clean cut without $$$

Just look at your own relationship right now, your chick prob thinks you have her back 100% but your plotting to get back with your ex

Bodied that hypocrite

 

[MMA]

Not sure how what you quoted warranted this post.... but uhmmm... do you.....

you said what could I possible get from here, stop quoting me breh