"Get your money up" is the worst advice to give to someone struggling with women
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ThrobbingHood
“I’m Sorry for 2025”
Breh... let me break it down for you.
As someone who was broke and now doing well for themselves, it changes your mentality and social circle completely.
“Get your money up” implies that you have to work hard and hustle your way to success.
When you get there, it helps you appreciate the value of money. You feel more confident in yourself knowing you’re financially stable. You walk around knowing that you’re the shyt and no one can tell you anything.
When you wear nice clothes and shoes, it helps aid that confidence. Now don’t get me wrong, there are plenty of rich people with low self esteem with no confidence but those people tend to come from privileged backgrounds that never had to work a hard day in their life.
No one is saying get rich to trick on women. Get rich to improve yourselves and quality of lifestyle. When you’re broke, you’re stressed, less confident, worrying about keeping a roof over your head. Approaching women should be the last thing on your mind.
Once you’re financially stable, no one can tell you shyt. It opens up so many more doors. You don’t even have to sweat women anymore. Yeah you will attract gold diggers but you’ll attract women who like your confidence too.
Yes, broke nikkas can still attract women, but those kind of women are damaged. Is that who you really want to attract? Or a smart woman with her head on her shoulders who knows a quality man when she sees one?
Hope that helps.
As someone who was broke and now doing well for themselves, it changes your mentality and social circle completely.
“Get your money up” implies that you have to work hard and hustle your way to success.
When you get there, it helps you appreciate the value of money. You feel more confident in yourself knowing you’re financially stable. You walk around knowing that you’re the shyt and no one can tell you anything.
When you wear nice clothes and shoes, it helps aid that confidence. Now don’t get me wrong, there are plenty of rich people with low self esteem with no confidence but those people tend to come from privileged backgrounds that never had to work a hard day in their life.
No one is saying get rich to trick on women. Get rich to improve yourselves and quality of lifestyle. When you’re broke, you’re stressed, less confident, worrying about keeping a roof over your head. Approaching women should be the last thing on your mind.
Once you’re financially stable, no one can tell you shyt. It opens up so many more doors. You don’t even have to sweat women anymore. Yeah you will attract gold diggers but you’ll attract women who like your confidence too.
Yes, broke nikkas can still attract women, but those kind of women are damaged. Is that who you really want to attract? Or a smart woman with her head on her shoulders who knows a quality man when she sees one?
Hope that helps.
ThrobbingHood
“I’m Sorry for 2025”
For real. It’s not a coincidence that the men who put more energy into getting p*ssy are broke. That doesn’t pay the bills.
Women will always be attracted to a man doing well for himself. It doesn’t necessarily mean she’s a gold digger. Women should find a man who can provide financial security attractive.
Why would any decent woman want a broke breh? It’s not a woman’s job to build a breh up from scratch, that’s a mother’s job. Too many brehs want to be babied by their lady. And too many women are complicit in this.
Who buys Jaguar or a Mercedes for the sole purpose of getting from point A to point B?okay breh
Luxury doesn’t even translate to reliability in the automotive industry
@Ashley Banks you are being naive, I bet you like expensive things that have no real value with how something is like a 5000 dollar purse compared to a 5 dollar purse
dudes paying 500 for a belt because they like it or a car that's half their salaries - it's for impressing others
there's nothing wrong with it but stop capping
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Taadow
The StarchBishop™️
True...but the conundrum is that they will rarely like any man for his "heart & personality".
They'd rather have the money and chit.
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
to me thats not what that saying is implying
stop putting so much time and energy into women and put it into yourself....
work on your career (money)....work out....travel....get a hobby....
do whatever you do and you'll eventually run into a woman naturally....
It's just a roundabout way of saying to focus on self-improvement, peace of mind and making sure your shyt is stable. For the average breh, these things need money to come about.
If shyt at the house is stable, you don't have much to worry about. No worries = improved confidence. Improved confidence = success with women.
While money/a job doesn't truly define the quality of a man ... as far as the majority of society is concerned, the lack of $ basically means you can't handle your most basic needs and shyt like that, thus you're likely a man of low/mediocre quality. Generally, you will never get the quality of women you want unless you yourself are a man of similar quality.
If you can't care for the basics, then in theory you shouldn't be out here dating. In practice, you never know when you'll meet that person you need so you kind of have to stay ready.
But broke brehs eat all the time. Well, too. Sometimes it's a matter of who you're dealing with.
End of the day, the point is to "get on your purpose" or at the very least, give off the impression that you're on it and hope to God you cross paths with a chick who doesn't really think like the rest of society does or well ... doesn't quite have her shyt all the way together yet.
If shyt at the house is stable, you don't have much to worry about. No worries = improved confidence. Improved confidence = success with women.
While money/a job doesn't truly define the quality of a man ... as far as the majority of society is concerned, the lack of $ basically means you can't handle your most basic needs and shyt like that, thus you're likely a man of low/mediocre quality. Generally, you will never get the quality of women you want unless you yourself are a man of similar quality.
If you can't care for the basics, then in theory you shouldn't be out here dating. In practice, you never know when you'll meet that person you need so you kind of have to stay ready.
But broke brehs eat all the time. Well, too. Sometimes it's a matter of who you're dealing with.
End of the day, the point is to "get on your purpose" or at the very least, give off the impression that you're on it and hope to God you cross paths with a chick who doesn't really think like the rest of society does or well ... doesn't quite have her shyt all the way together yet.
The advice is paradoxical then
Hacksaw Jim Thuggin
Superstar
i dont see it that way
but im a glass half-full kinda person....
i almost always see the positive side of things
Ezekiel 25:17
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I've said this numerous times, just like how dudes say 'disregard' women. You should only be getting money for your and only your benefit.
When have they ever
Get your money up is a simplified form or focus on yourself instead of chasing women. I.e. use that energy to get your money up so your life can be better.
It tends to be... and has to be... taught in conjunction with the "fukk these hos philosophy".
Ezekiel 25:17
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You have some dudes who are broke bums and still get dimes, hell some career women even move them in. If I can't get that then I've failed as a man sexual wise.
Get money, but if the opportunity arises to get at a woman, then shoot your shot. You don't want to be rich but have good diggers use you
If I go further...
Getting your money up allows you to travel more, go to different locations and expand your social circles which puts gives you access to find a better quality of woman that you might not have found if you could only go to the local club once a month.
I admit though if you don't understand female nature and you take the advice the wrong way it could be dangerous but I think brehs have explained it pretty well in this thread.
Getting your money up allows you to travel more, go to different locations and expand your social circles which puts gives you access to find a better quality of woman that you might not have found if you could only go to the local club once a month.
I admit though if you don't understand female nature and you take the advice the wrong way it could be dangerous but I think brehs have explained it pretty well in this thread.